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Posted: 12 years ago
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Imagine a person standing in front of you, who is responsible for yours mothers critical condition...what would you do?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishq80

Imagine a person standing in front of you, who is responsible for yours mothers critical condition...what would you do?


Tell them - that is what you can do - did she even realize anything afterwards?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN

wow...this forum kinda is looking like ipkknd forum today BASHING GUL for NO REASON...first of all rnt we the same people who shout n say WE WANT EQUALITY of GENDER...we watch HEROINE SLAPPING HERO zillions of times in movies n films and give WAH WAH to the heroine irrespectv of the fact whethr it was justified or not...even if the Hero is not at fault his getting slap frm the heroine is always applauded...SO WHY GENDER DISCRIMINATION HERE...Asad didnt Slap Zoya the way the women gets slappd by their hubbies for not cooking well or othr petty reason...ASAD SLAPPED THE PERSON WHO IS RESPONsIBLE FOR HIS MOTHERS CRITICAL CONDITION...the MOM who Means the WORLD to him...plus it wasnt as if he slappd zoya out of nowhere...HE COMPLETELY IGNORED HER...it was Zoya who came to him in the MOST WRONG TIME possible...she shud hv given him space...coz the Last pperson Asad wanted to talk to was Zoya and its very Much UNDERSTANDABLE...if i was In ASADS place i Wud hv Slapped Zoya EQUALLY HARD...coz this time the situation was Beyond GENDER...ASAD DiDNT SLAP A GAL coz when people r BLINDED BY PAIN n HATRED...GENDER REALLY DOESNT MATTER...if it was ZOYA in Asads place 2day and Slappd asad Really Hard then i m sure the forum wud hv been flooded with POSTS HOW AWESUMm the SLAP WAS and people wud hv tken GUL to the 9th sky...SO WHY SUCH DISCRIMINATION WHEN GENDER IS REVERSED...BEING women who Demand Equality in the society and are taught to b strong enuf to slap a man if he is guilty...then...the same WOMAN shud b Equally Strong Enuf to RECEIVE A SLAP frm a Man when she Herself is GUILTY...not jus cryy over it naming it so called Domestic Violence...EQUALITY OF GENDER shud B from both sides


You have a lot to learn.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you! For actually condoing the violence that scene portrayed. It was worse than a hundred people murdering each other.
Why? Maybe because KSG and Surbhi are excellent actors. Hats off to them. However, their excellent portrayal brought out how so many people who think Zoya deserved it. We have seen a lot of slapping of men by women, someone pointed out. True! In daily soaps that does seem to occur quite frequently and there is no uproar over that.
What I say is, there should be! How can anyone in their right mind justify slapping or being violent to another human being? Is regret going to make it better? I dont think so.
When a woman gets slapped and people write topics which say that she deserved it..I think that thought is more dangerous for any woman to live her life without fear of abuse. Most men, I know do not live with that fear; while truth is so many women do. We fear getting slapped by our brothers, husbands, uncles, parents and whoever feel like it in between.
All those people who say another women deserved being slapped, another man deserved being slapped, need to step into the shoes of a person who has been physically abused and walk a mile in it to actually understand how demeaning and insulting it is
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN

wow...this forum kinda is looking like ipkknd forum today BASHING GUL for NO REASON...first of all rnt we the same people who shout n say WE WANT EQUALITY of GENDER...we watch HEROINE SLAPPING HERO zillions of times in movies n films and give WAH WAH to the heroine irrespectv of the fact whethr it was justified or not...even if the Hero is not at fault his getting slap frm the heroine is always applauded...SO WHY GENDER DISCRIMINATION HERE...Asad didnt Slap Zoya the way the women gets slappd by their hubbies for not cooking well or othr petty reason...ASAD SLAPPED THE PERSON WHO IS RESPONsIBLE FOR HIS MOTHERS CRITICAL CONDITION...the MOM who Means the WORLD to him...plus it wasnt as if he slappd zoya out of nowhere...HE COMPLETELY IGNORED HER...it was Zoya who came to him in the MOST WRONG TIME possible...she shud hv given him space...coz the Last pperson Asad wanted to talk to was Zoya and its very Much UNDERSTANDABLE...if i was In ASADS place i Wud hv Slapped Zoya EQUALLY HARD...coz this time the situation was Beyond GENDER...ASAD DiDNT SLAP A GAL coz when people r BLINDED BY PAIN n HATRED...GENDER REALLY DOESNT MATTER...if it was ZOYA in Asads place 2day and Slappd asad Really Hard then i m sure the forum wud hv been flooded with POSTS HOW AWESUMm the SLAP WAS and people wud hv tken GUL to the 9th sky...SO WHY SUCH DISCRIMINATION WHEN GENDER IS REVERSED...BEING women who Demand Equality in the society and are taught to b strong enuf to slap a man if he is guilty...then...the same WOMAN shud b Equally Strong Enuf to RECEIVE A SLAP frm a Man when she Herself is GUILTY...not jus cryy over it naming it so called Domestic Violence...EQUALITY OF GENDER shud B from both sides



This whole slap thing isnt about Gul or any other serial. Its people like you who scare me. For what is actually abuse can now be turned to equality of gender. Please do not take away from the actual discussion.

Granted, men get slapped, women get slapped and the whole world goes on fine even after that. The reason Zoya getting slapped is making waves is because it is Asad Ahmed Khan - The guy who respects women, treats them well, Dilshad's son - who has been brought up seeing his mom and sister suffer due to a man. Asad Ahmed Khan who should well know how to respect women and treat them slapped Zoya today. What hope is there for lesser mortals than Asad Ahmed Khan to not do something like this with their Zoya's? Nothing! And then the forum goes crazy thinking slapping a personw ith so much force, violence is okay..infact deserved.
You have a lot to learn and grow up dear. And for gods sake, I hope you are a guy and not a girl.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree...his anger was justified, the slap was NOT !!!!
Today I am really disappointed in the makers of this show, esp Gul Khan ( btw is she a woman ? )...if she is , then I don't understand how she can show something like this and justify it too on top of that.
No matter what emotional turmoil Asad is going through, no matter how hurt or scared he was...he could have verbally abused her if they so wanted him to vent his anger, he could have kicked her out the house, but this slap is just a big DISAPPOINTMENT !!!! Especially coming from a character like Asad Ahmed Khan who doesn't even allow his younger brother to flirt or tease women, coz he finds it inappropiate...and this same man slaps someone...let alone a woman ...

Now I hope that somehow Rashied in involved in Zoya's moms murder and if that is the case, I want Zoya to slap Rashied too as hard as she can...

Also if Asad comes to know the truth, maybe he should just slap himself real hard too across the face for being such an ass 😡...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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what zoya did was very wrong as well...anybody can react in this manner if this kind of accident happen to their parents...and a person who is responsible for all this situation would be unknown person...zoya is a just a guest in their house and all this happen because of her...and i know the fact as well asad is gonna apologise for this
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bubbles22



This whole slap thing isnt about Gul or any other serial. Its people like you who scare me. For what is actually abuse can now be turned to equality of gender. Please do not take away from the actual discussion.

Granted, men get slapped, women get slapped and the whole world goes on fine even after that. The reason Zoya getting slapped is making waves is because it is Asad Ahmed Khan - The guy who respects women, treats them well, Dilshad's son - who has been brought up seeing his mom and sister suffer due to a man. Asad Ahmed Khan who should well know how to respect women and treat them slapped Zoya today. What hope is there for lesser mortals than Asad Ahmed Khan to not do something like this with their Zoya's? Nothing! And then the forum goes crazy thinking slapping a personw ith so much force, violence is okay..infact deserved.
You have a lot to learn and grow up dear. And for gods sake, I hope you are a guy and not a girl.


Well said. Too many people are twisting this and trying to justify it and then using gender and as an issue to further justify it. Basically these people do not know that type of behavior is NOT OK. And it really does ruin Asad's character for me.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshasrk

I totally agree...his anger was justified, the slap was NOT !!!!
Today I am really disappointed in the makers of this show, esp Gul Khan ( btw is she a woman ? )...if she is , then I don't understand how she can show something like this and justify it too on top of that.
No matter what emotional turmoil Asad is going through, no matter how hurt or scared he was...he could have verbally abused her if they so wanted him to vent his anger, he could have kicked her out the house, but this slap is just a big DISAPPOINTMENT !!!! Especially coming from a character like Asad Ahmed Khan who doesn't even allow his younger brother to flirt or tease women, coz he finds it inappropiate...and this same man slaps someone...let alone a woman ...

Now I hope that somehow Rashied in involved in Zoya's moms murder and if that is the case, I want Zoya to slap Rashied too as hard as she can...

Also if Asad comes to know the truth, maybe he should just slap himself real hard too across the face for being such an ass 😡...


Perhaps Gul, like a lot of females here doesn't see it that way - and that is my view as well. i would not have expected this from a female producer. I was not expecting this and yet it happened and it really disappointments me as well. It has really ruined Asad's character for me.

O, Asad will probably slap himself, try to break his hand etc and then Zoya will get all mushy over it and they we'll get those stupid mitawa moments...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009




Perhaps Gul, like a lot of females here doesn't see it that way - and that is my view as well. i would not have expected this from a female producer. I was not expecting this and yet it happened and it really disappointments me as well. It has really ruined Asad's character for me.

O, Asad will probably slap himself, try to break his hand etc and then Zoya will get all mushy over it and they we'll get those stupid mitawa moments...


The sad truth is that women perpetuate violence against other women...

but it's going to have to be women who break the cycle...but Gul Khan is clearly not one of them!

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