The lagging lead on liberalism front! - Page 3

I agree arushi is indeed a strong woman. The way she has accepted her distance with tanmay aswell. Despite having marital problems shes managing to cope with her work and life. She stands her ground, and shes not packing her bags or his bags straight away in the name of lost trust.
I quite enjoy her ban jayes honestly.
She made a mistake in the past, which is haunting her now...so for those who wanted her punished can be satisfied that she is serving her sentence now handed by tanmay.

Like wise I'm proud of komal, who has been very mature in the whole divorce thing.

I think many wise ladies who are not influenced by pratigya will agree, to not have her as a role model. Because real women have achieved more than her.
It's like I always say pratigya has not been carved by the cvs appropriately...can't blame them as she is the first of many dealing with a social related show, the next models from other shows are much improved in similar scenarios.
recently watched diya and bhatti, and the female lead carried out a very effective ban jaye which was a pleasure to watch.

In pratigyas defence I'd say her heart is in the right place and she deserves to be treated better by her inlaws. And if she removed the word galat from her vocabulary...shed be taking a step in the right direction.

Nice post.
And tanshi marriage failure is down to tanmay.

Lack of likes in a post favouring arushi, is no surprise here and cannot take away the factor of your valid points.

P is more mature,determind and strong compare to arushi.prat always give respect and space to each relation.she act according to situation.but arushi just try to copy prats and always c monster in others.but P always find human in monster too.

P character is nt meant for woman lib..her primary role is to be a sound bite for those who want to listen to the ills of what happens in society..

Originally posted by: kEEnkEEn

only 1 like? I wonder why...

perhaps because the majority watch the show for a degree of entertainment (granted it may not always be 100%)

perhaps because unlike your belief (in itself offensive) we dont look to a fictional character, made for entertainment, a puppet of TRPs and whatever CVs personal goals are, as a role model

All this coming from a male, a male who is makingrecommendationsto other mainly women, as to what constitutes female liberalism and a so called strong woman

Give me a fecking break!

Dear keen, Don't be surprised at the lack of support for this thread. Given the blind support for the female lead in this forum, there r few takers for any kind of her criticism irrespective of its validity. Invariably so, if there is even a slight hint of praise for her sis. I never bother abt the like clicks b'coz counting the likes tempts u to express the popular belief only. It restrains ur freedom of expression which is definitely avoidable.
I'm not sure abt u but yes, many people look at P as their role model. It is not true that role models always come from the real world. In the age of Harry Potter, the world of fiction ensures a constant supply of style icons
Do u think males should not hv their own ideas abt female liberalism? What's wrong with it so long as they encourage it?

Originally posted by: starlight123

P character is nt meant for woman lib..her primary role is to be a sound bite for those who want to listen to the ills of what happens in society..

It is easier for both Arushi or P to do want their characters do in serials coz there are no major repercussions..

For me neither P or Arushi are role models as they oth are fictional characters where creative license is used...I watch for whatever small entertainment I get from the show...

My pov..no offense..

Exactly.Talking abt strong woman... not only in this serial but not a single female lead of any telly soap are impressive.And they certainly cant looked up to as role models until unless the characters are on the line of sum real life feminists such as kiran bedi ,medha pathker and many more...anyways its too much to expect frm a soap.So i rather watch it for pure entertainment values keeping my brain aside...

can't agree with any points which could make arushi a more liberal woman

working : there is hell lot of difference between two scenarios

P : she thought of working only bec , K wasn't agreeing to do work...n he ordered her not do do work outside as it is a no-no in his house ...n P, who lives at her sasuraal, as opposed to arushi who still lives at her father's house , agreed to it like a good DIL n a wife ... n she did the article-thing only bec K challenged her to do ... n only to make K work... n she had to practically give up her life to make him realize certain important points about life... n she made a man out of the lazy, flaundering-father's-money lad , that was K until that time... n once K started working there was no need of her to work... n now with K's restaurant flourishing n him being able to afford anything she may fancy (according to K's own words) , n already doing half of the household work + samar's responsibility , P doesn't feel the need to do so...

arushi : she was sitting idle at home , living out of her husband's low income n depending upon komal's money , pretty well, unless n until komal insulted her n demanded more money... to be able to afford the half od expenses of the house was the reason why arushi opted for work , n also bec tanmay wasn't capable of earning more money ... n again she lives at her father's house , with a fully supportive father who is all for her working outside ... n again tanmay's reason for not allowing her to work outside was horrible n disgusting as compared to K's ...inot only arushi, but any woman would feel insulted n fight back if prevented from working outside bec of such a disgusting reason ... arushi works bec she needs to


P not giving time for K : there r couples who give time n attention for their partners in the show itself n have no love for them...eg : KN-M, arushi-tanmay ... n P is an introvert as opposed to K being an extrovert ...she has stood by him when he needed her n that's what that counts ... n she loves him more than anything else in this world, even more than her dignity n womanhood ... n that's what counts ... not how much time one spends with the other n still live a loveless life , especially in arushi's case ...

P is a woman who instantly reacts to any wrong doing around her , n against her if it directly questions her self respect ... she urges people to fight ... she can only do that much ...the rest has to be done by the victim itself... n kesar did do her bit by sending KN to jail...its not P's fault that SS went n got him bail n Kesar's mother emotionally blackmailed kesar to live with KN again... n KN n SDS r evil persons, their evilness n jealousy honed by years of experience ...P was able to change K bec there was an inherent goodness inside him... n sadly KN n SDS lacks just that ... they r hard core criminals ...

n P's 'interfering' in arushi's life : it is a thing any sister will do for her little sister ...it's not P's fault that aman n his wife twisted the sacred relationship of husband-wife n made a mockery of another sacred relation of brother n sister ... n what did the little sister do back? she trusted a man who she barely knew n insulted n n mistrusted her sister , who took care of her like a mother (in her own words) n went n married a married man , thus destroying the life of another woman , the dignity of her family n shamelessly stooping low to destroy her sister's marital relationship ...

n again , this is a soap : fictional characters has all the liberty to do as they fancy ... the situations present them with opportunities

Originally posted by: carisma2

I agree arushi is indeed a strong woman. The way she has accepted her distance with tanmay aswell. Despite having marital problems shes managing to cope with her work and life. She stands her ground, and shes not packing her bags or his bags straight away in the name of lost trust.
I quite enjoy her ban jayes honestly.
She made a mistake in the past, which is haunting her now...so for those who wanted her punished can be satisfied that she is serving her sentence now handed by tanmay.

Like wise I'm proud of komal, who has been very mature in the whole divorce thing.

I think many wise ladies who are not influenced by pratigya will agree, to not have her as a role model. Because real women have achieved more than her.
It's like I always say pratigya has not been carved by the cvs appropriately...can't blame them as she is the first of many dealing with a social related show, the next models from other shows are much improved in similar scenarios.
recently watched diya and bhatti, and the female lead carried out a very effective ban jaye which was a pleasure to watch.

In pratigyas defence I'd say her heart is in the right place and she deserves to be treated better by her inlaws. And if she removed the word galat from her vocabulary...shed be taking a step in the right direction.

Nice post.
And tanshi marriage failure is down to tanmay.

Lack of likes in a post favouring arushi, is no surprise here and cannot take away the factor of your valid points.

Dear cari sis, ur post says it all. Thnx for ur wise words. Never bother abt the likes u get on ur comments. That's smthing fishy. Huh...
Keep rocking..

Originally posted by: simmi.friends03

P is more mature,determind and strong compare to arushi.prat always give respect and space to each relation.she act according to situation.but arushi just try to copy prats and always c monster in others.but P always find human in monster too.

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Originally posted by: ssrbaqri

Dear cari sis, ur post says it all. Thnx for ur wise words. Never bother abt the likes u get on ur comments. That's smthing fishy. Huh...
Keep rocking..

Thanks.

Originally posted by: ssrbaqri