Why is Asad wearing suit and not traditional kurta

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Fatima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: Muskaan.Musky
Okay check this :P

Okay...I don't have the time to go through 14 pages of posts...

I just wanted to address the very valid points the TM raised.

But Muskaan...I just wanted to say...try and understand...that this chart is something that someone of a muslim background will understand...but it's really not relevant to someone who does not believe in Islam...

My point is QH is featuring characters of a muslim backdrop. So if anyone has a question...we should address it in the simplest terms to help them better understand why the characters are doing something in a certain way.

We don't have to convince them that we are right...😆...just my POV...😳

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ArdhikaSiblings

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Posted: 12 years ago

#112

It's not about "traditional", dear! Muslim gilrs are not allowed to wear tight clothes or jeans! 😊
And what Asad wore was not something Islam doesn't allow. 😊

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Billu-Maamma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: DejaVu.

Thats sad . Women have no right to choose what she wants to wear.👏

i did not say that women have no right to wear what she wants. .men go to the offices and they have to wear western clothes.. whether they want or not..and yah every religion have its own rules.muslims religion not allowed to wear clothes in which body parts seems to be prominent or visible.man and women both should follow the rules..i think hindu religion also dont allow women to wear jeans and pants.but modern women wear this.and also hindu religion also dont allow the man to wear such type of clothes.but what can do?every one now a days have forgotten the teachings of thier religion.so i didnot write muslims,i write muslims of modern age and yah they are showing right about muslims of modern age.and one thing more in every family brothers are leaders and they know well about society so they command their family.and girls ki izzat ko zayada khatra hota hy dear.😆so bhai ka kaam hifazt krna hota hy.😊

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Fatima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: crystalalena

@ Dejavu...it's not that a woman has no rights to wear what she wants...it's just that Islam has certain guidelines about clothing...Regardless of whether it be a man or woman...one is not allowed to wear tight fitting or see through clothes. This is to maintain a sense of modesty in society. That's why you'll find muslims usually wearing loose fitted clothing that provides more coverage. There is a logic behind it...You may not understand it...and you certainly don't have to agree with it. But it's not fair to say that we don't have rights. Your statement seems to be tinged with mockery that's not warranted.

Like I said in my earlier post religion...any religion...only provides guidelines...a person is free to follow according to their level of committment.
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Fatima

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: crystalalena
i did not say that women have no right to wear what she wants. .men go to the offices and they have to wear western clothes.. whether they want or not..and yah every religion have its own rules.muslims religion not allowed to wear clothes in which body parts seems to be prominent or visible.man and women both should follow the rules..i think hindu religion also dont allow women to wear jeans and pants.but modern women wear this.and also hindu religion also dont allow the man to wear such type of clothes.but what can do?every one now a days have forgotten the teachings of thier religion.so i didnot write muslims,i write muslims of modern age and yah they are showing right about muslims of modern age.and one thing more in every family brothers are leaders and they know well about society so they command their family.and girls ki izzat ko zayada khatra hota hy dear.😆so bhai ka kaam hifazt krna hota hy.😊

@Crystalalena: regarding @purple...A lot of times to be quite honest...brothers are very over-protective...and seldom practice what they preach. It has nothing to do with religion...izzat ka sawal hai...bas...😆

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-Muskii-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#116

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Why to drag that issue now , lets leave it

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Posted: 12 years ago

#117

Somy. Congrats on your ATBB thread. 👍🏼

Tbqh, I do agree with some of the stuff you are saying. Asad's character is the regressive, orthodoxy type of a guy, and I think that's where his thoughts will collide with Zoya's?

As for people saying Bhopal is not a safe place and hence Asad wants her to wear salwar suits and etc, I don't get your point. Rapists and perverts don't look at what a girl wears.. doesn't sexual assault and harassment occur in villages and small towns wear girls DON'T wear modern clothes? I never understood that kinda thinking, so I don't get Asad's thinking either. He's being protective, yes, but still. I don't like that kinda thinking, bleh. But I guess that's how his character is... maybe he became this way due to his past or whatever.

As for Islam, or any religion for that matter, not condemning indecent clothes... Jeans, and a t-shirt with a scarf, is pretty much equivalent to salwar kameez, no? I think we all have a freedom of choice, and freedom of belief and practice. Some Muslims are like hardcore, I guess like Asad, while Zoya has a modern way of thinking. Asad and Najma aren't the same people, they have different thoughts as well. So I think if Najma wants to wear jeans, she should be able to.. but Asad is protective, and she respects her brother's decision. So meh. I am glad I don't have anyone in my family who thinks like any of the characters in the show (minus Zoya I suppose), and lets me wear whatever I want. 😆

I kinda wanna see Najma wanting to work.. see what Asad's reaction is then. The feminist in me does not want to be angered. 😆

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SStephy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#118

Asad's statement was hypocrisy at its best.

But actually this kind of double standards exist in India where only the women are expected to wear the traditional clothes or upkeep traditions. They are expected to do this for the sake of tradition and because this is somehow going to keep them safe. On the other hand, guys not wearing the traditional outfits at all times is not considered a bad thing...

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Qubool.Hain

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Posted: 12 years ago

#119

It's about RELIGION, not Tradition dear!
It's okay... I know u don't know much about these... 😊
But yeah... girls wearing jeans or anything tight is not allowed in Islam.