Nikhat's marriage proposal. - Page 2

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

That is a problem faced world over. Even in the U.S. and other Western cultures, despite people agreeing that one's skin color doesn't matter, inwards it does matter to many. My sister works at a beauty supply store and she says how many African American women buy a lot of skin whitening products. Even they feel self conscious. And with the desi crowd, people are obsessed with fair skin. My cousin has dark skin and her Mom and grandmother always lament that she has dark skin even though they have similar skin tones to her as well. Her Grandmother always victimizes herself by claiming how she's not considered good looking because she (I'm talking about the grandma) doesn't have fair skin. And then goes , "Look at your grandmother with fair skin. She' so beautiful compared to me." It gets annoying hearing her say this over and over again.

Originally posted by: SmoothCriminal

I think Nikhat has grown up in a society where brown = ugly and her parents & relatives have enforced that upon her so she has low self-esteem in herself

she lives in india dear and in a traditional conservative family, if her brother being a boy and a son does not have a voice then how the hell is she supposed to reject this marriage...her brother got into trouble for making eye contact with the mamujaan nikhat rejecting marriage would give the whole family a heart attack 😆

bottom line nikhat has no choice her opinion does not matter she will say qabool hai to the person her parents decide on...she will not speak up against the insult that was being done to her because its against her upbringing...had it been u or me we would have given those people a real peace of our minds😳

The family is doing what they believe is the best for their daughter ...even they are living in the belief that their daughter is brown=ugly so they want her to we well settled and don't to look at the negative things about the family

Originally posted by: DejaVu.

LOL but this marriage won't happen for somereason and Nikhat will be insulted more.

Originally posted by: SmoothCriminal

Nikhat being insulted is a given fact and i hope ur rite about the marriage not happening😳 maybe ayyan or asad will save her😃

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

That is a problem faced world over. Even in the U.S. and other Western cultures, despite people agreeing that one's skin color doesn't matter, inwards it does matter to many. My sister works at a beauty supply store and she says how many African American women buy a lot of skin whitening products. Even they feel self conscious. And with the desi crowd, people are obsessed with fair skin. My cousin has dark skin and her Mom and grandmother always lament that she has dark skin even though they have similar skin tones to her as well. Her Grandmother always victimizes herself by claiming how she's not considered good looking because she (I'm talking about the grandma) doesn't have fair skin. And then goes , "Look at your grandmother with fair skin. She' so beautiful compared to me." It gets annoying hearing her say this over and over again.

Originally posted by: DejaVu.

Doubt that,Its too early on to get her married in the show.😆 Mostly it will be from the grooms side saying they liked humeira.😆

Originally posted by: SmoothCriminal

girl that would be so messed up a guy agreeing for one sis and marrying the other😡🤢...yea its a bit early 4 the marriage maybe they r showing the side effects of brown girls & marriage ...maybe qubool hai is like geet it starts wid a social message that everyone will reject to see so they will go the love story way 😳

Originally posted by: DejaVu.

LOL we arent supposed to say the G word or IPK.😆

Originally posted by: SmoothCriminal

girl that would be so messed up a guy agreeing for one sis and marrying the other😡🤢...yea its a bit early 4 the marriage maybe they r showing the side effects of brown girls & marriage ...maybe qubool hai is like geet it starts wid a social message that everyone will reject to see so they will go the love story way 😳