It's only AsYa! (Part 4) - Page 7

Originally posted by: niki_12

Shreya i agree Gaffur will be a learning lesson but I think it will also be more of Zoya seeing the reality of her life and what fate has decided. Today she gave Imran the benefit of the doubt and she has been giving Gaffur the benefit of the doubt as well. Unfortunately, Gaffur is going to reject her and her eyes will open. I don't think she does not understand how sensitive the situation is. I think she does but she like i said it is what she saw and understood from Nikhat's actions. Nikhat did put up a strong show today and anyone who does not know Nikhat well would think that she will get over it. For example, when Asad supposedly "slept" with Billi, Zoya did not act like Nikhat and put up a brave front she cried her heart out in front of people. Thats what she has always told everyone to express their feelings. She has been teaching Asad that ever since they met and today finally Asad can somewhat express his feelings. Nikhat hid her pain well today and like I said even Rashid could not comprehend how Nikhat was feeling and actually questioned her. Shouldn't he know as a father?

Gaffur will be Zoya's learning lesson about her own life more than how she perceives things. Yes, this will mature Zoya because yes she has a lot of void in her life but she has been hopeful thats what she told Asad too. She is hopeful that the void will be filled by her father. But her biggest reality check will be when she will see that Gaffur can never fill that void and that emptiness can never be filled.

If we are all accusing Zoya to being insensitive towards the situation then what about Asad. How can he leave Najma's whole life decision in Ayaan's hands. Of all people the impulsive and selfish Ayaan. The brother clash during Zoya's mother fiasco will be his eye opener that Ayaan is not always right and justified. I think Asad giving Ayaan the authority over Najma's life is as insensitive if not more.

But the point is I don't think Zoya can be blamed when Billi truth comes out because there is no way to know about that.

Originally posted by: s120

Definitely Niki! I was disappointed with Asad today. I did mention that. How could he leave the decision to Ayaan who is an idiot. And what if Ayaan would have said no, don't go ahead with this alliance. And I also don't think Zoya is to be blamed. She is rushing things but Asad and Dilshad have to take a decision eventually so its not Zoya's fault. Plus how is Zoya supposed to know that Billi is carrying Imran's child.

@ bold: This will certainly happen. But I think initially she'll try to win over Gaffur because she has been yearning for him since so long. She'll stay with him and his family and when she sees herself, the kind of people they are, she'll be in for a big shock. That's how I feel about it at the moment.

@ Niki: It was getting too long so didn't quote it. See there are a lot of ways they can go about the Gaffur track. So honestly, I also don't know how they'll show it and even though a lot of us tend to say that separation between AsYa will happen when she moves to the SM. But its not going to be this easy. Maybe Gaffur accepts her but then how would Razia let her stay there is another question.

Originally posted by: s120

@ Niki: It was getting too long so didn't quote it. See there are a lot of ways they can go about the Gaffur track. So honestly, I also don't know how they'll show it and even though a lot of us tend to say that separation between AsYa will happen when she moves to the SM. But its not going to be this easy. Maybe Gaffur accepts her but then how would Razia let her stay there is another question.

Exactly!! More than separation i see emotional turmoil and if anything a mutual separation!!

I agree with you Niki to a point. See, I get that she doesn't necessarily need to be understanding or really sensitive towards Nikhat but what bothered me was that she wasn't really sensitive towards Asad n his feelings about the whole situation. She knows exactly what his bros n sis mean to him so it surprised me that she didn't do anything to console him or even give him a little time to sort the whole thing out. I agree that she makes a fantastic bhabhi n from the looks of the SBS/SBB video, everything ultimately works out but I just wish she would've been a little more of a support in this situation.

Originally posted by: s120

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3711469/kudos-to-the-cvs-for-showing-zoyas-shades-of-grey

This is a really good post

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

Thx for sharing this post, Shreya. It was a wonderfully written post n completely explained exactly wt I was feeling but also gave a new perspective rather than just thinking that CVs butchered the character. It was more that the CVs were showcasing that Zoya does not need to be n is not always right. There is more that good n evil/bad or black n white in the world.

Long views dinner/nap kay baad...

#Not gonna lie, I just wanted to tell Zoya to shut up...she was super annoying..she's saying that Nikhat will forget..get over it..move on...Did Zoya ever get over Asad even after his SR with Tanu? She did "move on" but was she actually even living? She should show atleast a little concern for Nikhat..for Asad's sake at least.. Zoya doesn't have to support Nikhat since she's team-Najma but atleast koi wisdom..koi logic tu ho..her whole conversation with Dilshad and Asad was immature and lame..not weighty at all..nothing that she said was convincing..I love Zoya but I seriously wanted to slap her today..Already juldibazi ke waja say itna drama hoa..brothers clash..family insult and what not ..even after all this Zoya wants things done quickly..whats up with that? I am glad that Asad kinda quiet her down!!! I understand that Najma is a sister for Zoya and she wants her to get her love..but mature siblings act like Asad..Asad wants to make sure that all is actually gonna be well on a deeper level..he sees the bigger picture..Mature siblings don't act like Zoya and her "lets-do-it" attitude! I can see high-schoolers supporting their siblings like this but adult siblings are always super cautious about their brother/sister especially when marriage is talked about! I know this is just a part of the plan..it's all Gul's deed but seriously..Zoya got on my nerves today!!! If Zoya had never rushed things in the first place, Asad wouldn't have gone though all the hurt that Ayaan's words caused him..

#can I boast..lol..I knew that Asad and Ayaan will patch up first and then another clash would happen..clash after another clash wasn't gonna be as dramatic..but clash again when things get better surely is more dramatic!

#saw the spoilers..LOVE the group hug!!! Awww! Asad was hugging Najma and saw Zoya standing on the bed..so he gave her a hand to get down and then the group hug..just adorable!!!

#I love Asad MORE but I do love Zoya too! I love AsYa! I was just upset at Zoya..just the past couple of days with all this Najma drama..+ Asad's teary eyes in the precap broke my heart..I cant watch him cry and get sad..so mei nay apna sara gusa Zoya pay nikal diya...but I am sure that Zoya will do something and say something super good and make me forget her involvement in Najma crap + Zoya is miss-fix-it-all..she is gonna be the one to stop the wedding and reveal Tanu-Imm relationship..

I have a question. Since the brothers have reconciled as per the segments today, what do you guys think will be the real reason for the clash that happens later. I know this clash has caused some cracks in the relationship but what is it that will further intensify the clash between the two families.

#I love Asad MORE but I do love Zoya too! I love AsYa! I was just upset at Zoya..just the past couple of days with all this Najma drama..+ Asad's teary eyes in the precap broke my heart..I cant watch him cry and get sad..so sara gusa Zoya pay nikal diya...but I am sure that Zoya will do something and say something super good and make me forget her involvement in Najma crap + Zoya is miss-fix-it-all..she is gonna be the one to stop the wedding and reveal Tanu-Imm relationship..