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Laila2009 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Keanufan

@Laila U r a BRILLLIANTTT! Writer!!! I am with you! And hope u garner more support!


Hey Keanufan - thank you - from K fan to another. 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I dont understand why this is not being shared on Qubool Hai & 4 Lions FB page where the admin responds very fast.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: I_Dont_Know

Do you think that the writer has this much brain?

The man, who even didn't feel gulity after slapping a girl, I can't expect anything from him!
I will not justify the slap but can think of giving Asad a chance keeping in mind the circumstances which made him react that way...
I think there will be a short scene where Asad will say "sorry" then chalo ishq ladaye with Mitwa ishq pe jor nhi.
😡

Nope no sorry directly coffee...
basically the coffee Asad will get for Zoya has a magic portion mixed in it...
who ever she see's after drinking that coffee she will fall in luv with that guy and hence AsYa will fall for each other 😃

I can't understand what they are trying to show! Zoya is a very much educated, modern girl, still sometimes OTT! What about her self respect! I just wanna see that after returning of Dilshad in house, she is leaving that house!
I don't think she'll leave the house bcoz at the moment, her first priority is Dishad and not her self respect, she should prob. ignore Asad to the core and give him a taste of his own medicine...
The biggest prob out here is that since the start they have shown Asad a lil judgmental whc isnt right not in the century whr we live

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Posted: 12 years ago
#74

Hi Laila,

Nice post. This is what I Ifelt.

I would have Asad learn the truth from Mariyam about what really happened and how she ended up at the house - that would be the first step.

Asad always learns the truth. So, I expect this to happen sometime or the other.

But looking at his character, Asad will not do anything as he has the biggest ego. The issue will not be brought to the forefront.

Asad did not react previously because he thought Zoya was WRONG. That misconception being cleared, he will apologise (Like he did with the Akram episode, provided she does not go off on a tangent when he does that- I think she will patient with him and will not create a scene when he apologises..)

I would want Zoya to leave, but she cannot and will not leave until she knows what happens to Dilshaad. Zoya has to be shown to have some dignity - she has no plans about where she will live other than some hotel and she is not telling her family.

Once Dilshaad is fine, then at the hospital, she should let Dilshaad know she has to leave - make up some excuse.

Zoya has dignity always. And she does not have to leave to prove her point. She is not going to leave so that he can come after her. Zoya is not Asad's guest. She is Mr. Khan's Ammi's guest. And I really hope she curbs down this lying business. Too many white lies can put her in a lot of trouble again.

Dilshaad tells Asad Zoya is leaving. Asad tells his mother what happens. She is disappointed and devastated at what her son has done.

Again, I am hoping Asad does not bring things to this level. He is his Ammi's son and it'd shame her that he could not even apologise for what he did. She will be shocked at what he had done (the slap) and even more appalled at what he had not done(not apologised)

.Personally, I'll be very angry with the writer if Asad does not make amends soon- it does not even have to be him knowing the truth. He should simply apologise once he has cooled off.

THIS IS WHAT I PREFER.

An UNCONDITIONAL APOLOGY- 'I am sorry. I should never have deteriorated to that level. Forgive me for becoming a beast...' Well, he may not say that dialogue, but I want him to apologise even without knowing the truth.

Asad: "What do i do now? I am ashamed of what I have done. I can't even look at her face."

If things come to this, Ms. Gul is going to get a write up from me about how mothers should raise their sons.😡

Now, of course in Indian style drama, Zoya will say yes, but I hope not without...the following:

You know Mr. Khan, I was always right about you...you don't respect women but most of all you do not respect or even like me. I am a thorn in your side and everything you despise, but what you did there, was completely uncalled for. I would never put the lives of your family in danger and neither did I disobey your request. But your preconceptions of me clearly have overruled your ability to think rationally. For me, I appreciate the apology and the repentance but then tomorrow when I spill something or do something else, you will be down my throat again criticizing me once again. What can I say Mr. Khan, I am who I am and that is something you can never accept or like.

Zoya will not say this. For one, it is too long a dialogue😆

.Secondly, Zoya has made this point to him already before.So has his own Ammi.

Now it is time for her to keep quiet and for Mr. Khan to find out WHO ZOYA IS AND WHAT ZOYA IS .... BY HIMSELF.😉

🤗

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RMamsa

I dont understand why this is not being shared on Qubool Hai & 4 Lions FB page where the admin responds very fast.


Can you? I didn't know they had one.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#76
i would never condone a man hitting a women for what ever the reason, but i think that people are bias, if in hitler didi, Rishi slaps Zara, when he finds out that she is trying to kill Indra, i sure people would applaud this action, because zara is the bad guy.
but the same act commited by a hero on the heroin is unacceptable to the same viewers. concidering the situation Asad commited the act, his mother the only parent he has is fighting for her life in a hospital. thought the slap was uncalled for, Asad's reaction was not, any person would react in an extream manner totaly out of his or her nature, and Asad did. we cant persecute him for that.
and redemption would come as the truth will come out in front of him. that it was not Zoya's fault.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup

Again, I am hoping Asad does not bring things to this level. He is his Ammi's son and it'd shame her that he could not even apologise for what he did. She will be shocked at what he had done (the slap) and even more appalled at what he had not done(not apologised)

.Personally, I'll be very angry with the writer if Asad does not make amends soon- it does not even have to be him knowing the truth. He should simply apologise once he has cooled off.

THIS IS WHAT I PREFER.

An UNCONDITIONAL APOLOGY- 'I am sorry. I should never have deteriorated to that level. Forgive me for becoming a beast...' Well, he may not say that dialogue, but I want him to apologise even without knowing the truth.

Asad: "What do i do now? I am ashamed of what I have done. I can't even look at her face."

If things come to this, Ms. Gul is going to get a write up from me about how mothers should raise their sons.😡

Now, of course in Indian style drama, Zoya will say yes, but I hope not without...the following:

You know Mr. Khan, I was always right about you...you don't respect women but most of all you do not respect or even like me. I am a thorn in your side and everything you despise, but what you did there, was completely uncalled for. I would never put the lives of your family in danger and neither did I disobey your request. But your preconceptions of me clearly have overruled your ability to think rationally. For me, I appreciate the apology and the repentance but then tomorrow when I spill something or do something else, you will be down my throat again criticizing me once again. What can I say Mr. Khan, I am who I am and that is something you can never accept or like.

Zoya will not say this. For one, it is too long a dialogue😆

.Secondly, Zoya has made this point to him already before.So has his own Ammi.

Now it is time for her to keep quiet and for Mr. Khan to find out WHO ZOYA IS AND WHAT ZOYA IS .... BY HIMSELF.😉

🤗

Reviewing this incident today, I feel that disappointed Asad is not aware of his actions and that until he realizes Zoya was in the right, then he will change. The slap was uncalled for and unacceptable. It is simple as that. But expecting Asad to be aware is unlikely hence the necessary dialogue from his mother.

The apology has to come with no IFs ands or BUTS an out and out acknowledgement that he should NEVER have slapped her.

Asad should be ashamed for what he has done - really ashamed. It was uncalled for.

The dialogue is good - should be said again to remind him

I certainly do not want to see Zoya suddenly become chummy, best friends etc with him - we need him to eat some crow here...we need him to really suffer and it does not have to be vengeful or ugly..just him never getting to see Zoya or spend time with her and realizing that he killed a spirited person.

And please do contact Ms. Gul Khan...she needs to figure out that the slap was not appreciated by ALL the fans of the show and secondly, we want redemption. Otherwise, she will be missing necessary support. THere are a lot of us here who don't find slapping attractive.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Reviewing this incident today, I feel that disappointed Asad is not aware of his actions and that until he realizes Zoya was in the right, then he will change. The slap was uncalled for and unacceptable. It is simple as that. But expecting Asad to be aware is unlikely hence the necessary dialogue from his mother.

The apology has to come with no IFs ands or BUTS an out and out acknowledgement that he should NEVER have slapped her.

Asad should be ashamed for what he has done - really ashamed. It was uncalled for.

The dialogue is good - should be said again to remind him

I certainly do not want to see Zoya suddenly become chummy, best friends etc with him - we need him to eat some crow here...we need him to really suffer and it does not have to be vengeful or ugly..just him never getting to see Zoya or spend time with her and realizing that he killed a spirited person.

And please do contact Ms. Gul Khan...she needs to figure out that the slap was not appreciated by ALL the fans of the show and secondly, we want redemption. Otherwise, she will be missing necessary support. THere are a lot of us here who don't find slapping attractive.




Laila,

I don't think any one found slapping attractive. We are all normal people here.
Someone'd have said that this'd pave way for his redemption and you took it differently.
Please...NObody finds slap attractive. We all know it is not a nice thing. And we all have self respect
And we are not even saying he did the right thing or she deserved it.

I think in the flurry of activity a lot of points were missed. 😊

He is a flawed hero...his journey to perfection has just begun. And Zoya will guide him on in that journey.
A man will resist change.


When she tries, he will resist.
The moment she stops trying...he will not be able to resist.😳

That is the beauty of the tale.
Humeira let go when she was in love...her love will come back to her.

If Zoya lets go when she is not in love, she will find that Mr. Khan has slowly transformed himself in to the man of her dreams.🤗

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Posted: 12 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: Laila2009


She felt bad for slapping a guy who was forcing himself on her? I am lost. 😕 An apology for self-defense?



she felt bad because she thought she should nt have hurt that person
there was a dialogue too where she said
one wrong action cannot be made right with another mistake
so she apologized for her behavior
they were in courtship period that time and he was doing all non sense to make her
accept that she loves him
Edited by nebuna - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i truly hope this happens! this is the only way it should happen..no more beating around the bush! ..& after hitting a woman, the intention to apologize doesn't count..he actually NEEDS to apologize!

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