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I think the episode was really great...
Yash waits for Aarti but Aarti come out and does ask oh you waited for me but you needed to go for the meeting... Yash simply asks her a question should I leave you at home?
Aarti knows that he really wanted to go for the meeting but out of courtesy and she an independent lady did not want to take any one's obligation puts him off the hook and tells him that she will get a rikshaw and he should proceed on with the meetings...
Yash really needed to go to the meeting and does not wait time in argument and leaves. Aarati takes the rikshaw to go home.
I really liked the way they showed that Aarti did not take the offer nor Yash made her go with him. Earlier Yash did put the pressure on her to come for the school he gave her that silent stare which made her just shut up and take the offer but both of them were doing it for Ansh so that he will feel better that his new papa did come to leave him at the school in his big car...
But now there was not any obligation and also that they both are not that comfortable with each other to take each other's offer without thinking of taking advantage of each other...
So I think Aarti's refusal to take the offer and Yash's not presssing her was par with their characters and their nature.
Now comes the part of Yash going to Pick Ansh from the school and being late and Aarti getting upset about it..
So Payal and Palak comes home it is almost 8.00 pm but Yash is not home with Ansh. She gets worried about it and decides to call Yash. She calls him and ask if he was on his way but hesitates to ask if Ansh was with him.. but still asks and Yash says comforting her that yes Ansh was with him and not to worry...
So Ansh and Yash comes home. She was standing with the whole family but quickly goes to Ansh and ask why were they late she worried very much... (Mistake 1)
She already called Yash.. She knows that Ansh was with him but she is asking a child in front of all as why was he late.
Ansh says cause Papa changed my school... Yay it is the good news... as Ansh was treated as a second class citizen by Gma and Payal Palak so kind hearted Yashji made it possible for Ansh to study at better school and gave him the same rights as Payal and Palak... Oh he is really taking care of Ansh and stepping in to take the responsibilities of papa...
But well dear Aarti did not think so...
She walks up him and asks question... (in a displeased tone... mistake 2) did you changes Ansh's school and you did not consider to ask my opinion???... (mistake 3)
Oh man Yash was totally taken back by this haughty tone and posture and the whole family was looking at her with their mouth hanging...
The way Aarti walked to Yash was as if she is ready to fight about her rights regarding Ansh that she only has a rights to take any decision about Ansh..
Here Aarti forgot that in the school of Payal and Palak she took the rights of being their mother without asking Yash's permission as socially she was their mother and declared to the principal that she will not let the lack of mother in their life be reflected again and she will give them the love of mother.. At that time she looked at Yash and Yash did not say a word.
Also I do not mind her asking Yash this questions but I do mind the way she asked it.
Also she did not wait for them to be alone but asked the haughty question in front of the whole family where she already knows that it would not be looked upon favorably..
But in her anger upon not being asked she forgot her sense and behaved in such a way...
This behavior from Aarti is really striking to me... and I have noticed it couple of time that when she gets angry she forgets the sense of reasoning...
1st time they showed when she came with the hockey stick to talk with Pratik and talked rudely because she was outraaged with the demands
2nd time when she talked with Yash on phone she talked non stopped and would not listen anything.
and there were those touching incidents in which she gets angry at Yash and was not ready to listen to any reasoning from her MIL Shobha and just was too adamant to believe that Yash was scoundrel
3rd time she would not listen to the reasons of her former in-laws about hiding the facts of her divorce status and gave her FIL back that she an indebted DIL has no rights to say anything..
She was angry at their manipulation but she lost her sense to behave respectfully with her father in law who loved her as a daughter and also would not go for pagphera because she is still angry and also she told him on his face that the indebted daughter has no rights.. and she left no chance to taunt them about their mistake.
Yes she may be right in her principal and Dubeys did do wrong but she forgot their love... and their support and their feelings for her in her anger and now she is cutting her relations with them though she does feel for them but she did not want to call them as she would not forgive them too easily...
Now the Pa Schindia walks in and gives his verdict that in this family Men takes the decision and women accepts it. and that she should be greatful that Yash has done so.
Buvaji puts her opinion that oh she had been a man in her former house so she does not know how to deal with that... (she was right but said with the wrong intentions...)
Yash observed all this display of power without a word... though he was baffled at Aarti's reaction but he did understand what she was trying to say to him.
So chided for her disrespectful behavior to her husband she takes Ansh and goes away.
Aarti walks in the bedroom still hurt and angry at what Yash did. She is right in her principal but she is too angry to understand what Yash just did..
If she objected about the so many changes in Ansh life so soon I would have understand but she did not say that..
She was mad because Yash took the authority of the father without consulting her and put Ansh in the school of Payal and Palak so that he would not deprived of better schooling...
But idealisitc miss prime and proper Aarti Scindhia did not like that very practical solution for Ansh. She tries to give her lecture that children does not need better school and bla bla bla...
Lady your son was not getting computer education in his school and was not able to compete with Payal and Palak also your new MIL looked down at your son and thought he was going to low grade school..
Yash is taking the reponsibilities that Ansh would not deprived of any rights as his son and get the same privilage as Payal and Palak but nope Aartiji is against those kind of privilages.
She tells Yash that the child who has the desire to study would study under the light post too...
Well if that is true then why in the world you got married for a second time??? If the child's father left him then well He should have learned to live without a father... Why in the world you wanted to bring a father in his life... And now that he has a father and this new father is ready to take the reponsibilites of his step son and give him the privilage of being his son you are putting him off because it was your right to make the decision for him??? Is there a fear of losing control over your child?? Is her possessiveness for her child is getting in his way???
She took over Payal and Palak and Yash was greatful for that and thanked her everytime she did something for them but now as Yash has realized that he did not do enough for Ansh and trying to bridge a gap she is challanging his authority.
I love the interaction between AArya...
Though Yash was right in his decision but he still tries to appease the hurt of Aarti for not asking her about the change of school..
In her upset mind she comes and sits on Yash side of bed
She also dumps all cloths on Yash side and does not turn the cloths on right side but folds them inside out as they were.
In her upset mind she just does not want to listen any reasoning Yash is trying to give.
Yash even tells her that she does so much for Payal and Palak and he is thankful so he has taken this decision for thinking to do something good for Ansh and it is really good for Ansh.
She likes it when Yash get along with Ansh and shows his affection by smiling at him or by ruffeling his hair.
She likes it when Yash goes out late at night and gets the gift for Ansh.
She likes it when Yash leavs his daughters and brings water for Ansh to calm him down and his fears
She likes it when Yash brings the car to take them to school
She liikes it when Yash tries to ask Ansh as what he would like to listen and gives him CDs to select.
She even likes it when she sees Yash waiting for her outside the school..
She even likes when Pratik tells her that Yash has gone to pick up Ansh without any reminder..
But she instatnly dislikes when Yash scolds Ansh on the dinning table.
She instantly dislikes when Yash takes a major decision to change Ansh school.
Is she really afraid of losing the authority and control over Ansh's life?
Is she afraid that if she let go this family would not make right decision for her son?
Is she afraid that Ansh also will forget what she had taught him and be arrogant like the Payal and Palak.
Is she afraid that Ansh will forget her teaching and develop the traits of Scindhia?
Is she afraid that Ansh will not come to her and be ruled by Scindhia??
Well well there is really a reason behind this vulnerability and I am sure interested when Aarti will let it out in open to let Yash see how she is feeling..
Oh Man loved the precap..
Yash getting mad at her for her untrusting behavior...
Yes Yash she needs to come out of her insecurities and start trusting you again as you have never given her any reason not to trust you...
GReat episodoe loved it...
love to all eva...
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