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Posted: 13 years ago
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In my pov

Since marriage wen ever injustic happen she has raised voiced starting from herself , whether it for kesar, amma ,and even ganga she has succeded sme time, sme time not.

As for a role model... she has set good example 👍🏼wen krishna slap her she has left the house and made it clear dat she not at all tolerate violence ...i think she has mde very good move👏 resulting as a role model for al abuse women " react b'for it s too late"...wer as arushi she has silently suffering and tolerating tanmay tanturms wich leads to more suffering n her future

As for not working ...here if she wishes to go out for a job...krishna wil definately object her ...morover her main intention s to make krishna work😳

As for surrending n working matter ..nope...morver she has worked for newspaper...morover its nt necessary to go out and work ...job s job whether it s frm hme or outside ...it desn't matter..
For ny relatinship ...one shld do comprise and it implies for both partner ...then only relationship will be succeful one .pratigya has done sme thing relating to work

pratigya s a slow processer she s gng step by step 😛 and i'm sure one day krishna wil realize and he will be the first one to asked her "why don't you apply for a job"😉
As for pratigya intrfering n arushi m'ge ...anyone in her place will d exctly the way she has done ...nfact arushi m'ge itself s a big mess created by c.v




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Didnt undrstand ths part tht 'aarushi better than pratigya', u mean not trusting ur own sister n marrying a married man, u were enjoyng the luxury kind of life at ur father's house even aftr ur marriage until n unless komal insultd u, many can be said like ths.
Coming to prats, it wl hardly take a few minutes/hours for her to do a job, bt making a KST kind of man to work on his own is not an easy part bt she has made it happen. Her in-laws, she is raising her voice whnevr n wherever needed bt IF THEY R THS N WANT TO BE AS THS, thn its not her fault. The love part, oh come on yaar, man has to b KST type n girl has to b prats type, thn only it wl add some spice to the romance, infact i thnk ths what makes their romance more cute n lovely, no offense to any1.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: ssrbaqri

Hi frndz,
The common perception is that Pratz is a strong lady who never yields to injustice. This makes some people to view her as a role model. I wouldn't view her as a role model, she has some good qualities, but i can't imagine any woman trying to be like her. But sadly I hv drawn an altogether different conclusion from the show. Sample this:
1. When Krishna asked her not to work in the office so as to earn money, she simply surrendered and did not even protest. In comparison, when Tanmay forced Arushi to abandon job, she refused to give in to his unjust demand. Here, Arushi emerges as the leading lady and a better icon of women liberalism. Arushi knows Tanmay's being a spiteful, possessive git, he knows they need the money her job brings in, plus she has papa's/dadi's support. Pratigya doesn't actually need to work, i think even in the 1st epi she told her friends she's probably end up being a housewife, she was determined for Krishna to have a job, so he wouldn't be dependent on his family.
But if Arushi's appearing to be stronger, why is she putting up with all the crap Tanmay's dishing out, what with the deeds to GH, etc?
2. Pratz has been staying at TN for past 5 years and has seen thakurs commmitting all sort of crimes. Although she protested against such practices on certain occasions but she has never been able to secure justice being delivered to her criminal in-laws. In terms of output, she has been a huge failure. Here, the cvs keep getting the thakurs off the hook cos they're a vital part of mkap, one day, hopefully they'll pay for their deeds. Her success at the TN has mainly been making sure samar doesn't turn out to be a junior KN.
3. Despite having so many troubles in her own life, she has constantly been intruding into others' territories. Like she interfered in Arushi's personal life by stopping her marriage to Aman. Infact, it was this foolishly handled move that ended up in Arushi marrying KN. Arushi was justified in turning hostile b'coz Pratz failed to produce any conclusive proof of Aman's cheating, in time.
So she should have let Arushi marry Aman? Arushi at that time only saw a jealous older sister, not a sibling who was trying to avert a disaster, so she created another one for herself, and encouraged the thakurs in taunting KP. It's the same Arushi who now confides in P about her marital problems, why did she phone P when Tanmay slapped her, why didn't she give as good as she got? On the same note, both sisters are shown to be good at advising each other, but hopeless when it comes to their own problems.
4. As a wife, she has been unsuccessful in giving quality time to her hubby. I wud never recommend any wife to follow in her footsteps. It's cos she hasn't got a job that she stays at home to look after samar and be there for K, they seem to have enough quality time. I would say that the way they should P declaring she wouldn't have any kids of her own without consulting K was a big no no for everyone, he agreed at that point, but that's something no woman would do.
All this only proves that Pratz is not behaving as one wud expect from a lead of women-centric show.


I don't know what other leads of shows do, but from bits and pieces i've seen, i'd say they're about the same, giving in to inlaws at the end of the day, so's not to upset the hubby.
We're all fully aware that the characters aren't perfect, why should they be? It's a tv show, we watch for entertainment,

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Posted: 13 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Kabe

Didnt undrstand ths part tht 'aarushi better than pratigya', u mean not trusting ur own sister n marrying a married man, u were enjoyng the luxury kind of life at ur father's house even aftr ur marriage until n unless komal insultd u, many can be said like ths.
Coming to prats, it wl hardly take a few minutes/hours for her to do a job, bt making a KST kind of man to work on his own is not an easy part bt she has made it happen. Her in-laws, she is raising her voice whnevr n wherever needed bt IF THEY R THS N WANT TO BE AS THS, thn its not her fault. The love part, oh come on yaar, man has to b KST type n girl has to b prats type, thn only it wl add some spice to the romance, infact i thnk ths what makes their romance more cute n lovely, no offense to any1.

Kabewa you looking golden!!

Congrats my darlin'!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Don't quite agree with u ssrb...

Its true that Prats give up her job on K's demand, but her main aim was to get him to work... Prats has stood up many, many times for women's issues... all the other new serials which we now see with a strong female lead are based on Pratigya's example and popularity... Its only recently she has mellowed down and not fighting against her in-laws nasty actions, because her husband is there to do it for her...

Also, its not only the office-going woman who is liberal... women like Pratigya who forced a complete change in her husband's personality and outlook with her beliefs and unflinching attitude, made here in-laws accept her as she is... such women are also equally liberal...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Atticus


Kabewa you looking golden!!

Congrats my darlin'!!

thank u jaanu!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: a_uma

Don't quite agree with u ssrb...

Its true that Prats give up her job on K's demand, but her main aim was to get him to work... Prats has stood up many, many times for women's issues... all the other new serials which we now see with a strong female lead are based on Pratigya's example and popularity... Its only recently she has mellowed down and not fighting against her in-laws nasty actions, because her husband is there to do it for her...

Also, its not only the office-going woman who is liberal... women like Pratigya who forced a complete change in her husband's personality and outlook with her beliefs and unflinching attitude, made here in-laws accept her as she is... such women are also equally liberal...


Standing ovation di beautifully put hugs
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: a_uma

Don't quite agree with u ssrb...

Its true that Prats give up her job on K's demand, but her main aim was to get him to work... Prats has stood up many, many times for women's issues... all the other new serials which we now see with a strong female lead are based on Pratigya's example and popularity... Its only recently she has mellowed down and not fighting against her in-laws nasty actions, because her husband is there to do it for her...

Also, its not only the office-going woman who is liberal... women like Pratigya who forced a complete change in her husband's personality and outlook with her beliefs and unflinching attitude, made here in-laws accept her as she is... such women are also equally liberal...


@ BOLD: Beautifully put👍🏼!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: kEEnkEEn


Dear keen, Don't be surprised at the lack of support for this thread. Given the blind support for the female lead in this forum, there r few takers for any kind of her criticism irrespective of its validity.Invariably so, if there is even a slight hint of praise for her sis. I never bother abt the like clicks b'coz counting the likes tempts u to express the popular belief only. It restrains ur freedom of expression which is definitely avoidable.

With respect - talk plain English - what exactly are u trying to say coz its lost in the twaddle!😕


I'm not sure abt u but yes, many people look at P as their role model.

Really? Who? Are you talking about Forum members or have you carried out some kind of demographic research? For the avoidance of doubt - I refer only to Forum members - the ones that can read and write, have a degree of education and progressive thinking
Who are you talking about?


It is not true that role models always come from the real world. In the age of Harry Potter, the world of fiction ensures a constant supply of style icons

You got yourself confused there matey - or you have succeeded in confusing me
A role model is distinctly different to a style icon! Make your mind up!
Any fictional character used as a role model is going to have unrealistic and unpractical tendencies
If you really want to be persuasive - try being real and using real examples!


Do u think males should not hv their own ideas abt female liberalism? What's wrong with it so long as they encourage it?

You like any other person out there on this planet can express an opinion, or have their own ideas!😃
I just balk at a man trying to define a strong woman - like a lot of women would..🤔


Deer keen,
Thnk u very much for giving me some baloney about having written something that is not upto ur literary standards. I admit that my scribblings are pretty ordinary but at the same time I try to keep it lucid enough by avoiding cumbersome colloquialism and jargons. Anyway, the lingo is of secondary importance in discussion threads on IF.
I find it hypocritical to fancy a fictional character as ur role model but not making it explicit. I m happy that some posters in this thread itself hv confessed they consider P as a role model. It'll be a bliss for u to feign ignorance of this harsh reality. 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssrbaqri


Deer keen,
Thnk u very much for giving me some baloney about having written something that is not upto ur literary standards. I admit that my scribblings are pretty ordinary but at the same time I try to keep it lucid enough by avoiding cumbersome colloquialism and jargons. Anyway, the lingo is of secondary importance in discussion threads on IF.
I find it hypocritical to fancy a fictional character as ur role model but not making it explicit. I m happy that some posters in this thread itself hv confessed they consider P as a role model. It'll be a bliss for u to feign ignorance of this harsh reality. 😆 😆 😆


I beg to differ!😛

Your scribblings are far from ordinary - that's kinda the point which you missed entirely having been otherwise occupied in your cumbersome colloquialism et al...

Youre right about use of lingo as being of secondary importance - you could work on the primary importance which is effectively communicating what it is youre trying to say!😃
Fancy a fictional character? what gave you that idea???😆 Who? What? When?

So glad your "harsh reality" is far from my own👍🏼

Be happy where you are and dont mind if I dont jump over to your side..!



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