Regarding Discussion of Slap - Page 3

@ Shaz: Hey, may I just say that the DT cannot be here 24x7, so if you feel that topics are repetitive, you can always Report them or PM any of the Development Team members and we will be happy to do the necessary. QH is a big forum and we cannot keep going through pages and pages [QH forum itself has 5-10 pages per day] and categorizing topics... So if you find repetitive topics, feel free to mention it to either Jyo, Persephone or myself through PM or a simple report!

Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Adeeti10 : If someone makes a comment asking u to leave the forum , report it asap and u will find a mod note there .. noone has right to ask any member leave the forum .. so thank you for raising this topic .. it will b looked upon that no member is asking anyone to leave the forum from here onwards 😊



@Laila : Censorship is everywhere ..isn't it .. without censorship things on a public platform can go haywire .. why just a forum , u will find censorship on TV , Cinema all over .. its to make sure people of all age grps can together watch something especially a forum is about members coming together to discuss a particular show ... we r not here to discuss a serious social issue .. for that separate forums r made .. this is just a serial forum where members come to hv some fun and at times if topic is serious , then hv a serious debate but not to an extent that after a point it starts affecting us ..

If we r stopping u guys from opening any post altogether , u hv every right to say our freedom is curtailed .. but thats not the case anymore .. u r free to open topics .. all we want is topics to discuss the matter limited to the show and not go beyond that which if in your definition means censorship , then so be it .. like I said such censorship u will find in every single public platform or else how can a forum's decorrum be maintained ??

Coming to your topic on domestic violence , its a very very sensitive matter .. so unless a show is actually highlighting domestic violence as main concept , we cannot let members openly discuss it either ...(Mayb a reference here and there is fine .. but making topics on it as main subject matter is something we cant allow unless we hv a track itself running on domestic violence )

When a member is justifying Asad slapping Zoya , u hv every right to oppose the member but all we r saying is dont get personal with the member ... topic here is slap .. whether someone supports or opposes the slap ..its part of the show , so both sides can debate it out peacefully...

Last but not the least if comments r made like "if u r here to just criticise , then leave or stop watching " .. report such posts and we will make sure action is taken

Adeeti brings an important point up in her post DEV team that you must consider; IF caters to a global community and a lot of people in countries in the west have been educated in what does not constitute acceptable male behavior and as a result, the laws and rules of those societies are different. It is difficult therefore for the DEV team to impose upon us the same rules that might be acceptable within your own cultural frame work or what might be the majority of those on the forum. In order to be inclusive of all views, the DEV team will have to work harder to embrace the cultural diversity out there which includes members like myself.

Guys there is no point stretching the whole issue like a rubberband .. we hv given u the freedom to open topics on slap issue and debate it out but the only condition we hv kept here is plss dont go completely off topic and stick to the storyline thats been shown in the serial ... Slap is just a part of the ongoing serial and not the serial ,... this is what we mean ... Slap fiasco which was shown is not the main track but a part of the track but the bigger issue in the serial is something else .. right ? ... if the whole show was about how Asad manhandling Zoya , u guys could argue on "if the show itself is on domestic violence , why cant we discuss it in detail" .. but thats not the case ...

There was a show on life ok named saubhagyavati bhava whose main concept itself was domestic violence and so the mods there had given full freedom to discuss the issue .. but is QH on domestic violence ? nope .. its concept is totally different , thats the reason why we cant allow every single topic on same issue ... there r separate forums made for this purpose , so that every forum discusses based on the concept of that particular show or else there would not hv been so many separate forums for discussion ..

What happened in past where u guys feel topics were closed in unfair manner , for that dev team already apologised and gave u guys the freedom to open slap topics again ... all we expect from u guys is to not go overboard with the discussion so that things dont turn ugly again .. I already said if u had to give a slight reference of domestic violence to put up your argument ,its fine but just dont go overboard with it that after a point it does not really look like QH show discussion at all ..

About repitative topics , there is a report button .. if u feel too many topics opened on same thing , u can always report and wait at least 24 hrs for mods to come and close those topics ..

Allah Miyan, calm down everybody. Both of the sides are right. We need to discuss and debate issues of abuse and at the same time the language used detracts many from the enjoyment of the show. So those highlighting problems, please consider perspective of those who might not agree with you, and those who want to just enjoy the show, please respect the right of people to highlight matters offensive to them. I think mods have arrived at a perfectly acceptable solution and we should respect them.

@Jyoti,

Thank you Jyoti. Apologies for coming on strong before, but I feel we can work something out and stay within acceptable limits as long as we're given a chance to express ourselves without fear of being reprimanded or simply told to move on from it. Thank you for giving us that chance, it is up to us now to live up to that faith and we surely intend to.

@Joyti, Appreciate your efforts and your willingness to hear us out. We appreciate your clarifications and the chance to address our concerns about the show.

From what I have understood.. the ban on the slap topics has been removed and instead the word 'domestic violence' is now forbidden in the forum. But I have to admit that I fail to understand the logic in this because the slap does come under domestic violence... but if this is how it should be, then so be it.