Another debate! was sanyo justified? - Page 5

Originally posted by: arshitgupta

No payal...........
Sanyo did exactly rite...............His father was lied to his own daughter and he was a charcterless person( Is that written in Raso, I dont know I haven't read that but what I have read in history JC was not that bad😕)........Do hell with his dignity(arre boss uspe gussa kaiko???😆)...😡...jis insaan ki koi ijjat nahi unki beijti kaya..........Sanyo hd to spend her own life with his husband not Jaichand so she was rite to run away with tht person with whom she had to spend her whole life........ cummon Arshit what exactly she knew about the man she was going to live with........she knew PRC the grat king, the brave man but never as a human being........She was attracted by the courage & power of PRC but that's not an important thing in love........Sagar has shown the relation in a better & realistic way........

Originally posted by: saswatisett

Cool baby cool..........😆

Originally posted by: arshitgupta

sorry payal.......... i like to express myself in free way..........not by being a professional🤢...............u r hot the way u r...now pls smile😊
it is not necessary to be professional during debate..........i guess.... Ok ok no probs I was just kidding😛
Jaichand was a characterless person so Sanyo did rite when she run away with Gr8 PRC.........U r saying the she insulted his father...........Arey yaar jiski koi ijjat hi nahi uski insult kya??????😡

r u talking abt the characters of the serial or the real one😊.......bcause there are huge difference in the two stories😕........for the serial sanyo's action is justified as an woman😛..........& that I have already admitted😊

Originally posted by: saswatisett

Cool baby cool..........😆

Originally posted by: castrafa

sawal par sawal par jawab nahi. actually sach kya hai kisko pata. its dam confusing the real truth behind the history.
well must say u guys have pointed out quite good facts 👏 👏 👏
but every thing is fair in love and war.😉 so what sanyo did was right. Comon yaar she marring some one else just for the sake of her father's honor is not fair. after all she had to spend a whole life with that person. so it will be spoiling her whole life.
And she knew that her dad was wrong thats why she ran away with PRC or else she would have hated him.just imagine no one in this entire world will go against there parents unless they know within that the fault is theres. Or ya if they love them till kayamat tak 😳
well ok am chatting shit now. I don't know what exactly happened at that time but sure we don't know many facts.
conclusion: every thing is fair in love 😉

Originally posted by: arshitgupta

I dont hv full faith in Raso
I dont know how many meets are required.........to know each other........PRC and Sanyo meet many times........I think it is enough to know each other......Aaj ke zamane main bhi log 2-3 milte hain aur shaadi kar lete hain... PRC and Sanyo to najane kitni hi bar mil chuke the.........

I dont have full faith in Raso too😕........but according to history they have not meet before that😕.........Kannauj was far apart from Ajmir.........& from delhi too😕........at that time princess are not allowed to roam here & there without security😕..........& that also within the kingdom........At that time no concept of India was there...........all kingdoms were seperated like a country itself.........& in reality when Sanyo got marries she was only 14........so I dont think they met to each other much........but from where did u get the fact that JC was a characterless person.........Kannouj was one of the strongest kingdoms that time........

Originally posted by: arshitgupta

why u called me "baby"????????😕 keya karu bachho ki tarah gussa jo kar rahe the isi liye.............😛
😃 okk?????
i am talking bout sanyo shown to us by saagars😛

arre use to main suru se hi support kar rahi thi😊..........pahela post ki last part fir se dekho😊.........she was not wrong😛.........

Originally posted by: saswatisett

OMG.what a cool topic.
Ok debaters, here I come and hope I'm not late!

I shall not talk about versions here....whether Sagars version or Raso version,
the point is daughter choosing her own life partner.

And no, I may sound harsh, but I dont feel parents are doing any favour to us by fulfilling our dreams!
I guess most of us here have not really graduated to parenthood yet.....
I always felt indebted to my parents until I became a parent myself.....
Now I know I can never repay my daughter for bringing the immense happiness in my life. The least I can do for her is make sure she stays happily ever after. That's my take on a very personal front! 😳


Now for the debate:

One good and bad thing is they were all celebrities of
that era-JC, PRC and Sanyogita.So what they did dearly
affected the masses. I am refering to the war that
ensued as an aftermath of the Swayamvar. So here its
not just about 2 families,it's about 2 kingdoms!
Considering this view their action was not justified. 👎🏼

I do not agree to the argument which says
why sacrifice a lifetime of love(from parents) for
a new found love.Then why do parents marry off
their girls and send them to a totally new house to
spend the rest of their lives with (sometimes) an almost unknown person. 🤔

As a father(of that era) what would JC look for in sanyo's groom? Should be a gr8 king and have good personal terms with him......(in those times daughter's compatibility with her life parter was of least concern)
Whether the history version or the Sagar's version, both the PRC's are over-qualified over the requirement 1 and didn't fare well in the 2nd one.
JC was not even thinking about Sanyo's feelings, whether she wud be happy with any other king? Those who say she did not know PRC well(as per history), should also remember that she didn't know any other kings present in the Swayamvar!!
She had to leave her father's house in any case after marriage....why not with the person she liked?
She decided to not sacrifice her whole life to boost her father's ego. JC was no less-he actually
insulted her daughter's love by putting PRC's statue at door as a doorman?why?
As a woman Sanyo was justified in my opinion 👍🏼

And last but not the least......even Shri Krishna eloped with Devi Rukmani on her marriage day(even they had not met before marriage).....So u see even God would want us to live a happy life.👍🏼