4/4 Written Update/Analysis Unit: Bidhaai ke Samay - Page 18

@Samana :Exactly ..so at every point they r showing one's weakness is another person's strtength ...If Aarti finds it difficult to fight for her rights or self-respect ,Yash comes to her rescue and if Yash finds it difficult to handle the kids ,then Aarti comes to his rescue ...Thats how both will complete each other and thats the meaning of a marriage as well where u expect your lifepartner to support u and cover up your weaknesses or convert them into your strength 😳

@Jyo: Yup, point to be noted!
If they continue to fight their own battles, what is the point of getting married? 😊

But you didn't answer my question. In the new promo, is Aarti crying at her bidhaai? Can you explain in more detail, if it is not too much to ask?

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

Is it on YouTube

I can't seem to find it. Can you give me a link?

@Samana and all :I hv not myself seen the new promo ..I m in office na ..just saw updt of new promo on facebook in one of my friend's wall and hv asked her to upload the promo in youtube ..so lets wait for the upload 😳

@Jyo, fantastic girl, that's all I can say.

When you are fighting a fight, sometimes the way you fight doesn't matter. It's the end results that matter. And this is one situation where the end result is more important than the means. Here, Aarti is fighting for Ansh by trying to guilt the Dubey's into helping her fight this fight. If she were to walk upto the Scindia's and say she will not leave without Ansh then she will be forever damaging relationships before she even had a chance to forge them. She understands that and she needs the Dubeys to fight along her side this time. Here, I don't think she is even thinking of using Yash as her support because she still hasn't allowed him inside her circle of a support system. And she is using every weapon in her arsenal just like the Dubey's did with her. It is very hard for a person to fight battles and survive without a support system.

As for the thought process that 'why should Yash be a hero and help Aarti by negating Gayatri's decree' ? I don't think that is being heroic I think that is being responsible.

The minute Yash puts sindoor and mangalsutra on Aarti, she and Ansh has become his responsibility just like how Yash and the girls have also become Aarti's responsibility. Yash is portrayed as a character who takes his responsibilities very seriously. So to me, Yash becoming aware of the situation (and he better be 😡 ) and standing by Aarti to bring their son home is not heroism but taking responsibility for his new family and also showing respect for humanity. He cannot imagine anyone mistreating his girls or separating him from his girls so wether he has forged an emotional bond with Ansh or not he needs to bring Ansh into his immediate awareness. That is not being a hero but being humane which obviously Gayatri isn't.

@Angake :Exactly ././Fight does not always mean start revolting against all with a talwaar ..Fight can b done in different ways as long as the outcome is positive and does not damage anyone's reputation or relationships ...😳

@Angake: That was just a beautiful articulation of what I tried to say in a roundabout way a few pages back. If we want to get to the bottom of our expectations for Yash it comes down to his responsibility, a responsibility that not only stems from his role as her husband, but also as a human being, like you said, following the mandates of humanity. Separating Aarti from her child, even for a few days, because of Gayatri's flawed logic and her faulty principles is nothing short of inhuman. I shudder to think of Ansh's reaction when he learns he is not going to his "naye papa's bada ghar" 😭

Actually I thought of another interesting twist. If Yash doesn't know and doesn't stop this from happening right now (it could happen if he just doesn't realise Ansh is not with them until they get home...especially if Gayatri orchestrates it, same way she did with the name change). They could show Aarti cold and zombie-like and Yash concerned but not saying anything because he thinks Aarti agreed to this. I would love a scene where Shobha calls Yash in the middle of the night and tells him that Ansh won't stop crying for his mother and Yash just walks out and gets him. 😳

There are lots of ways but I think it is imperative that Yash assume his responsibility in this situation. Alone, Aarti is fighting a losing battle, not because she is weak or resigned but because she is outnumbered and manipulated.

Originally posted by: SylvaniaLUX

• Punar Vivaah

  Do you think people prefer bride without her children for remarriage?

@Samana /:Yup in case Yash does not overhear Shobha-Gayatri talk ,then he might not even know about this whole Ansh matter till he reaches home and suddenly finds out Aarti in all tears and Ansh not around ...As long as he comes to know and fulfills his husband wala responsibilities ..I m fine 😆😳...bas Ansh needs to b in his papa's bada wala ghar haan 😡😆