22/3 Analysis Unit :Aarti's Real Identity.. - Page 5

@all guys superb analysis.
Loved reading dem all.
Just one query was bothering me that do other scindhia bahus have also gone through dis creepy name change ritual? Or its specially tailor made for aarthi only?
What do u think?
Plz do share ur views.

@Laxmi :I can see Pankaj hving affair with Mansi soon since Mansi ka hubby is forever busy in South Africa and Vidhi is forever busy with her family bahu duties ..perfect match 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: priti11

@all guys superb analysis.
Loved reading dem all.
Just one query was bothering me that do other scindhia bahus have also gone through dis creepy name change ritual? Or its specially tailor made for aarthi only?
What do u think?
Plz do share ur views.

Originally posted by: narangi_77

I don't care if they think badly of Aarti (and neither should she)...It's her decision and she should own it. Why should she hide behind Yash?😕 I would like Yash to support his wife in her decision...

Just my POV 😊

Originally posted by: skanda12

Aarti:

Aarti voice was gaayab today. Dd she have not even one word to say to the Scindias in her own defence? What is the use of talking about her pehchaan and astitiva when she cannot even stand up for herself in the face of the Scindias? I think rather than Shobha pleading her case Aarti should have been the one to say straight out "I do not want the name of a dead woman, however much the dead woman's parents want it". Instead Aarti stood there, staring at the floor and at Shobha, unable to say even one word. There is an inconsistency in the way the CVs are portraying Aarti. Initially she was the hockey-stick weilding power woman, and nowadays she has become a silent spectator, taking all kinds of rubbish without even the slightest resistance.

Mansi, wonderful take! I really look forward to the way you structure your write-ups everyday because you always bring out a very interesting and pointed perspective on the episode.

Now to address the quote above, especially the bold part, this has been playing on my mind for a while and I have been thinking about why Aarti seems to be the only character that has done a 180 degree turn from the way we first saw her. It doesn't seem consistent with all the other very deliberate characterisations of the show so I figured Aarti's silence must be deliberate on some level too and this is what I came up with.

I think the hockey-stick-weilding Aarti that we met was an Aarti that had total control over her life and her future. Albeit not completely fulfilled, she was content with her life and felt loved and safe in the Dubey cocoon with her life revolving around Ansh.

Ever since this PV came up and her parents have been blackmailing her into this marriage, she has lost control over her life completely. Suddenly out of nowhere she finds herself engaged to a man of "questionable character", seemingly with no way out because now her son is involved and invested and may not recover from the loss of a second father.

So it is not that Aarti is less strong, it is that the situation is far too daunting for her to be the fearless gundi we all loved. She is actually a rather sensitive person as we complained even after the first episode that she didn't react to the fat saas lady and assumed her to be a sehmi-sehmi type. So I think this fragile, uncertain Aarti is the real thing and the hockey gundi was the facade. But we liked the latter so much that we choose to assume that is the "real Aarti".

The hockey stick incident was bravado, limited to the surface. Aarti needs to find and appreciate her inner strength to be able to take a stand and speak out against the injustices being doled out to her wholesale.

Not on my laptop .. (my mom won't give me mine back 😭) so thought I'd spare a few moments on my sister's and come here.. cannot even watch an epi in peace so I make do with your analysis for now. .

Originally posted by: priti11

@all guys superb analysis.
Loved reading dem all.
Just one query was bothering me that do other scindhia bahus have also gone through dis creepy name change ritual? Or its specially tailor made for aarthi only?
What do u think?
Plz do share ur views.

Gosh the arrogance of Suraj Pratap 😡... MCP did not even refer to Aarthi by her name...she is so inconsequential..He refers to her as ..'Yeh '

Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Mansi :Wowww thats a awesome take on each and every character-sketch 👏👏👏..what I can understand from your take is CVs r deliberately showing that each character is either flawed or supressed or dependent ...no character can b termed as flawless and perfect yet ...So it will b each character's journey to become flawless ,independent and getting her/his own identity back..

Pankaj needs a backbone in front of his wife ..

Pratik needs to confront the major issues ..he is no more a kid

Yash needs to come out of his guilt trip soon and take the responsibility of Aarti ...Past can b kept as memory but present needs to b handled properly

Aarti needs to bring her hockey-stick independent nature back in action and confront Yash soon regarding all her doubts and issues

Vidhi needs to balance out her life properly before her hubby goes out of her reach 😉😆

Daddy Scindia needs to be a human first before declaring himself as God

Gayatri needs to find out her own identity before deciding someone else's identity in the family

Arpita's mom needs to realise that Aarti too is someone's daughter and has a certain existence just like Arpita ...A mom can b selfish but cannot turn a blind eye to facts

Arpita's dad too like Gayatri needs to find out his own identity before deciding other's identity

Mr.Dubey needs to start confronting people to keep his family's dignity and honour intact

How many will complete the journey in the end remains to b seen 😳

Perfect sum up!!

I was just thinking about Vidhi - she is soo involved in being a good mother, daughter-in-law and bhabhi, that she has completely sidelined the most important person in her life - her husband, because of whom she got all these relationships! Poor Pankaj, I hope he doesn't stray coz of frustration.. Vidhi is a very grounded person, but has taken Pankaj completely for granted..

The Scindia relics need to go out once in a while and see other families.. I hated the way they summarily dismissed Aarti's need for her own individuality...

Papa Dubey needs a reality check, getting Aarti married is not going to solve all the problems he created in the process of doing that..

@Samana: That was an absolutely sensational analysis you have done of the reasons why Aarti's character may have changed so much from the hockey-stick gundi to the docile unresistant floor-staring woman. In fact you took me by surprise when you pointed out that the gundi was the facade and the real Aarti may be the one unsure of herself and her future.