It's only AsYa! (Part 4) - Page 11

Originally posted by: niki_12

Hi Radha!! I'm Niki! I 2nd Honey and Devika...please jump in!! We are a bunch of optimistic thinkers! Always finding the positives and hoping for the best!!

We would love your thoughts 😃

P.S.-I won't be the only Amrika girl on here now 😃

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

hi all...congrats for making on 4th thread girls...i am still in india ,brother 's marriage is fixed for next month,so very busy and will stay quite inactive on IF... miss u girls...

Originally posted by: s120

Hey Deepa 😃 Good to see you after so long. Have fun! Miss you 🤗

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Hello girls - me back 😳

The surgery did not happen - fever is back It will hopefully happen next week now 🤢

Thank u for the entertainment at the hospital - I am so glad u girls were chatty yesterday as the nurse put the IV in my left hand and since i am a lefty it would have been hard to navigate the IF through my phone but since i have this thread bookmarked (thank u Honey for the idea) i had no problem entertaining myself😉

So here are my thoughts

I personally did not see anything wrong with what Zoya said for yesterday back at KV for she was Najma's voice as Najma was too timid to speak up.

Hassina bi issue from Zoya POV

Lets not forget Zoya is from US where joint families are not a norm nor is the MIL given so much importance as it is in India. Zoya has been fortunate that her future MIL is more of a mother to her than a MIL to her so she does not realise the significance of a bitchy MIL - and even if the MIL is a witch it does not matter for in her opinion Imran will take a stand as he proved himself. After all wasn't even Nikhat ready to put up with her?

For all those saying her comment of Nikhat will move on was not okay and comparing zoya during the ASYA separation phase IMO there is a huge difference -

After the SR incident Zoya ended up at the Madrasa because it was not love but it was her trust that was broken - Zoya is someone who has always trusted and followed her instincts - never in her wildest dreams did she think Asad would be a cheater and when that happened she had lost faith in her own capability to trust humans therefore had isolated herself. At that time she had thought he loved her but SR had proved her instinct to be incorrect - she knew she loved him - not that he loved her so when he found her at the madrasa she distant her and left for Ajmer without informing him - she moved on!!!

Before the baby issue had come out but Asad had said no to second Nikka she had stayed back at KV and tried to fight for Asad as he had confessed he loved her - but Nikhats case is not the same for the love is not reciprocated Therefore from Zoya's POV Nikhat who was strong and level headed at Hassina bi's place would have an even bigger reason to move - that being that Imran declared in front of everyone that he did not love her and was always in love Najma!

However when the baby issue came she decided to move on again and was going to move out of KV and then go away knowing fully well that they both loved each other. Therefore Zoya saying Nikhat is yes upset so Ayaan is legit in is outburst but eventually she will move on as Nikhat herself said - u cant forcefully marry someone!!!

Zoya disregarding Nikhat feeling and being insensitive

Najma is Zoya's bbf and some who she has always protected whether it was from bullies at collage and therefore getting arrested and getting scolded by Asad or if it was protecting Najma from her own brother cause she had cut her hair. Now Najma is even more dear to her than those initial days for she is a sister to Zoya - remember her line to Tanveer- she only took Najma's name - so she wants her happiness and what is best for her. She understands the other 2 sisters are also important to Asad but she has never had any contact with them - not on SR night nor at the Eid function.

Additionally Nikhat herself pretended to be okay so well that her own family was shocked and she herself gave Najma's hand in Imrans. So from Zoya's POV they have Nikhats blessing to go ahead with the rishta which had been the one condition Asad had put.

Zoya rushing the Nikka at dinner scene

Am i the only one who see the relation between her Ta Umr line and why she is rushing for Najma's nikka? For Zoya being in a committed relationship has no meaning - her parents were in a committed relation but still her father left abandoning her and her mom. So in her opinion until one is not married the relationship is not permanent - For most of us (including Nikhat) being engaged is practically that u are married - at least mentally but that is no so for Zoya - and that is also the reason she is so insecure with Asad and request him to marry her fast.

For all those still upset with Zoya - have u seen the new spoilers?😉

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3711986/zoya-becomes-a-detective-new-spoiler

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Hello girls - me back 😳

The surgery did not happen - fever is back It will hopefully happen next week now 🤢

Thank u for the entertainment at the hospital - I am so glad u girls were chatty yesterday as the nurse put the IV in my left hand and since i am a lefty it would have been hard to navigate the IF through my phone but since i have this thread bookmarked (thank u Honey for the idea) i had no problem entertaining myself😉

So here are my thoughts

I personally did not see anything wrong with what Zoya said for yesterday back at KV for she was Najma's voice as Najma was too timid to speak up.

Hassina bi issue from Zoya POV

Lets not forget Zoya is from US where joint families are not a norm nor is the MIL given so much importance as it is in India. Zoya has been fortunate that her future MIL is more of a mother to her than a MIL to her so she does not realise the significance of a bitchy MIL - and even if the MIL is a witch it does not matter for in her opinion Imran will take a stand as he proved himself. After all wasn't even Nikhat ready to put up with her?

For all those saying her comment of Nikhat will move on was not okay and comparing zoya during the ASYA separation phase IMO there is a huge difference -

After the SR incident Zoya ended up at the Madrasa because it was not love but it was her trust that was broken - Zoya is someone who has always trusted and followed her instincts - never in her wildest dreams did she think Asad would be a cheater and when that happened she had lost faith in her own capability to trust humans therefore had isolated herself. At that time she had thought he loved her but SR had proved her instinct to be incorrect - she knew she loved him - not that he loved her so when he found her at the madrasa she distant her and left for Ajmer without informing him - she moved on!!!

Before the baby issue had come out but Asad had said no to second Nikka she had stayed back at KV and tried to fight for Asad as he had confessed he loved her - but Nikhats case is not the same for the love is not reciprocated Therefore from Zoya's POV Nikhat who was strong and level headed at Hassina bi's place would have an even bigger reason to move - that being that Imran declared in front of everyone that he did not love her and was always in love Najma!

However when the baby issue came she decided to move on again and was going to move out of KV and then go away knowing fully well that they both loved each other. Therefore Zoya saying Nikhat is yes upset so Ayaan is legit in is outburst but eventually she will move on as Nikhat herself said - u cant forcefully marry someone!!!

Zoya disregarding Nikhat feeling and being insensitive

Najma is Zoya's bbf and some who she has always protected whether it was from bullies at collage and therefore getting arrested and getting scolded by Asad or if it was protecting Najma from her own brother cause she had cut her hair. Now Najma is even more dear to her than those initial days for she is a sister to Zoya - remember her line to Tanveer- she only took Najma's name - so she wants her happiness and what is best for her. She understands the other 2 sisters are also important to Asad but she has never had any contact with them - not on SR night nor at the Eid function.

Additionally Nikhat herself pretended to be okay so well that her own family was shocked and she herself gave Najma's hand in Imrans. So from Zoya's POV they have Nikhats blessing to go ahead with the rishta which had been the one condition Asad had put.

Zoya rushing the Nikka at dinner scene

Am i the only one who see the relation between her Ta Umr line and why she is rushing for Najma's nikka? For Zoya being in a committed relationship has no meaning - her parents were in a committed relation but still her father left abandoning her and her mom. So in her opinion until one is not married the relationship is not permanent - For most of us (including Nikhat) being engaged is practically that u are married - at least mentally but that is no so for Zoya - and that is also the reason she is so insecure with Asad and request him to marry her fast.

For all those still upset with Zoya - have u seen the new spoilers?😉

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3711986/zoya-becomes-a-detective-new-spoiler