Encouraging dowry system?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad should not have given into Haseena's dowry demands.

It gives a bad message.

Haseena will go on demanding. I dont want Asad to end up a martyr.

He should teach a lesson to greedy people like Haseena making his sister stronger to face the world.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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if u see all shows do show stuff which they shuldnt
i wouldnt like to name any here coz they arent related to QH so name calling coz i dnt want fights
but all shows have sumthing to show which thy shuldnt

and asad didnt give dowry he gave bhek
he threw papers on her face so it is nt called dowry exactly
why didnt u voice ur opinion when the khan family was giving stuff
why only when asad gives??


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Amby-

if u see all shows do show stuff which they shuldnt
i wouldnt like to name any here coz they arent related to QH so name calling coz i dnt want fights
but all shows have sumthing to show which thy shuldnt

and asad didnt give dowry he gave bhek
he threw papers on her face so it is nt called dowry exactly

why didnt u voice ur opinion when the khan family was giving stuff
why only when asad gives??




i completely second that

@bold... exactly... and thats the only way to handle that Haseena bi by giving her a bheek of house..and he was doing this only for his sister's happiness... he atleast warned haseena bi not to hurt Nikhat but rashid, raziya and all they even didnt do that

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Posted: 12 years ago
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True. But asad knows what he's doing so chill.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well it seems like the show is giving wrong message by bending to Haseenas demands regarding money money

But then the show is showing the reality that happens in our society .Parents of girl have to be submissive to parents of boys

I think the show will surely handle this thing in its own unique style.May be Nikhat herself revolt when she sees her parents being subdued so much .

Or may be Asad teaches Haseena lesson in future when she comes up with new demand...well their is lot still to be shown

The show is good and is designed to bring out the shortcomings of our Indian community as a whole and Muslim community in special ...so they will surely handle this issue

Be it muslim or hindu e boys family is always given the too much preference which they take it otherwise and sometimes start bullying the girl side by their increasing demands
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If it were in my hands, I wouldn't have wanted Asad to take this step either but there was something threatening about his voice which made it clear that Haseena Bi shouldn't ask beyond this. I dunno if she'll ask the other family or not or whether this is actually sustainable.

It's not encouraging dowry though. It looked more like Asad bribing Haseena Bi so that Nikhat could marry Imraan since she really seems to like him. The dowry system needs no encouragement. It's prevalent enough anyway so I disagree with your title.

Through Haseena Bi, they're just showing that sad reality of dowry demands, how girls with dark complexion are scorned and how parents are willing to do anything to find her a match. It's like a mirror to the society.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I said yesterday..
cant they drag serial without flaring such dowry, girl's issue ...?

Now i have Q: since asad gave 5 BR house with garden😲...Is he richer than MAmujaan??? If so then why Mamujaan telling to destroy him???
IS Dilshad scared of him??? Why?

I guess since Nikhat said that Imran does care about her colour..He loves her..So Asad is ready to do anything🤔 to make this nikah happen

YEs yes..right now it is dowry...But as asad said he will take more than that if his sister not happy🤣...so its deal not dowry😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Amby-

if u see all shows do show stuff which they shuldnt
i wouldnt like to name any here coz they arent related to QH so name calling coz i dnt want fights
but all shows have sumthing to show which thy shuldnt

and asad didnt give dowry he gave bhek
he threw papers on her face so it is nt called dowry exactly
why didnt u voice ur opinion when the khan family was giving stuff
why only when asad gives??





The other family has no morality, no ethics, no standards.

Asad for me is someone like a super hero who must actually punch Haseena.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am worried that Asad should not end up sacrificing to benefit that selfish family.

Haseena's son is too much in awe of his mother. And Haseena and her brother may become actual villains.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i found that quite disturbing too. i didn't think Asad would do that as for me it looks as if its okay for haseena to demand all these things and kya pata kal ko kuch hota hai toh. imraan can't speak in front of his mother to support Nikhat and if anything does happen (un char diwaron mein) Nikhat is not going to speak up. well at least i think. Also, I believe Rashids mum is right. why should they be giving Nikhat to people like that. On the other hand i believe in asad and the tone in which he warned haseena seemed reassuring.

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