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Posted: 12 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: ashGC_arja

that was so heart wrenching... you made me so emotional with Ansh's musings... How much that little one has to go through in this biggie's fights😭... Loved ur tale of three dads and this part too👏👏

Ash thank you for the appreciative comments .😊
Yup, it is really tough to see Ansh to be emotionally jostled by P.
Hopefully the CVs will end it all in a happy note!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lulujjj

@Anonee ( meena ) dear the title of the letter "Mumma please come soon" pulled my heart strings dear , ansh keeping his promise and being loyal is the character that is found in both yash and aarti . Loved it waiting for the next tale dear. Awesome meenu kutty.

Thank you Naeema Chechi! 😊 How did you know I am from Kerala?
Yes Ansh is in a pickle and is in for some tough times! I feel sorry for that kid!😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: IsYaRoCHeR

So touching yaar! Keep up the good work in your writings! 😃

Thank you for the supportive comment!! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Part 3: Suraj Pratap Scindhiya you just stabbed your son Yash in the back. Congratulations!

SP a self-made nouveau riche businessman and dad of 3 sons, is respected by society both for his business skills and for being the head of a 'model' joint family. He basks in the knowledge that his morning-walk groupies envy the fact all of his three sons are involved with the family business and all of his sons, bahus and grandchildren live under his roof in harmony. Recently he had got his second son Yash, a widower remarried to a widow with a kid. Widow re-marriage is a rarity in his social circle - so he is looked upon as a trend setter and as one who empowers women.

Strangely like P, he too has sort-of left his family. He is the dad who leaves his family while staying married and being present in the family's life. He has checked-out mentally from his family for the most part. In that he put his business, finances and image in society as priority not his wife or children. He left the burden of raising the children on his wife - from simple tasks like getting the kids up and dressed, helping them with their homework, to growing-up issues and emotional needs. Oh he was sort-of involved, in that he took them on outings and lavished them with gifts but often took the backseat under the guise of work.

His kids too at a very early age realized that their father was a very special person entitled to special treatment and privileges not bound by the rules that apply to other people - not even their mother G3. If they did not accord him proper respect or satisfy his needs they would be punished and in deference to his special status they should not go to him with their personal problems. As the sons grew to be young adults they noticed that their dad often forgot their accomplishments and kept reminding them what they owed him. He would threaten to abandon them if they did not do what he wants. And more importantly, that he was controlling, using emotional blackmail to get things go his way, and did not give them the freedom to express their opinions. Nevertheless, the 3 sons led a privileged life and had little to complain about.

They had learnt to live with the dichotomy that was their father. He was always polite and generous in society but at home he could be rude, angry and selfish. They knew their father had a social facade to maintain. Being respected in society was critically important to him.

When Yash became a widower and emotionally collapsed - there was no family support system to pull him out of his grief and his 2 children suffered sorely from lack of parental care. He was re-married to Aarti who was divorcee but palmed off as a widow. SP did not want a divorcee as a DIL. Aarti gradually won the love and respect of Yash, SP and other family members, however when the secret of her divorce was out only Yash and his children stood by her. There is always an unspoken ledger of ethical accountability that exists between family members. That ledger must be balanced for the family to feel stable and good together, even if it's never actually stated. People in families must be accountable to each other for their behavior and attitudes or the family fabric will start to unravel. And when it does, the family structure will crumble. AarYa realize that such unspoke accountability exists and its importance. Aarti played with ethical accountability and so AarYa acknowledged her folly to all and were willing to do what it takes to balance the ledger.

SP's reaction to Aarti's ethical aberration was extreme. He felt hurt and betrayed and wanted them out of his house. However his image in society as the head of a 'model' joint family was at stake and so he banished AarYa and kids to the storeroom and ordered all family members to cut off ties with them. He humiliated his grandkid and insulted his son Yash by calling him stranger and deliberately permitted P to harass Aarti in Yash's absence. AarYa were sorely saddened by the punishment but remained patient and held on to peace. In order to uplift the spirits of their children they maintained an aura of laughter and gaiety.

SP's anger knew no bounds at the sound of laughter - Aarti was making light of his punishment, his authority, and the rules of his fiefdom. The sadist in him was awakened and he decided to forever separate her from Yash - her husband, lover and source of inner strength. As head of household SP always perceived himself beyond ethical accountability and today he played his cards. He connived with P Aarti's X to separate Ansh-n-Aarti from Yash.

The ugliest crime of all is when a father plots with the enemy to destroy his son and grandchildren. SP was focusing on his overpowering need to hurt Aarti and in his fury he overlooked the impact his actions would have on his son and grandkids. Yash who loves Aarti more than life itself will be devastated by the havoc that his father is plotting to unleash in his life. SP when angry is cruel and in wrath destructive - how are AarYa to survive this severe punishment? Worse still Yash has no clue that his father is stabbing him in the back.

SP you just stabbed your son Yash in the back. Congratulations!

Edited by anonee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#75
@anonee: This is my favorite of your 3 part analysis. It is so powerfully written. Kudos! I can only agree with you on all points!

He is a hypocrit with a capital H. And what's worse? He is totally oblivious to how he sows the seeds of the evil that comes back to bite his own family- be it his neglect of bua or his handshake with P today!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: doratalk

@anonee: This is my favorite of your 3 part analysis. It is so powerfully written. Kudos! I can only agree with you on all points!


He is a hypocrit with a capital H. And what's worse? He is totally oblivious to how he sows the seeds of the evil that comes back to bite his own family- be it his neglect of bua or his handshake with P today!

Dora thank you for the encouraging comment.
To be honest - I was not so sure how this part will turn out. I edited quite a bit as I got rambling. I am glad you liked the end product.
Your support gives me motivation.
Yes SP is a hypocrite. He is unaware of the glue that holds a family together because he has never been 'really' involved in his family.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#77
Great update dear..👏
Well written..⭐️👍🏼.Agree with you
Suraj prathap was most self centered man😡😡😡.His anger for Aarti's lie is understandable but to join hands with Prashant is low-down dirty.He didn't even consider about his son's and grand daughter life.Because of his dirty plan and joins with prashant he didn't realize how much yash will hurt .

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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow great post dear. agree with ur each word.
SP due to his so called big fat ego is doing a very wrong thing for which he will repent later very much. He is just ruining his son's life by pushing him to the same dark place where his son used to live before entry of Aarti in Yash's life. Hope he better get to know about this before the damage is done
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Posted: 12 years ago
#79
Great take again. Loved the Part 3.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#80
Excellently written Father Scindia is indeed not realising in order to get Yash back into the house hes loosing that very son completely through his actions of revenge and betrayal.

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