Letter to BCCC - See P41 Update - Page 46

Originally posted by: rendezvousvin

I too agree.. even I didn't find any romance in that slap and neither the PH showed it even after that slap or apology... this so called "romanticizing of slap" is not at all in picture...

Originally posted by: WhiteNights.

You have my support Laila and Co. who pursued this matter with such dedication.Honestly just sitting back, relaxing and enjoying every damn thing be it wrong in the name of 'fiction' is not okay.Yes, no body raised a voice earlier but discussions have been going on against ghastly portrayal of violence against women in a lot of serials before QH. Just because no one took a step further than that does not mean you should have kept quiet as well. After all just a spark is required to turn into a full fledged flame. I am sure you will garner more and more support and I really do hope atleast something positive does come out of it. Even if nothing happens, the intentions were sincere and right and that does command respect.

Originally posted by: basheerahmajeed

Thank you for speaking and standing up for womenfolk. At every opportunity ,we need it.

Please ladies , girls, and women try to understand. The media goes along way. If you were to step out of your bubbles and look hard at the world around you , you will thank the people who had organised that letter!

Yes , so far I have watched only a few shows because its difficult for me to see such abuse. Ipkknd was one show that showed a ruthless man. Madhubala at the moment has its lead destroying a woman in any which way he can. Sigh!

And now to QH. I am truly sorry to say that nearly every woman there has been belittled. Zoya was buried! Humeira was nearly forced into marriage, Dilshad was thrown out by husband and his brother in law seem to think that it is his right to demean her.

So the hope of a man loving and respecting women fell on poor Asads shoulders. Yes, he was angry and frightened but we depended on him to be the sane male. With that slap , it was a very unfortunate let down. AND that is why all the hoo and hah were heard as a scream!

And thanks to this forum of educated, independant women ---who has made time to protest--we saw more regret and shame from the hero yesterday. That scene was well done and enacted well by the talented KSG.

Believe me this PH [ unfortunately headed by a female} seemed to think it was ok for a man to rough up a woman. I watched her last show with dismay. You are already seeing how she depicts lack of respect for women in this show. You do not want to see more bad boys.

As I said , TV shows goes a long way. we have too many young boys watching this and thinking that it is ok to be nasty, Worse , we have too many young girls thinking that this is what romance is about. So please, whether the letter is a pebble in the pond or a rock in the ocean , it was a deed WELL DONE

Thank for you doing a cumulative effort and attempting to stop domestic violence and violence acts against women 👏

Originally posted by: basheerahmajeed

Thank you for speaking and standing up for womenfolk. At every opportunity ,we need it.

Please ladies , girls, and women try to understand. The media goes along way. If you were to step out of your bubbles and look hard at the world around you , you will thank the people who had organised that letter!

Yes , so far I have watched only a few shows because its difficult for me to see such abuse. Ipkknd was one show that showed a ruthless man. Madhubala at the moment has its lead destroying a woman in any which way he can. Sigh!

And now to QH. I am truly sorry to say that nearly every woman there has been belittled. Zoya was buried! Humeira was nearly forced into marriage, Dilshad was thrown out by husband and his brother in law seem to think that it is his right to demean her.

So the hope of a man loving and respecting women fell on poor Asads shoulders. Yes, he was angry and frightened but we depended on him to be the sane male. With that slap , it was a very unfortunate let down. AND that is why all the hoo and hah were heard as a scream!

And thanks to this forum of educated, independant women ---who has made time to protest--we saw more regret and shame from the hero yesterday. That scene was well done and enacted well by the talented KSG.

Believe me this PH [ unfortunately headed by a female} seemed to think it was ok for a man to rough up a woman. I watched her last show with dismay. You are already seeing how she depicts lack of respect for women in this show. You do not want to see more bad boys.

As I said , TV shows goes a long way. we have too many young boys watching this and thinking that it is ok to be nasty, Worse , we have too many young girls thinking that this is what romance is about. So please, whether the letter is a pebble in the pond or a rock in the ocean , it was a deed WELL DONE

Originally posted by: xotiknishta

Thank for you doing a cumulative effort and attempting to stop domestic violence and violence acts against women 👏

Like you, I still don't agree with what AAK did 😵

Originally posted by: xotiknishta

Thank for you doing a cumulative effort and attempting to stop domestic violence and violence acts against women 👏

Like you, I still don't agree with what AAK did 😵

Originally posted by: basheerahmajeed

Thank you for speaking and standing up for womenfolk. At every opportunity ,we need it.

Please ladies , girls, and women try to understand. The media goes along way. If you were to step out of your bubbles and look hard at the world around you , you will thank the people who had organised that letter!

Yes , so far I have watched only a few shows because its difficult for me to see such abuse. Ipkknd was one show that showed a ruthless man. Madhubala at the moment has its lead destroying a woman in any which way he can. Sigh!

And now to QH. I am truly sorry to say that nearly every woman there has been belittled. Zoya was buried! Humeira was nearly forced into marriage, Dilshad was thrown out by husband and his brother in law seem to think that it is his right to demean her.

So the hope of a man loving and respecting women fell on poor Asads shoulders. Yes, he was angry and frightened but we depended on him to be the sane male. With that slap , it was a very unfortunate let down. AND that is why all the hoo and hah were heard as a scream!

And thanks to this forum of educated, independant women ---who has made time to protest--we saw more regret and shame from the hero yesterday. That scene was well done and enacted well by the talented KSG.

Believe me this PH [ unfortunately headed by a female} seemed to think it was ok for a man to rough up a woman. I watched her last show with dismay. You are already seeing how she depicts lack of respect for women in this show. You do not want to see more bad boys.

As I said , TV shows goes a long way. we have too many young boys watching this and thinking that it is ok to be nasty, Worse , we have too many young girls thinking that this is what romance is about. So please, whether the letter is a pebble in the pond or a rock in the ocean , it was a deed WELL DONE

Thanks for entertaining me so far.
I find this whole thing extremely juvenile and silly.
COME ON! IT'S FICTION!
If you sent a letter for ONE slap you saw in this show, why don't you object to Balika Vadhu actually showing domestic violence?
Or several other shows showing similar violence.
My brother loves action films, but that doesn't mean he transforms himslef into a kick-ass action hero after watching every film.

Nor will I turn into a mafia don after watching The Godfather(which I have seen innumerable times).

I'm still myself. Not a don..

I'm not sure if you guys have an agenda or not, and honestly, I don't care.
But what you're doing is just silly.

And one more thing I noticed, Mme Laila, that you're not being polite to people who disagree with you and your point of view.
Yeh kya baat hui madam ji?
Aap kahen to baat, hum kahen to gadhey ki laat?

Anyway, this was just my POV.
Rest assured, I'm not going to bother myself agonizing over whatever snarky replies i might get on here.. I honestly don't care..

Phew! That was long.. Sorry
:P

Originally posted by: Henry14

Thanks for entertaining me so far.
I find this whole thing extremely juvenile and silly.
COME ON! IT'S FICTION!
If you sent a letter for ONE slap you saw in this show, why don't you object to Balika Vadhu actually showing domestic violence?
Or several other shows showing similar violence.
My brother loves action films, but that doesn't mean he transforms himslef into a kick-ass action hero after watching every film.

Nor will I turn into a mafia don after watching The Godfather(which I have seen innumerable times).

I'm still myself. Not a don..

I'm not sure if you guys have an agenda or not, and honestly, I don't care.
But what you're doing is just silly.

And one more thing I noticed, Mme Laila, that you're not being polite to people who disagree with you and your point of view.
Yeh kya baat hui madam ji?
Aap kahen to baat, hum kahen to gadhey ki laat?

Anyway, this was just my POV.
Rest assured, I'm not going to bother myself agonizing over whatever snarky replies i might get on here.. I honestly don't care..

Phew! That was long.. Sorry
:P