Asad's Temper & Zoya's Silence - Page 3

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Asad cannot change overnight...understood, even so Zoya cannot change herself overnight too...she is how she is.

Maybe from now on, Zoya should just start avoiding Asad as much as possible...this way she won't step on his toes and won't be the reason also for his outbursts.
Also should Zoya stop infering in problems of others and she should really stop being the Mother Teresa...trying to solve everyone's problem, but instead end up making things complicated...

Zoya is a strong girl and she should stop taking crap from others...besides she is on a mission...she is not there in India on vacation, on top of that her visa will expire very soon, so I feel that from now on, Zoya should mind her own business and that is finding her Abu...and get it over with

Originally posted by: bheegi

I think Zoya is caught between her emotions and her self respect here. Dilshaad and her family have given her a lot since she moved to Bhopal- love, shelter, and Asad even saved her life. She cannot just leave them when they are in a crisis. A true friend stands by their loved ones instead of walking away just because they felt hurt. Knowing the kind of person Zoya is, she would never walk away when she can help others. That's how she is wired. I know Asad's thappad was uncalled for but she knows where he is coming from+ she adores Dilshaad and Najma. She has swallowed her pride right now and is staying back, praying with them. I doubt she will let Asad get away with a simple cup of coffee. If his apology is genuine, I know she will forgive him because she is a kind hearted person. I am not saying, she should surrender herself to Asad, but try to lend him a shoulder like a friend, NOT A LOVER (Yet)

Originally posted by: youth_showsfan

awesome post bheegi di

u have explained things much better

zoya shud have not interfered in asad's life

i mean she was a guest bt d way she behaved was as if she owned it

her hiding things from asad n always being caught s wt made

asad believe dt she lied abt sending mariyam

i agree with ammi zoya wnts to help ppl but d approach she uses puts either her or other n trouble so she shud use a better approach

f she wud hv told asad abt mariam at first place things cud have been different dilshaad wudnt have been shot neither hospital fiasco wud hav taken place.

Originally posted by: Salwa_Mehrin

I was waiting for your post. Asad is a man who is afraid to lose his family coz his past haunts him He has a high angry level and have no control over it. He will surely regret it later. Zoya is in some place of her heart feeling guily. Both of them have done a mistake. Today for me the most catchy part was the hug bt Rasheed nd Ayaan. Asad's eyes showed that he is craving for his fathers love but will never admit it. I have to give a credit to PH. They are showing diff sides of Asad as the story is progressing. And yes hats off to KSG^^

Originally posted by: latanzia

We all jus have to wait and see what happen next between these two, but there need to b some change in both their personality.They both need to grow the hell up, and asad needs to let go of the past, it is hindering his future.

Originally posted by: ras224

oh girl how well do u wrte?😲...i mean i'm in luv wid ur writings😳
i so agree wid u on wat u insighted abt asad's character...he's flawed & how there will b a change in growth of his character is wat underlies in da story

Zoya, on the other hand has played her part in escalating his temper and distrust in general. She is supposedly a very brave and stoic girl but by staying silent and doing things behind his back, she just adds fuel to his fiery temperament. Once she becomes more fearless and confides in Asad upfront, I am sure he will learn to trust her and tone down his anger.

Taali dono haathon se baj ti hai

Both Asad and Zoya need each other, they can be the best of friends and each other's 'hamdard' They just need to change a little bit...She needs to speak upfront and communicate directly with him and he needs to learn to tone down his temper.
i just simply 2nd on da above lines dat u hv written👍🏼

Originally posted by: Laila2009

From the post I understood you to mean Asad. I do not see friendship or love possible for any woman who has even an element of self-respect...so he saved my life - that does not mean it gives him permission to slap me. We have to remember that. I just find it very hard for a woman to embrace a man as a lover or a friend who has slapped and demeaned her. Everyone is entitled to forgiveness but it has to be earned and cups of coffee are not the answer.