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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad's words 'bout Zoya being a Misfit were really harsh🤢...As u said even I feel as of now more than Zoya its Asad who is a misfit for Zoya..He needs to mellow down that attitude of his..and come out of his outdated thinking 'bout women. This statement was much worse than the slap..It actually showed How low he thinks of Zoya whereas the woman is quite an angel ofcourse like every other human, she is flawed but her heart is really pure. She won't think even for a moment before risking her life for her Phoopi or her family.
She has supported Asad's cousin Miriam, protected Najma from bad guys - twice and never told Asad the truth at her request. Zoya has kept Najma's secret about her bad hair problem and even tried to get her a wig to wear so Asad would not find out. << I simply adore Zoya for being such a wonderful lady..She has been a pillar of strength for his family and has supported them as her own. Heck, She even helped Marium and risked her own life..How selfless can this lady be!

...She carries herself with dignity, never throwing herself at a guy including Asad even after she sees his six packs. 😉 Haha! She does have quite a good level of Self control😆..Tbh, She is pretty much the Ideal girl..Remember the time those ladies mocked Zoya for her dressing, Ahh that day zoya earned some good brownie points from my side..Zoya being the person she is might have bashed those women but she knew it wouldn't be good for her Phoopi and thus she kept mum..Whoa!

Asad needs to learn a lesson, his thinking needs a revolutionary change which would happen slowly. His thoughts about Jeans clad women blurrs his vision to see her qualities..She is quite a gem and as they say "Heere ki pehchaan jauhari ko hi hoti hai" so he has to become a Jauhari first (not literally😆).
In the meantime, if Asad decides to turn her down, I'd be glad to introduce her to a a cousin-brother of mine😆
🤣 I would like Zoya to become my Bhabhi. A bhabhi like hers would sure my life much more fun..Asad has sure got a tough competition now😛
Edited by kajen - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

@Laila-Thanks😊 I understand your frustration with Asad but i genuinely feel the guy needs time..He has actually come a long way and its only a matter of time before he is fully transformed..But the question is whether life would give him a second chance by the time the realization dawns on him We have already seen how Asad is paranoid about love cos he feels he might hurt the girl just like his father..This combined with his guilt may force him to push Zoya towards Ayaan as he might be convinced that he is not good enough for her


I have no frustration...the point of the post is to highlight how amazing Zoya is and the hopes that Asad will wake up and realize it before it is too late.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kajen

Asad's words 'bout Zoya being a Misfit were really harsh🤢...As u said even I feel as of now more than Zoya its Asad who is a misfit for Zoya..He needs to mellow down that attitude of his..and come out of his outdated thinking 'bout women. This statement was much worse than the slap..It actually showed How low he thinks of Zoya whereas the woman is quite an angel ofcourse like every other human, she is flawed but her heart is really pure. She won't think even for a moment before risking her life for her Phoopi or her family.
She has supported Asad's cousin Miriam, protected Najma from bad guys - twice and never told Asad the truth at her request. Zoya has kept Najma's secret about her bad hair problem and even tried to get her a wig to wear so Asad would not find out. << I simply adore Zoya for being such a wonderful lady..She has been a pillar of strength for his family and has supported them as her own. Heck, She even helped Marium and risked her own life..How Helpless can this lady be!

...She carries herself with dignity, never throwing herself at a guy including Asad even after she sees his six packs. 😉 Haha! She does have quite a good level of Self control😆..Tbh, She is pretty much the Ideal girl..Remember the time those ladies mocked Zoya for her dressing, Ahh that day zoya earned some good brownie points from my side..Zoya being the person she is might have bashed those women but she knew it wouldn't be good for her Phoopi and thus she kept mum..Whoa!

Asad needs to learn a lesson, his thinking needs a revolutionary change which would happen slowly. His thoughts about Jeans clad women blurrs his vision to see her qualities..She is quite a gem and as they say "Heere ki pehchaan jauhari ko hi hoti hai" so he has to become a Jauhari first (not literally😆).
In the meantime, if Asad decides to turn her down, I'd be glad to introduce her to a a cousin-brother of mine😆
🤣 I would like Zoya to become my Bhabhi. A bhabhi like hers would sure my life much more fun..Asad has sure got a tough competition now😛


I like your post and understand what you are trying to say that words can be very harsh - at times they might seem even harsher than a slap but I do have to disagree with you there as both are equally damaging and destructive in making a relationship work.

Glad you like the post. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I forgot to add, she's even cognizant of his need for neatness - think of her arranging his plate at the wedding and the efforts she makes to keep his place clean.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad has been saying this from the very begining so i cant blame him for this as he was in bhang effect and whatever he has in mind he said along with whatever he has in heart he said it too. If he was mean to zoya then he said something good to zoya ..Asad needs time too understand that there is no one perfect in this world .. Love doesnt happens where we want to happen and love makes person perfect in our eyes . And to understand this he has to slove his childhood trauma , fatherless childhood , trusting issue (which zoya recently broke ).

You didnt made post about good things which he said about zoya his inner deep feelings about her ... I would have loved to coment on that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

I forgot to add, she's even cognizant of his need for neatness - think of her arranging his plate at the wedding and the efforts she makes to keep his place clean.



Ah! THAT actually was such a give away to how perfect a partner she is for him!
Truly she is the only one who can handle his OCD properly now. Its become a reflex for her to take care, arrange and keep things neat for him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -rajsua-

Asad has been saying this from the very begining so i cant blame him for this as he was in bhang effect and whatever he has in mind he said along with whatever he has in heart he said it too. If he was mean to zoya then he said something good to zoya ..Asad needs time too understand that there is no one perfect in this world .. Love doesnt happens where we want to happen and love makes person perfect in our eyes . And to understand this he has to slove his childhood trauma , fatherless childhood , trusting issue (which zoya recently broke ).


You didnt made post about good things which he said about zoya his inner deep feelings about her ... I would have loved to coment on that.


How about you make one on that topic? 😉This post is about why Asad does not see Zoya as wife material when in fact she is and all the things that support it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Maybe he's just not emotionally prepared to commit to a woman who can actually stand up against him.

I suppose, he thinks it'd be much easier to be with a mindless drone - in the name of his godforsaken traditions. He'll eventually realise his mistake. I just hope it won't be too late by then.

And I agree with you - I want to see him burn and pine for that supposedly imperfect woman he almost had.

Also, I really enjoy reading your posts Laila.
They're always thought provoking :)

Regards,
Paridhi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey, good post 👍🏼 well put
You have very very valid points dear. Mr Asad Khan will not stand a chance in this case 😉
she knows karate !!! ya ya ya ya 🤣
lol on the bad errr funny poetry too
What if she got him to near death situation (mangalpur). It was just one time and he is still alive, isn't he? 😛

On a serious note, agree on asad having superficial qualities in mind. Time will come when he will realize they are superficial. MSK is already here!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Zoya deserves better and Asad needs to repent biiig time!
I want Zoya to teach him a lesson or two about what the reality of life really is by going away from that house.He needs to go insanely crazy over her abscence.yearning for her over the withdrawl symtopms of not even being able to get a glimpse of that gorgeously,beautiful face.I want him to broil away as broth,wither away just like a leaf without it's water and sun and curl up in a ball like a hedgehog in hibernation,alive but in a lifeless form.
I know I sound mean,but hey, he deserves it!If and when he does realize how much Zoya actually did for his family,him,his cousin and all the other selfless acts she has done ,the value of Zoya in his life,her significance and how much he has wronged and hurt her then we're talikng!
Zoya being out of sight,out of mind will be the best way for Mr Khan to wake up and smell the coffee that isn't as black and bitter!

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