AsadAKhan's behavior can be justified?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Is it wrong to be yourself? Not really.
Well yes, Asad Ahmed Khan is being himself.
We should understand that its not his desire or urge to lead a life like a serious soul, or have any narrow thinking,rather such behavior is imposed on him forcefully by fate and situation.

Does he seem to be another male chauvinist?
Does his thinking make you wonder from which century this guy is?

If we talk about Najma, then he treats Najma not as a sister but as a daughter also. He is like the only male in the family, responsibility had burdened his shoulders seventeen years ago, due to which he is so serious.

According to me, he is just a serious types, who has OCD ( Obsessive compulsive disorder) which commonly everyone has now, and that is cleanliness and organization. I feel cleanliness and organization is one heck of a talent and people should be thankful to be blessed with that.šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

Coming to yesterday's episode, if he was really narrow minded, he wouldn't have accepted the defeat and his phone from Zoya?šŸ¤” But he did accept his loss + the phone. If he had to be stubborn and unreasonable he could have been there. However, according to me, his anger is justified. Once he told Zoya to not go, especially not taking his sister along. I feel , more angry he felt was as she took Najma also with her. And directly he never told Zoya to get out from his house.

I mean like even Zoya at times have become a little bit irritating, when we love to see Zoya as herself, doing masti, why cant we just accept Asad the way he is? He is not bad, neither does he unnecessarily from nowhere claims to be the best.

Also one thing I wanted to mention.😃 Maybe some people must have been finding he is really over protective of his sister, but I feel that's alright. All brothers are like that, over protective; not they are narrow minded for their sisters but they don't want even a scratch on their sister, they love them so much. Plus, Asad comes from Asian background and Islamic religion where protection of women is taught to the males.

There is much more to Asad's character. For example, him playing with Najma's short hair all the time also speaks volume. His every action reflect him. No one is perfect, hence, we cant say he is totally right, or totally wrong, he is a balanced and lovable personality, in short!😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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loved ur take on asad n his behaviour...so well saidšŸ‘šŸ¼
loved d point where u said ke if v accept zoya as d way she is im sure v can accept asad wid his flaws too...

he just felt betrayed tht she went despite him saying no n tht too wid tamatar
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Posted: 12 years ago
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great post...😊
u've explaine d asad very wellšŸ‘
even i think dat his anger in yesterday's epi ws right..if zoya wanted to go she shld've but shldn't hv taken najma along vid her.dis actually ws da main reason fr asad to be angry n he ws nowhere wrong i think.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanakyasharan

loved ur take on asad n his behaviour...so well saidšŸ‘šŸ¼

loved d point where u said ke if v accept zoya as d way she is im sure v can accept asad wid his flaws too...

he just felt betrayed tht she went despite him saying no n tht too wid tamatar


Thank you.😃
Yeah that really wonders me off that when we can accept the female lead as she is why not the male lead? Actually you know? Repeatedly saying its 21st century and women should be equal, we are too engrossed in women rights that now we got used to expecting change from the man's side. I cant understand why cant we be balanced?šŸ˜†šŸ˜† pehle mardon ka raaj, aur ab women ki yeh thinking.. 🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ujala26

great post...😊
u've explaine d asad very wellšŸ‘
even i think dat his anger in yesterday's epi ws right..if zoya wanted to go she shld've but shldn't hv taken najma along vid her.dis actually ws da main reason fr asad to be angry n he ws nowhere wrong i think.


Thank you dear.😃
I agree on that, because Asad thinks Zoya is bad influence forNajma. He is so used to seeing Najma depending over him for everything that he does not want Najma to change especially at this time. I am sure he will never tolerate his mom or Najma even asking another male, because he feels he is the only male in the family and should be respected.

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