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Posted: 12 years ago
#51
Hi firstly i guess he said that in a different manner he knows his sis she looks a little immature u can see her bread butter scen for getting that...

econdly i guess she was referring jeans as a modern dress that was i guess Jeans with a short top or a top and i guess she was not referring to a kurta atleast ...he didnt said no to jeans in particular he said no to her definition of Modernarity...he said

OLD FASHIONED YA MODERN HONA HAMARA LIBAAS NAHI HAMARE SOCH PE HAI

and Kurta jeans is not a formal dress code he was going to office and as he is veru merticulous about details and being a practioner of values and rules he obeyed it

Jeans is not haram in Islam ...its a type of clothing n u can wear it according to Islam ...only such dresses are not allowed in Islam which don't' cover ur body in a proper way or make it more visible with their cuts and fitings...
I am a Muslim and i do wear jeans whenever i like to...there is no such haram kind of thing associated with Jeans to be exact...
i guess Asad reffered to modern form of jeans which doesnt cover the body or make the parts more noticeable
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
Yeh production house kanjus hai. They are using suits from their other shows and not investing in loads of new kurtas.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53
My god...if my brother ever told me what I could wear and couldnt we would have a field day. I would rain down abusive words on him with such frequency that I would render him speechless and then he would never say that to me again. But my brother is really really cool. He has never said anything like that to me...in fact my brother defended me wearing shorts to my mom who thought they were a bit too short. My brother was like they are her clothes let her wear whatever she wants. Thats his attitude in pretty much everything...do what you want to do...its your life live it the way you want which I love.
I found Asad's attitude to be very offensive quite frankly. If his mother didnt mind her daughter wearing jeans and going to the lounge then who is Asad to say that she cant. Sorry I am a feminist when it comes to such things. I know whats appropriate for me to do and what isnt...I dont need my brother telling me what I can and cant do.
And Asad's claim that you cant leave your tehzeeb behind...give me a break. A person has to assimilate and change based on the environment they live in. My mother when we lived in India, she wore salwars but after we moved to America she started wearing jeans because evryone else did. She would fell a lot more awkward if she wore salwar here in public because people are conscious. Everyone is self-conscious. So according to Asad my mother should have just stayed indoors for 10 years because she felt uncomfortable going outside in salwar with everyone staring at her. Plus, if you want to work at certain places then you have to leave your "tehzeb" behind. But ofcourse you could just starve because your job requires you to wear modern clothes while your tehzeb requires something else...so just dont work and go hungry. 😆
And come on..jeans. Really what is so bad about jeans. They do not show one inch of your skin. I simply dont understand.
And you are absolutely right...He wants his sister to follow the tehzeb but he doesnt have to. A man who dictates to others how to live according to his principles but doesnt live his life according to those same principles. Scream hypocrite to anyone?
And lastly I resent Asad's for saying dont hang out with the girls that wear modern clothes. 😲 This shows how narrow minded he is. I am a very modern girl...I wear shorts etc etc. But being modern has nothing to do with clothes. It is a mindset. And I have that mindset because I believe in equality for all. Here Asad imlied that women who wear modern clothes are somehow bad...they do things that are bad which couldnt be far away from the truth. Take me for example...I wear modern clothes and very very open minded yet I dont do anything bad...like drinking or smoking or anything else which is why my parents trust me so much and let me wear whatever and hold whatever beliefs.


Damn patriarchal view if you ask me. And a complete turn off. Big time turnoff. I like open minded men; not closed off, I will tell my sister how to live, where to go, what to wear, what to eat kinda men. No matter how hot the guy is as soon as he starts spewing such patriarchal crap...I am done. I would run so fast from him you would see a me sized hole in the door.
Rant over.
Edited by ---Nisha--- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
Aha! Only 4 episodes and so much debate on trivial issues! :). Muslim men should not cover their ankles. Not only when they are praying also, always. And it's not like a Muslim girl can not wear jeans. Depends on the type, and definitely there should be a top ;), so what top is being worn. If a girl is wearing burkha and is wearing a jeans is that a big deal? No lol. No tight jeans which exposes body shapes even for men:). And how many follows religion truly that's something different. And trust me whe I was 9 I was going to a family outdoor picnic with another family. There was a girl in that family of my age who applied lipstick on me as she used that too. When my elder bro saw he felt that if our mom sees it she would scold me, so he wiped the lipstick from my lips lol! Well, I don't remember that incident with disgrace instead I feel proud and I feel cared :). I have a younger bro too ;). Brothers can be very protective and more than fathers sometimes :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55
i m a muslim and i know very well about muslims.
as a muslim it is not necessary to always wear kurta.our man also wear pant shirt,but yah our girls usually dont wear jeans.so its not a big deal that asad is wearing kurta or pant.they are showing every thing right in the serial about muslims of modern age.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56
Asad is controversial and a hypocrite.
He just got very interesting.

I'm wearing jeans right now *O face*
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena

Asad is controversial and a hypocrite.
He just got very interesting.

I'm wearing jeans right now *O face*


😲 ouma is that really you...😲.
🤗...Missed you.

Hypocritical for sure. Controversial well not in a patriarchal society because that is the norm there. Certainly controversial among feminists however.

Edited by ---Nisha--- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena

Asad is controversial and a hypocrite.
He just got very interesting.

I'm wearing jeans right now *O face*


Ouma 🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: crystalalena

i m a muslim and i know very well about muslims.

as a muslim it is not necessary to always wear kurta.our man also wear pant shirt,but yah our girls usually dont wear jeans.so its not a big deal that asad is wearing kurta or pant.they are showing every thing right in the serial about muslims of modern age.


Thats sad . Women have no right to choose what she wants to wear.👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: DejaVu.


Thats sad . Women have no right to choose what she wants to wear.👏



I doubt modern muslims in India are actually this conservative.

Btw, oppa gangum style 😆 😆 🤣

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