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suju19

@suju19

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Posted: 13 years ago

sorry guys... It's just my opinion. I felt very disappointed today. I thought that Aarthi will win over Yash as Aarti and make her own special place with a special identity.

First they changed her name and now they wanted her to change completely. Where is our Aarti. She is no more.

Sorry to say this but by doing this people will think so many times for remarriage.They are giving a wrong message here to the people . This very thought of giving up your very existence to become some one will definitely give you creeps. Compromising is much better than giving up your whole identity , your very existences.

They showed here for the kids but I am sure with time kids too will adjust to the fact that she is a nice mom only if the whole family supported her and stopped singing Arpitha bhajan . Even Yash does not help Aarti much . Poor girl .. She is always at the giving end. First with Prashanth . Always loving him even if he was the most selfish guy on earth and now Though yash is very good ,she has to give up herself and become some one else.

Where is our sweet Aarti . She is strong and sweet. Aarthi is no more guys... Sorry we have Arpitha here. Suppose a future track comes when they separate , I am sure he will think only of Arpitha and not Aarthi as she is no more. So basically we have Arpitha now and not Aarti. They are making Aarti become Arpitha for kids sake , right . that's what they said but so sorry to say that the kids were very small to even remember much of their mother. Its these people who should stop Arpitha all the time and try to explain things to the kids as kids need love and they will respond. They dont know much difference .

What happened to our Aarti who fought for her name in the starting ,when she said that she can't lose her ID now she is losing her very existences.?

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TanShiLuvr

@TanShi_CrazyLuv

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: suju19
sorry guys... It's just my opinion. I felt very disappointed today. I thought that Aarthi will win over Yash as Aarti and make her own special place with a special identity.
First they changed her name and now they wanted her to change completely. Where is our Aarti. She is no more.
Sorry to say this but by doing this people will think so many times for remarriage.They are giving a wrong message here to the people . This very thought of giving up your very existence to become some one will definitely give you creeps. Compromising is much better than giving up your whole identity , your very existences.
They showed here for the kids but I am sure with time kids too will adjust to the fact that she is a nice mom only if the whole family supported her and stopped singing Arpitha bhajan . Even Yash does not help Aarti much . Poor girl .. She is always at the giving end. First with Prashanth . Always loving him even if he was the most selfish guy on earth and now Though yash is very good ,she has to give up herself and become some one else.

Where is our sweet Aarti . She is strong and sweet. Aarthi is no more guys... Sorry we have Arpitha here.

each n every wrd is ryt.. n m agree even i thought the same..no oen can take any1nz place as every1 has sme special place in sm1nz heart...so cv's disappointed me tooo..hw can they make aarti's character v weak,,,today they drag all aarti's promisies in vain tht she will win paylak n yashhuu'z heart n will prove herself a good mther wth her mamta as she has faith in her mamta whch she said infrnt bua jii in yesterdy's epi..v disappointment ...

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Aarti

@helloaamir

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Posted: 13 years ago

I totally agree. I think that Aarti should win Yash's heart as Aarti...it just doesnt make sense to change Aarti into Arpita. Thats a totally wrong message - that you should change your whole personality to win over the person you love, and then lose your own identity, your own persona of who you are as a person - it's just not done in serials. They always promote that you should never change yourself and be who you are. First time I'm seeing this in a tv show and I dont really like it. It doesnt make sense. And yes. what you said - our gundi Aarti is going to be lost, because Arpita was supposedly the total opposite. She was very sweet and never talked back and was "susheel". Our strong gundi Aarti will have to be lost...which we will miss because our Aarti is a perfect mix of strong yet sensative. She can be total gundi sometimes but at other times she is the most caring and loving person in the world. I'm going to miss you Aarti. RIP Aarti - we've lost you to Arpita now.

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TanShiLuvr

@TanShi_CrazyLuv

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: helloaamir
I totally agree. I think that Aarti should win Yash's heart as Aarti...it just doesnt make sense to change Aarti into Arpita. Thats a totally wrong message - that you should change your whole personality to win over the person you love, and then lose your own identity, your own persona of who you are as a person - it's just not done in serials. They always promote that you should never change yourself and be who you are. First time I'm seeing this in a tv show and I dont really like it. It doesnt make sense.

V Saddd ..Huge disappointment

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anithu

@amrithatec

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Posted: 13 years ago

Lets wait and see...I was wondering why first aarthi need to fall for yash...But comparing yahs aarthi has more pain in her heart...The most lovable person in her life has disowned her...CHanging for a person sake is so difficult...Aarthi the gem of wife i can say...She decided to sacrifice everything for yash and her daughters...So she thought best way to turn yash heart is changing herself as arpita...May be CV is moving like in three months time aarthi will be purely be yash wife...Still will yash change is the three months struggle i believe...what u say friends

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Indomitable

@Indomitable

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: suju19
sorry guys... It's just my opinion. I felt very disappointed today. I thought that Aarthi will win over Yash as Aarti and make her own special place with a special identity.
First they changed her name and now they wanted her to change completely. Where is our Aarti. She is no more.
Sorry to say this but by doing this people will think so many times for remarriage.They are giving a wrong message here to the people . This very thought of giving up your very existence to become some one will definitely give you creeps. Compromising is much better than giving up your whole identity , your very existences.
They showed here for the kids but I am sure with time kids too will adjust to the fact that she is a nice mom only if the whole family supported her and stopped singing Arpitha bhajan . Even Yash does not help Aarti much . Poor girl .. She is always at the giving end. First with Prashanth . Always loving him even if he was the most selfish guy on earth and now Though yash is very good ,she has to give up herself and become some one else.

Where is our sweet Aarti . She is strong and sweet. Aarthi is no more guys... Sorry we have Arpitha here.

Yeah even am very much disappointed with this idea, how can any person can become exactly the same as the other, up to changing identity is ok but changing the nature & character exactly the same of other person is highly impossible & is not acceptable, hmm only clone of that person can make it possible. I guess the CVs are out of their mind & getting such crap thoughts. As you said if Aarti would win the hearts of every one in her own way with her own nature & character then it is something reliable & acceptable.😡

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ash91

@ash91

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Posted: 13 years ago

Actually im pretty confused with the statement that Aarthi has to become Arpitha to win the girls' hearts😕😕 first of all it was surprising to hear something like that from Vidhi and then i didnt get what it meant...c'mon! does Aarthi have to do plastic surgery and look like Arpitha or something??!!😛 She is doing whatever she can to win the kids' hearts as Aarthi...what more can she do when the girls' minds are being poisoned by the witches of the house..

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

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Posted: 13 years ago

Sorry to say I don't like whenever Yash goes on Arpita trip or as you said only bhajan of Arpita because this is definitely a closed street for Arti she will never see the end but lost somewhere.

If she's someone else why to expect arpita again.

In real life a wife will suffocate to live in such a condition.

Arti was living a better life with her Ansh only at Dubey place.

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kavmuks

@kavmuks

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Posted: 13 years ago

Not a great idea ... How wil kids learn to appreciates and value Aarti is he become Arpita... wrong wrong wrong message .. they are simply stretching now and still not reached the main point..

We can expect to see less and less of GC as he wil have to cut him time for JDJ also

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DMKJ_VB

@DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 13 years ago

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ok, let me put in my 2 cents

I don't understand why we r reacting so strongly? Did not yash say a 1000 times that no one can take arpita's place. The very purpose of this track is that aarti cannot win Yash's heart by trying to be like arpita. so eventually she will do it as aarti herself!

also, when did aarti or vidhi mention that she should do this for Yash? only payal and esp palak was mentioned. Try to put urself in the shoes of that 5-6 yr old girl palak who lost her mother when she was three,a nd has been pining for her since. Is it natural for her to accept anyone else as her mom? Trying to be arpita to palak is not losing her own identity! becoz no matter what she does, she will ultimately be aarti. she can never think like arpita. she will think with her own mind. So why such strong reactions and disappointement?

Taking arpita's place does not mean taking her place literally but being as important a part of the family as arpita was. And don't worry aarti is not going to win yash by being arpita, becoz yash himself will never stand it. yash will fall in love with aarti herself.

This show is portraying the reality. These r the expectations ppl hv in a punar vivah. It would be sending a wrong msg if they showed something else.