How many of you agree with Dilshaad Ammi? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Cup-Of-Chai

unres

I swear! I saw a change in him today if it was old Asad he would have shouted at Zoya but he didn't he just told her to say Sorry in a calm tone. Which made me think maybe he knows Tanveer is upto something too? Because i could see his pain when Zoya said Sorry. Like a part of him didn't want her to say Sorry.

Originally posted by: trina2010

Zoya is not evil unlike his Bachpan ke dost.

I know I am minority today in the forum since Asad scolded Zoya not not too much.

Asad also mentioned that Zoya should respect the friends of this house and people finds it sweet jesture by Asad.

I didn't find anything sweet in his behavior and yes I agree that Asad Zoya relationship lacks trust and Dikshad shouldn't force them to get married till Asads trust for Zoya is there and Asad gives Zoya her due respect.

Dilshad is a very sweet mother but her decision has become exceptionally hard for Zoya who can't do anything because first she can't hurt Dilshad or her Aapi.

Yes she loves Asad but Asad still needs time to cope up with his feelings for Zoya.

In love you have to give all or NONE.

Asad is not ready for it.

Many people say its difficult to trust your love whom you know for few days over childhood friend whom one knows for years, but loving means listening to them and concentrate on her words at least.

Zoya said what happened between her and Tanveer and Asad did not give importance to her words.

Does that means he was lying?

How come no one felt like listening to Zoya when she said that she saw those bills herself and Tanveer hid her parcels?

She also said she found those in Tanveers bathroom.

That's not her imaginations right?

Asad has to cross that bridge of choosing between his best friend and would be wife because he certain,y can't keep both.

It's pretty clear his intimacy is hurting Zoya as well.

He doesn't trust Soya when she said the things that happened between her and Tanveer.

I personally didn't enjoy Asad scolding Zoya in a subtle way,

He didn't give her benefit of doubt for a moment also and look into the matter himself.

If he knows and playing that's different matter alltogether but I doubt it,

Otherwise I can't support a blind man who doesn't even feel like calling police for the things happening to his friend, doesn't want to enquire about his friends so called hubbies whereabouts and trusts on,y her words .

At the same time he totally ignores whatever his would be says.Her words have ni value.

For example he remembered Tanu was attacked and when the jhumar fell on Zoya he thought its for Tanu and on the other hand he comp,etely forgot Zoyas tub was wired too and the she could have been the target.

These people are good in soaps but in reality no woman can live with or tolerate such men.

Just my pov. No offense

Originally posted by: trina2010

I know most people won't agree since they feel we should understand Asad.

I understand Asad. I know about him being an MCP and also that he didn't want to fall in love and later acknowledge or confess.I understand all these but can't justify.

Just because he was less rude with Zoya today , I can't forget the fact that he totally nullified Zoyas points today and made her apologies anyway. He closed his eyes and he felt bad but DIDN'T STOP her.

He didn't ask Tanveer about her hubbies details and try to reason with the things going around ever since he decided to marry Zoya.

He remembers Tanveers love for fried Fish which he knew long ago but forgot every time Zoya does something, she does it for a reason.Everytime she is priced right and he himself? Wrong.

I can't justify such SELECTIVE memory.

If my man was in Asads place and I knew something wrong was going on I would have asked him to choose. Zoya is fictional since she is tolerating all these.

Anyway since we are discussing fictional stuffs only Asad is no way justified IMO.

Originally posted by: Cup-Of-Chai

unres

I swear! I saw a change in him today if it was old Asad he would have shouted at Zoya but he didn't he just told her to say Sorry in a calm tone. Which made me think maybe he knows Tanveer is upto something too? Because i could see his pain when Zoya said Sorry. Like a part of him didn't want her to say Sorry.

Originally posted by: nupsie

I wrote the same that why did he make Zoya apologize if he was gonna feel so bad later...can't he just chose one amongst the frend n the one he claims to love???

Tanveer's hubby's whereabouts...I thought he wud ask Tanveer about him n wud want to meet the man...but he totally let go of this issue too like previous ones!

Zoya mentioned about the factory n insurance y'day...but not even once he thought of going n checking wat Tanveer was teeling is really the truth or not!!

I just wanna know one thing...why was he so surprised wen Zoya asked Tanveer y'day to start afresh?? Does he plan to keep Tanveer in his house for lifetime???

Originally posted by: trina2010

I know most people won't agree since they feel we should understand Asad.

I understand Asad. I know about him being an MCP and also that he didn't want to fall in love and later acknowledge or confess.I understand all these but can't justify.

Just because he was less rude with Zoya today , I can't forget the fact that he totally nullified Zoyas points today and made her apologies anyway. He closed his eyes and he felt bad but DIDN'T STOP her.

He didn't ask Tanveer about her hubbies details and try to reason with the things going around ever since he decided to marry Zoya.

He remembers Tanveers love for fried Fish which he knew long ago but forgot every time Zoya does something, she does it for a reason.Everytime she is priced right and he himself? Wrong.

I can't justify such SELECTIVE memory.

If my man was in Asads place and I knew something wrong was going on I would have asked him to choose. Zoya is fictional since she is tolerating all these.

Anyway since we are discussing fictional stuffs only Asad is no way justified IMO.

Originally posted by: trina2010

Zoya is not evil unlike his Bachpan ke dost.

I know I am minority today in the forum since Asad scolded Zoya not not too much.

Asad also mentioned that Zoya should respect the friends of this house and people finds it sweet jesture by Asad.

I didn't find anything sweet in his behavior and yes I agree that Asad Zoya relationship lacks trust andDilshad shouldn't force them to get married till Asads trust for Zoya is there and Asad gives Zoya her due respect.

Dilshad is a very sweet mother but her decision has become exceptionally hard for Zoya who can't do anything because first she can't hurt Dilshad or her Aapi.

Yes she loves Asad but Asad still needs time to cope up with his feelings for Zoya.

In love you have to give all or NONE.

Asad is not ready for it.

Many people say its difficult to trust your love whom you know for few days over childhood friend whom one knows for years, but loving means listening to them and concentrate on her words at least.

Zoya said what happened between her and Tanveer and Asad did not give importance to her words.

Does that means she was lying?

How come no one felt like listening to Zoya when she said that she saw those bills herself and Tanveer hid her parcels?

She also said she found those in Tanveers bathroom.

That's not her imaginations right?

Asad has to cross that bridge of choosing between his best friend and would be wife because he certain,y can't keep both.

It's pretty clear his intimacy is hurting Zoya as well.

He doesn't trust Zoya when she said the things that happened between her and Tanveer.

I personally didn't enjoy Asad scolding Zoya in a subtle way,

He didn't give her benefit of doubt for a moment also and look into the matter himself.

If he knows and playing that's different matter alltogether but I doubt it,

Otherwise I can't support a blind man who doesn't even feel like calling police for the things happening to his friend, doesn't want to enquire about his friends so called hubbies whereabouts and trusts only her words .

At the same time he totally ignores whatever his would be says.Her words have no value.

For example he remembered Tanu was attacked and when the jhumar fell on Zoya he thought its for Tanu and on the other hand he comp,etely forgot Zoyas tub was wired too and the she could have been the target.

These people are good in soaps but in reality no woman can live with or tolerate such men.

Just my pov. No offense

Originally posted by: nupsie

I wrote the same that why did he make Zoya apologize if he was gonna feel so bad later...can't he just chose one amongst the frend n the one he claims to love???

Tanveer's hubby's whereabouts...I thought he wud ask Tanveer about him n wud want to meet the man...but he totally let go of this issue too like previous ones!

Zoya mentioned about the factory n insurance y'day...but not even once he thought of going n checking wat Tanveer was teeling is really the truth or not!!

I just wanna know one thing...why was he so surprised wen Zoya asked Tanveer y'day to start afresh?? Does he plan to keep Tanveer in his house for lifetime???

Originally posted by: poorvab

in reference to the title of the post!

if he really is so sensitive to his loved ones, why doesnt he see zoya isnt lying? if she can so confidently say tanveer is lying, atleast try and see zoya's POV but no he only sees tanveer's pov n her