Some highly irritating points in Qubool Hai.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello!!
Ever since Qubool Hai started, all I've been doing is wondering about what the age of Zoya would be, considering the past shows of 4 Lions where the female protagonist has always been 18. And then the love story starts. In Geet, women get pregnant at 18!!
So taking in all the data, 17 years ago Zoya must have been 2 or 3 years old, looking at baby Zoya. Then now she must be around 20. BUT, she said she has a degree in computer software. But no matter HOW MANY credits you have, you JUST cannot finish your graduation in a year!

Then comes Najma. If I distinctly remember, Najma's first birthday was 17 years ago. So right now she must be a little above 18. Who finishes college at 18???? Was Dilshad talking about junior college (high school)??😆😆

And what is up with Gul Mata and freakishly young girls getting married??? I know it's legal to get married at 18 and stuff but which girl belonging to that economic strata gets married at 18? (No offence intended to anybody)

Personally I want Zoya to be 25 or 26 and AAK to be 29. So Najma could be around 23, but that's still too young (for me) to get married.

And also is marriage the only thing out there which people find happiness in? It pissed me off too much when Dilshad said Najma was sharmaoing as she talked about her nikaah. I mean I didn't expect that from Dilshad!

And if Najma did go to college then what is the use of being the topper (earlier speculations) when she doesn't even use her degree for some productive work (something other than showing the prospective groom and his family that she is educated).

I didn't expect it coming from Zoya when she said "shaadi toh ek na ek din karni hi padegi" or something along those lines. Is she indicating that people cannot be happy without a shaadi.
Where is the career mindedness in this serial. Can she not go out and search for some work experience or set up a business. Is there no such thing in Hindi TV serials called girls working????
Okay, that's about it for now. But seriously don't you guys think it is going too OTT about marriage here? Would love to see Najma stand up and say that she wants to find a job! And I also want Zoya to work after marriage.
What do you guys think? Drop in a comment!
P.S. : It is just my prediction but I think the upcoming track is about who got Billi pregnant since it is obvious that it is not Imraan. Thumbs Up if you think it is Garfield or Tom. Or maybe the cheshire cat, since it is always disappearing. 😆😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Highly feminist concerns you've raised there. I don't think they belong. As sad as it is, we might have to give the Indian subcontinent as a whole another couple of decades to surpass these regressive ideologies. Until then, we can all bask in the glory of knowing that at least we are not on a path towards ultimate decadence. Things are improving. Maybe someday you'll see a show where a character doesn't need a man in her life. One day...
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But seriously don't you guys think it is going too OTT about marriage here? Would love to see Najma stand up and say that she wants to find a job! And I also want Zoya to work after marriage.


=Yes i agree with these lines. too much of marriage discussion then tanveer and razia crap.
want to see girls career and education , i really agree with this post






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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jimson

Hello!!

Ever since Qubool Hai started, all I've been doing is wondering about what the age of Zoya would be, considering the past shows of 4 Lions where the female protagonist has always been 18. And then the love story starts. In Geet, women get pregnant at 18!!
So taking in all the data, 17 years ago Zoya must have been 2 or 3 years old, looking at baby Zoya. Then now she must be around 20. BUT, she said she has a degree in computer software. But no matter HOW MANY credits you have, you JUST cannot finish your graduation in a year!

Then comes Najma. If I distinctly remember, Najma's first birthday was 17 years ago. So right now she must be a little above 18. Who finishes college at 18???? Was Dilshad talking about junior college (high school)??😆😆

And what is up with Gul Mata and freakishly young girls getting married??? I know it's legal to get married at 18 and stuff but which girl belonging to that economic strata gets married at 18? (No offence intended to anybody)

Personally I want Zoya to be 25 or 26 and AAK to be 29. So Najma could be around 23, but that's still too young (for me) to get married.

And also is marriage the only thing out there which people find happiness in? It pissed me off too much when Dilshad said Najma was sharmaoing as she talked about her nikaah. I mean I didn't expect that from Dilshad!

And if Najma did go to college then what is the use of being the topper (earlier speculations) when she doesn't even use her degree for some productive work (something other than showing the prospective groom and his family that she is educated).

I didn't expect it coming from Zoya when she said "shaadi toh ek na ek din karni hi padegi" or something along those lines. Is she indicating that people cannot be happy without a shaadi.
Where is the career mindedness in this serial. Can she not go out and search for some work experience or set up a business. Is there no such thing in Hindi TV serials called girls working????
Okay, that's about it for now. But seriously don't you guys think it is going too OTT about marriage here? Would love to see Najma stand up and say that she wants to find a job! And I also want Zoya to work after marriage.
What do you guys think? Drop in a comment!
P.S. : It is just my prediction but I think the upcoming track is about who got Billi pregnant since it is obvious that it is not Imraan. Thumbs Up if you think it is Garfield or Tom. Or maybe the cheshire cat, since it is always disappearing. 😆😆


In a small place like Bhopal girls are married early... Also if they are in med or engineering.,. They finish their degree.. But getting married in 1st and 2nd year of college is not unheard of...
As for the age of characters... Gul. Is still figuring it out..
Btw she is very busy these days... Trying to figure out who is tannu's baby daddy
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The age issues have been discussed to death long back and I remember ppl concluding ages then and somehow Zoya is 24, najma is 21 and nikhat 19. Don't remember the logic lol.

Agree on marriages thing. Unfortunately, conservative families work so. Hoping after this Imran fiasco, they show Najma thinking about career.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with u 👍🏼 Awesome post 🤗 But one thing I didn't agree with... all 4 lions female leads weren't 18...I think Khushi was around 23-24 🤔 So I'm guessing Zoya is around this age too...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jimson

Hello!! Hi!


Ever since Qubool Hai started, all I've been doing is wondering about what the age of Zoya would be, considering the past shows of 4 Lions where the female protagonist has always been 18. And then the love story starts. In Geet, women get pregnant at 18!!
So taking in all the data, 17 years ago Zoya must have been 2 or 3 years old, looking at baby Zoya. Then now she must be around 20. BUT, she said she has a degree in computer software. But no matter HOW MANY credits you have, you JUST cannot finish your graduation in a year!
The problem is the PH never explains the timeline properly. Zoya could've been 4 years old which makes her 21 now and if she then claims she finished her Degree it makes sense coz I did the same.

Then comes Najma. If I distinctly remember, Najma's first birthday was 17 years ago. So right now she must be a little above 18. Who finishes college at 18???? Was Dilshad talking about junior college (high school)??😆😆 This I agree. Gul Khan should've made it 20 years. That solves half the problems.

And what is up with Gul Mata and freakishly young girls getting married??? I know it's legal to get married at 18 and stuff but which girl belonging to that economic strata gets married at 18? (No offence intended to anybody)The economic strata has nothing to do with it. In fact, I've seen rich young girls getting married even before their comparatively poorer friends. The theory being that they don't have to work. Such is the society still.

Personally I want Zoya to be 25 or 26 and AAK to be 29. So Najma could be around 23, but that's still too young (for me) to get married.India is still majorly rural so they accept it.

And also is marriage the only thing out there which people find happiness in? It pissed me off too much when Dilshad said Najma was sharmaoing as she talked about her nikaah. I mean I didn't expect that from Dilshad!
Marriage is a social norm. Its only in the past few years that people have started to open their minds. Society has a long way to go.
And if Najma did go to college then what is the use of being the topper (earlier speculations) when she doesn't even use her degree for some productive work (something other than showing the prospective groom and his family that she is educated).
Remember Asad has reservations sending her out? She comes from a conservative family. Asad doesn't like it so Dilshad wouldn't say anything against it. Also, recently Dilshad mentioned how they've always protected Najma. They don't want her to face hardships at all. Its incomprehensible to us but it does happen.
I didn't expect it coming from Zoya when she said "shaadi toh ek na ek din karni hi padegi" or something along those lines. Is she indicating that people cannot be happy without a shaadi.
Where is the career mindedness in this serial. Can she not go out and search for some work experience or set up a business. Is there no such thing in Hindi TV serials called girls working????
Zoya is in love. She would want others to enjoy the same feelings that she's experiencing. Besides, you can't forever go alone. It gets to you sometime or the other. Don't think I'm supporting marriage. I myself don't want to get married but that doesn't mean its wrong.

Its a family drama, we can't see career here😆
But yeah, I agree that the shows are regressive. They don't think beyond marriage and love. But thats what sells so we can't blame the makers.
Okay, that's about it for now. But seriously don't you guys think it is going too OTT about marriage here? Would love to see Najma stand up and say that she wants to find a job! And I also want Zoya to work after marriage.

T.V shows in general need a major revamp. What you call OTT is actually nothing compared to all the other matter being shown.

How come you didn't talk about the women inflicting so much cruelty? Doesn't that irritate you?
What do you guys think? Drop in a comment!
P.S. : It is just my prediction but I think the upcoming track is about who got Billi pregnant since it is obvious that it is not Imraan. Thumbs Up if you think it is Garfield or Tom. Or maybe the cheshire cat, since it is always disappearing. 😆😆


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Edited by GredandForge - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Khushi was definitely not 23-24 as per the Star Plus website where it stated that Khushi is an 18 year old girl.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I absolutely agree with you.

Frankly, I find Zoya deplorable at the moment. There's no consistency in her values and opinions.

She's on an unstable see-saw of extremes - at one end she endorses wearing jeans to religious events (which is a culturally sensitive issue) and conversely she's advocating almost an obligation to get married.

It's unfortunate, because a lot of youngsters are following the show and as an elder sister, I would never want my sister to be influenced by such a jilted character. My sister loves Zoya, but she was confused by why she felt that there was a need for a woman to get married and I had to explain to her that there is no such mandate regarding marriage.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and marriage has never been a concern of ours and our parents are totally okay with that. I understand that our circumstances are vastly disparate, but Zoya's portrayed as a modern woman and yet she holds onto such medieval orthodox beliefs.

I'm appalled.

Edited by paridhiadhikari - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jimson

Khushi was definitely not 23-24 as per the Star Plus website where it stated that Khushi is an 18 year old girl.

Yeah it did but they later showed her as a 25 year old in the show...Check this post if u don't believe me 😃

Edited by LoveAsYa222 - 12 years ago

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