Letter to BCCC - See P41 Update - Page 33

Originally posted by: anoo67

oho!now i get it.these samajsevikas are actually disgruntled ipk fans with an agenda.gosh!i am really slow.ab sub kuch samajh mein aa raha hai!

Laila,

Firstly i am glad that we have such influential people in our forum who are not only well networked but also know how to put that power in right use..I've a little request to you since you are determined to fight aganist violence and physical abuse..I would like to you do the needful for the delhi gangrape case..which has been brushed off the shelves since quite a few days..I'm saying that coz u seem to have such contacts which can help in voicing out such opinions which won't go unheard by the concerned authorities...I myself would have done than but i am neither aware of such larger than life platform..nor well versed bout such issue..though our opinions on Asad's matter differ but i guess when you can do so much for a mere fiction then you can sure do much more in the matter i stated above.

Before I ran to a meeting and not have access to computer for the next few hours...here are few things I want to say:

Laila you have done a wonderful job. I know you stated you don't know whether this will make a difference or not and I believe that this will make a difference! It will make writers of this show along with other shows more cautious of what messages they bring forth to their audience because they will now understand that their audience will not sit back and tolerate every wrongdoing they promote, but will raise their voice against the unjust system that demeans women and abuses them. I truly hope that 4Lions reads this letter and apologizes and fixes what has been done wrong. Lastly, I just wanted to say your effort is commendable. I am sure with more woman like you women in general will be able to fight against the atrocities done upon them.

Riya

Originally posted by mijanur

some belives by bashing a fictional character or a fictional show they can make a impact in solving real life problem.
But everyday many real life problem happening in fornt of our eyes.
and those incidents are hard reality not fiction but i see very few have courage to say even its wrong.
People don't want to waste a single second for those problem and behave those incident does not happen.

The day people show 10% attention in real life problem than what they show for a fiction show's some incident.
our world will change.Mijanpur...you dnt know us personally enough to make that comment on whether we are bothered about such inncidents in real life...thererfore I'll have you know that most of the woman here who took a stand, including myself work on a daily basis on the field of domestic violence...helping women try come out of the trauma and take a stand for justcice that is the main reason as to why some of us feel so strongly about this so please refrain from making such statements before you get all the facts right!

I also wanted to comment and say that pinning a woman against the wall or holding her tightly by the arm are forms of physical abuse and should not be taken so lightly. If you are a woman you should take everything Asad has done to Zoya upon yourself and ask is this a form of domestic violence and physical abuse? What if you were living in someone's house and the male slapped you, pinned your against the wall, held your arm tightly and told you he was going to kill you numerous times? I am not sure how safe you would feel in his presence. That not only showcases physical abuse but mental abuse as well.

Originally posted by: shaz2009

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Hey I won't hold any grudge against u ever darling.
We can have different point of views right.
Our friendship should remain above all discussions and arguements.I'll love u always Shaz.Don't worry.
I know that u adore ASYA.
I was really frustrated by the fact that part from the slap,Asad pinning Zoe to wall was also reported.That is why I mocked about it.I had no intentions to hurt the sentiments of anyone.Trust me as much as I love flying dupattas and eyelocks,I don't want another repeat in Qubool Hai
ASYA's love story is a bit dark and people need to understand it.
I'm really furious over the fact that people called the slap as violent.
Asad actually slapped the person who was responsible for his mom's condition directly or indirectly.Bringing the gender here is really not fair.
Daily soaps are fiction and not reality.
you may send 1000000 letters to BCCC regarding the violence against women and the disclaimer will protect the shows.
In this case it was an impulsive reaction and not a violence where Asad tried to control zoe or punish her by the slap.
I'm sorry but no matter how much you say that this thing is about protecting women and all,I just can't say that the slap was wrong.It would have been better if Asad had not slapped Zoya but he also didn't commit a crime by doing it.
We may disagree on n number of issues sweety but our friendship shall never get affected.
love u
Take care!

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Originally posted by mijanur

Originally posted by karan-007

Originally posted by mijanur

Originally posted by karan-007

I m not against your post but there have been a lot of things on tv in which they have shown like a guy trying to kill his best friend , a guy not treating his wife properly or a guy trying to rape n yu r worried about a slap , to be frank now a days no 1 learns anything from serials ,audience r intelligent n yeh ajeeb baat hai tv pe japaad maar dia so post banti hai to stop it aur jab raaste pe samne koi ladka chede kisi ladki then nobody even comes for help ...

Absoulately right karan.
Nobody consider hindi gec as a medium for moral education.

There has many people who become online warrior about reel life problem.
But real life problem is very difficult and different than reel life.
As a university student i saw many students of my university were online warrior about reel life problem but when time to face a real problem they run away.

Its necessary to become active in real life than warrior of virtual world.

exactly its easy to target a show n say ohh they r showing wrong😊

some belives by bashing a fictional character or a fictional show they can make a impact in solving real life problem.
But everyday many real life problem happening in fornt of our eyes.
and those incidents are hard reality not fiction but i see very few have courage to say even its wrong.
People don't want to waste a single second for those problem and behave those incident does not happen.

The day people show 10% attention in real life problem than what they show for a fiction show's some incident.
our world will change.

Pin pointing mistakes and taking a stand for the better whether it be in real life or about a television series does bring change. Changing the thinking of people is a process in which you must take small steps. You cannot take huge leaps. Its a process that takes time and what Laila and us are doing is a small step toward that process. Television shows do impact the way people thing. Shows promote a message and loyal and ardent fans watch those shows and embrace this messages. If you are going to promote something why not promote equality? Why show violence?

Riya

Originally posted by: princessonline

Pin pointing mistakes and taking a stand for the better whether it be in real life or about a television series does bring change. Changing the thinking of people is a process in which you must take small steps. You cannot take huge leaps. Its a process that takes time and what Laila and us are doing is a small step toward that process. Television shows do impact the way people thing. Shows promote a message and loyal and ardent fans watch those shows and embrace this messages. If you are going to promote something why not promote equality? Why show violence?

Riya