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Posted: 12 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Irrespective of the fact whether you are a Hindu, Muslim, Christian, Parsi, Sikh, Jew and all other religions by respect, your clothes and your lifestyle will never reflect what you are inside as a person. I don't know and I don't care what part of the world you live in , among what people and environment you grew up or what your education did to help you - but if you think you have any right to open the shutter of your mouth and tell anyone that what is right to wear and what is the right lifestyle, for me you are as bad as a frog in a well.

Every religion, every faith and every community has two clear bifurcations - the traditional/fundamental and the liberal/modern. One should not trespass the other and pass judgments. Live in your circle and don't try to dictate and decide what your religion allows and disallows. Your right to hit stops where the other person's nose begins.

I am a Hindu and I too have a section where certain clothes and lifestyle is not allowed. But my folks have kept our generation apart from it - we are free to wear what we like , live as we like and practice tradition by our definition. The section does not approve of our lifestyle but it understands that we interpret culture in our own way.

So, whether you are in a salwaar , a veil or a Hijaab - it doesn't make someone in a mini skirt , a spaghetti vest and shorts any less human , any less Hindu/Muslim than you.

You are not the dogma . Don't be one. You are going to ruin your kids , otherwise and propagate a generation that has no mind of its own.


And you are the the one to tell what others should or should not do? Muslims do tell that muslims should not wear revealing clothes, they don't force other muslims or non-muslims. There's a big difference, first. 2ndly, no hindu, christian, jew, sikh or even a muslim should feel bad cuz when a muslim preach such things, he/she doesn't do because of his/her own thinking. They say it because they are ordered by God to do so for their own good (it's their belief). Anyway, dont want a debate on this forum but had to respond since not every1 thinks the way u think. People have the right to say what they believe in.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: sujataraje

i know forum is just a small representative of outside world..i have written a long post on your thread on pg 9.people will always tell you do this dont do that...they dont know you but they know what is best for you.
dressing is just an example,,there are lots of things that people take into consideration when they are making some opinion about you..
i dont want to comment on others what they think or do but please refrain taking decion on my behalf..i am more concerned about my life,my image,my future than you all
this is truth vicky
my truth,your truth,our truth😆


True. I have been to places and hubs where ppl scan you from top to bottom because your legs or arms happen to show. If religion teaches that women should be covered ( the written code), it also teaches respect for others' thoughts. Like you said - my truth, your truth, our truth.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: immigreat54


And you are the the one to tell what others should or should not do? Muslims do tell that muslims should not wear revealing clothes, they don't force other muslims or non-muslims. There's a big difference, first. 2ndly, no hindu, christian, jew, sikh or even a muslim should feel bad cuz when a muslim preach such things, he/she doesn't do because of his/her own thinking. They say it because they are ordered by God to do so for their own good (it's their belief). Anyway, dont want a debate on this forum but had to respond since not every1 thinks the way u think. People have the right to say what they believe in.


I am not even going into 'order of God' as you follow it and i don't care who comes from what religion - Hinduism, Islam, Christianity and all others. My aim to make this post is simply to say that your job is to look after your life - follow what you believe in , live by the code that makes you happy - no matter how rigid or liberal it is. But don't trespass into someone's else's territory by imposing your ideas of morality and religion.

People have the right to say what they believe in , but nobody except God has the right to JUDGE. Its God's job and HE looks best doing it , instead of the moral taliban who think they were born with the duty of measuring a woman's clothes. Or a man's code of life.
Edited by MoronsKiMallika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84

Shukriyaa, shukriyaa, shukriyaa.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


I am not even going into 'order of God' as you follow it and i don't care who comes from what religion - Hinduism, Islam, Christianity and all others. My aim to make this post is simply to say that your job is to look after your life - follow what you believe in , live by the code that makes you happy - no matter how rigid or liberal it is. But don't trespass someone's else's territory by imposing your ideas of morality and religion.

People have the right to say what they believe in , but nobody except God has the right to JUDGE. Its God's job and HE looks best doing it , instead of the moral taliban who think they were born with the duty of measuring a woman's clothes. Or a man's code of life.



What a reply! 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90



Of course you are entitled to your opinion but keep it at your opinion. The problem arises when people make general statements that "it is not Muslim".

i dont think it is a problem, it is we who create the problems, a person who is well versed in their religion will know his/her religion better than I , so who am i to say anything whether the statement is general or not. besides , i am fed up of all this goin on in the forum . i said this a million times before and i will say it one last time.." for me my way, for you, yours" plz jus leave people and well enough alone...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: eastmeetswest

i dont think it is a problem, it is we who create the problems, a person who is well versed in their religion will know his/her religion better than I , so who am i to say anything whether the statement is general or not. besides , i am fed up of all this goin on in the forum . i said this a million times before and i will say it one last time.." for me my way, for you, yours" plz jus leave people and well enough alone...


Exactly. Everyone should mind their own way of religion and the measurements of their own clothes. What the other one is wearing and how he/she interprets religion is none of anyone's business.
Edited by MoronsKiMallika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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How did I miss this post , I was starting to lose hope in this forum, a very sensible and rational post ! Bless you 😃

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