Asad's Temper & Zoya's Silence - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi


laila, I think we have to be patient with Asad. He can't change overnight. Anger and aggression are imprinted in his wiring since childhood. I am not asking Zoya to surrender herself but if she can be a friend (not a lover), he might be more receptive to changing. Zoya should stop trying to be a helpless victim here. I want to see her independent and not take any crap from anyone. She should be his support system, not his target for his outbursts..


Bheegi, I do not see this about not being patient or inpatient. We have a terrible incident that took place and we certainly should expect and apology and redemption. I really do not see why Zoya needs to be responsible for Asad at this point especially after what happened. She is a victim of Asad's brutal behavior yesterday and she is well within her rights to demand and expect more than just a cup of coffee as an apology. I don't see why she needs to be his friend either...as for her to be his support system? I think she tried that and look what she got.

Sorry but for this story to even move forward to a friendship between these two, a lot of things have to happen or this is a show that simply romanticizes violence.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad cannot change overnight...understood, even so Zoya cannot change herself overnight too...she is how she is.

Maybe from now on, Zoya should just start avoiding Asad as much as possible...this way she won't step on his toes and won't be the reason also for his outbursts.
Also should Zoya stop infering in problems of others and she should really stop being the Mother Teresa...trying to solve everyone's problem, but instead end up making things complicated...

Zoya is a strong girl and she should stop taking crap from others...besides she is on a mission...she is not there in India on vacation, on top of that her visa will expire very soon, so I feel that from now on, Zoya should mind her own business and that is finding her Abu...and get it over with

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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome post bheegi di
u have explained things much better
zoya shud have not interfered in asad's life
i mean she was a guest bt d way she behaved was as if she owned it
her hiding things from asad n always being caught s wt made
asad believe dt she lied abt sending mariyam
i agree with ammi zoya wnts to help ppl but d approach she uses puts either her or other n trouble so she shud use a better approach
f she wud hv told asad abt mariam at first place things cud have been different dilshaad wudnt have been shot neither hospital fiasco wud hav taken place.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was waiting for your post. Asad is a man who is afraid to lose his family coz his past haunts him He has a high angry level and have no control over it. He will surely regret it later. Zoya is in some place of her heart feeling guily. Both of them have done a mistake. Today for me the most catchy part was the hug bt Rasheed nd Ayaan. Asad's eyes showed that he is craving for his fathers love but will never admit it. I have to give a credit to PH. They are showing diff sides of Asad as the story is progressing. And yes hats off to KSG^^
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well written post. You've summed it all up so well

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Posted: 12 years ago
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We all jus have to wait and see what happen next between these two, but there need to b some change in both their personality.They both need to grow the hell up, and asad needs to let go of the past, it is hindering his future.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: helen_of_troy

lovely post dear🤗


so true that Taali dono haathon se baj ti hai


Yes, both are at fault and hopefully once they understand each other better, things will smoothen between them

Asad's problem is his temper
Zoya's is her silence on important things (otherwise she yaps all the time)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sruthi_Virmanli

Amazing post! You've exactly told how the characters are and will probably try changing later, in the coming episodes.
I hope the CVs shape out the changes in Asad and Zoya slowly, and without messing it up.

Fab post again. 😃


Thanks dear. That's what I can figure out from the current state of affairs. Why would they want to depict their own main leads in bad light? Probably because they want them to grow and change as the story progresses
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Di very sensible posts as usual. totally agree with you
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009


Bheegi, I do not see this about not being patient or inpatient. We have a terrible incident that took place and we certainly should expect and apology and redemption. I really do not see why Zoya needs to be responsible for Asad at this point especially after what happened. She is a victim of Asad's brutal behavior yesterday and she is well within her rights to demand and expect more than just a cup of coffee as an apology. I don't see why she needs to be his friend either...as for her to be his support system? I think she tried that and look what she got.

Sorry but for this story to even move forward to a friendship between these two, a lot of things have to happen or this is a show that simply romanticizes violence.


I think Zoya is caught between her emotions and her self respect here. Dilshaad and her family have given her a lot since she moved to Bhopal- love, shelter, and Asad even saved her life. She cannot just leave them when they are in a crisis. A true friend stands by their loved ones instead of walking away just because they felt hurt. Knowing the kind of person Zoya is, she would never walk away when she can help others. That's how she is wired. I know Asad's thappad was uncalled for but she knows where he is coming from+ she adores Dilshaad and Najma. She has swallowed her pride right now and is staying back, praying with them. I doubt she will let Asad get away with a simple cup of coffee. If his apology is genuine, I know she will forgive him because she is a kind hearted person. I am not saying, she should surrender herself to Asad, but try to lend him a shoulder like a friend, NOT A LOVER (Yet)

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