Baby Steps- epi feb 7 - Page 5

Originally posted by: kajen

Brilliant Topic Bheegi Di!

I loved the way you pointed out the fact that Asad is too selfish and Zoya is too selfless..and thus when their hearts would meet..there would be a perfect balance..*applause*

Firstly I am so glad that we have people in this forum who are ready to look at thing positively rather than just pointing at CV's and coming up with criticism which is mostly exaggerated.

Secondly, I won't lie but when i saw the episode even i felt the apology was little too rushed and looked a little forced but Again the man we are talking here is Mr. AAK, uttering a sorry itself is a huge job for him and Zoya is very much aware of this fact. Zoya is also a girl with a big heart..she let go of all the grudges(i wish i could be like her *sigh*) which is truly commendable.

The Black Coffee part was mesmerizing..LOL I was reminded of the CCD tagline "A lot can happen over Coffee"..Jokes apart..It was apt for his character..Its his way of apologizing and KSG's acting makes even such scenes a bliss..

Originally posted by: blessing-beauty

Amazing post sangeeta di

I really loved todays epi...they kept t simple...the apology was uncliched thats what make it look more genuine <3 Kudos to karan Surbhi they portrayed the scenes soo well :)

Originally posted by: Nishitarao

Nice post Sangeeta!😳

Asad's behavior yesterday had really upset me. I was willing to let that slap pass but his words about her mother were very harsh.

Today's apology was good. I don't really care for a tamasha (like burning his hand or falling on his knees types) Simple, hearfelt apology is enough.So I liked it

I also liked what she said about mothers..poor thing my heart goes out to this character. She has probably seen worse things life than Asad, but she doesn't take it out on others. Hopefully, with time he will be able reduce her pain which she never lets others see.

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Hi Sangeetha!I'm certainly not expecting him to manoafy Zoya with flower's,roses or chocolates,diamonds or sprinkled fairy dust...why should he?He doesn't love her or neither does she love him.He made an attemt at the very least but what I would have liked to see was him feel quiet a bit more more remorse for actually physically hitting her and verbally abusing her to smithereens.I actually thought that we might get to see him dwell on the physically hitting bit ...with scenes of him in inner turmoil and guilt,thinking that how could he have done that to a woman,he's ammi will be very dissapointed with his actions as this reflects on her up bringing as this is not something she taught him and Zoya was innocent afterall.That is the level of innocent I would have liked to see but hey...Zoya wasn't that hard to please either,a cup of black bitter coffee and a muffly sorry was enough to do the trick!...

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi everyone

So, they finally talked! Communication- the antidote for all misunderstandings made its appearance today. We have to remember, Asad is not a great communicator and once he has made up his mind, it takes a lot to convince him otherwise. Remember- mere ghaav itni jaldi nahin bharte hain dialogue? He is not a good listener either. Given this background, I was happy that he made an attempt to talk and listen today. Asad and Zoya both value their relationships but the difference is- Asad cannot get out of the chains of his own broken relationships. He wallows in his own grief and prefers to ignore others sorrows ( eg Mariam, zoya etc). Zoya, on the other hand makes others sorrows her own. This is her way of dealing with her own grief. By suppressing her own issues, she tries to fix everyone's issues and that's why gets into messy situations many times. Yes, Asad is a bit too selfish and zoya a bit too selfless. Once they reach a meeting point, they will both probably attain a happy medium. That will happen when they start respecting and understanding each other.

I think both have issues with respecting each other- not only Asad. Asad as we have seen, has insulted her time and again but even Zoya, should learn to give him space. She knows he is a private person and doesn't like anyone interfering into his space. She keeps forgetting and just like today, tries to reach out to him when he is not ready. She needs to learn to be a bit tactful when dealing with him.

Today, they both took baby steps towards trying to understand each other. I am happy they talked and despite what people might say on the forum, I felt Asad's apology was quite heartfelt and genuine. I wouldn't expect him to bring roses or cards to manaofy her. His gesture of reaching out to her, making coffee for her and giving her a chance to speak is a big step for Mr. Akdu.

Zoya does have self respect but she is too kind hearted to hold a grudge against anyone. She understood his fear about losing his mom and that's why she accepted his apology and coffee. Zoya is a great human being and Asad will definitely learn to appreciate that one day. Till then, these baby steps will help them become friends if not lovers yet.