Today Asad earned my respect completely!

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The way Asad spoke with such intensity and purity of heart about the first time he saw her was simply mesmerizing. This guy has so much of depth. Zoya has to match up a lot with his intensity. I am not saying she is fake or insubstantial but she is immature compared to Asad and if asked she won't be able to word the meeting with such depth. I was happy that Zoya came to know about this meeting in Dargah when Asad first saw her and remembers every little detail about her.
My next respectful moment was in spite of his loving her and desperately trying to hold on to Zoya he wouldn't do the engagement because he doesn't want to make fun of such an auspicious and serious ritual and neither does he want to disrespect any relationship. That was amazing! When he asked Zoya 'do you want to get engaged to me' and in an instant she said 'yes' his face brightened up immediately and he was happy but when Zoya again backed out he put his foot down about not doing the engagement. If Zoya hadn't backed out he would have done the engagement for sure.
Seriously I am loving this character of Asad now. Its his nature that has bowled me away. He is traditional and very straightforward yet very righteous! The love that he has for Zoya is so pure and it shows in 2 small instances, when he lied about the toss and when he lied to Mr. Dhurander about their engagement. But still he wouldn't budge from his ethics and morals and bribr any one or falsely do the engagement. We have already seen how he can lay his life for Zoya and save her in every circumstances but these 2 instances showed he let go of his principles because for his love for Zoya.
And the other instance when Rashid called up to invite him he was again so direct, he loves his brother but not more than his mother and he will never step in to that house which robbed her of her happiness. Before also he told Ayaan to his face he can give his life for him but if asked to choose he will choose his mother over him. I love this direct attitude of his without beating around the bush.
Zoya you will be committing an extremely grave mistake and for that there won't be any forgiveness from Asad. Some things or situations should be left as it is, it shouldn't be meddled with and these 2 family belongs to that category. Other than pain and hurt Zoya you will not achieve anything from either side.
Asad is a dormant volcano and any moment he can erupt and then nothing can save you from that. If you want to repay his gratitude there are several ways you can do it but don't try to push him into going there or make him do amends with that family unless he wants to. You know how much he hates them and its a raw wound in his heart that has never healed. Be very very cautious about what you do.
I know CV's are gearing up for heart wrenching drama but I am little uncomfortable in my seat thinking about it. I know it will pain us a lot seeing Zoya's hurt and pain and Asad exploding on her facewith rage but this girl brought it upon her herself this time and nothing can save her from Asad's wrath, not even Dilshad.
In my weekend post I casually wrote that when Asad will come to know about Zoya's visit to Ayaan's engagement he will deport her himself but here seriously he will try doing it. He is not someone to mess with. I know Zoya does press his buttons and that is why he has fallen for her but she has to learn when and where to do it. Timing is very important here.
This week will be a roller coaster ride for sure.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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agreed! he was soo deep

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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏👏 cant agree more on this... 👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: stacyellowz

agreed! he was soo deep

When he spoke about the Dargah encounter it really gave me goosebumps seeing how affected he was seeing her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post, lghosh.

As I wrote in another post, I too feel Asad would have gone ahead with the sagai, if Zoya was keen. For Zoya, it is still a game, she is yet to realize the depth of his feelings for her Mr. Khan. So although I wished the charade to continue.. but maybe the twists introduced would make Zoya understand her feelings and we might get a real engagement!

Loved the way Asad recounted his first meeting. That would give Zoya some pointers about the feeling of love!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasw

Awesome post, lghosh.


As I wrote in another post, I too feel Asad would have gone ahead with the sagai, if Zoya was keen. For Zoya, it is still a game, she is yet to realize the depth of his feelings for her Mr. Khan. So although I wished the charade to continue.. but maybe the twists introduced would make Zoya understand her feelings and we might get a real engagement!

Loved the way Asad recounted his first meeting. That would give Zoya some pointers about the feeling of love!

At bold blue - I wholeheartedly agree on this. Asad is in love already! He is in denial but as far as Zoya is concerned I won't say full realization of her love has taken place. Its more like craving for the attention from Mr. Khan, relying and depending on his strength, she is not aware of the depth of her feelings for him yet. She likes to be noticed by him but doesn't know why she wants it. Hopefully in the upcoming episodes she will realize why does she want Mr. Khan to look after her, to take care of her, to save her from every grave situation. It will be her reality check now,
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post !I have to give full credit and thanks to gul for creating Asad -Zoya such well etched characters who have been bought to life by karan-surbhi . Yesterday asad narrating about his first sight of zoya was really beautiful the separation that is coming is much needed for zoya to realize what she feels towards asad is love .
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Great post !I have to give full credit and thanks to gul for creating Asad -Zoya such well etched characters who have been bought to life by karan-surbhi . Yesterday asad narrating about his first sight of zoya was really beautiful the separation that is coming is much needed for zoya to realize what she feels towards asad is love .[/QUOTE]
Very very true Sam. And I also hope this situation will give Zoya that sense of maturity which she lacks at times. Its needed highly if she has to have AAK as her life partner. Maybe not always but some times when she needs to comprehend his actions and beliefs ahe will need that maturity and wisdom.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh


I think in the AsYa relationship Asad is always going to the more mature one and zoya the emotional stronger one .I think some maturity will come to her after the seperation and after she finds out who her father is but I hope she never loses her funny and nautanki streak I think we and asad love that about her :-)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think in the AsYa relationship Asad is always going to the more mature one and zoya the emotional stronger one .I think some maturity will come to her after the seperation and after she finds out who her father is but I hope she never loses her funny and nautanki streak I think we and asad love that about her :-)[/QUOTE]
I am sure that won't happen, a person's nature or character can't change completely, 100%, she is funny, jovial, happy go lucky and a helpful social magnet, she can't change her nature no matter what. In fact she will rub it off on Asad to a little extent and Asad in turn will rub off his maturity on Zoya, that is what happens in any relationship.

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