Rule Aarushiyaaaaaaaaaaa !! - Page 23

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

I hear you Kools, and understand what you say very well, however surely even you cant deny that the possibility of an escape route did indeed present itself and that too in the form of the Pratster herself - whatever else can be said about her, at least in her Kesar had a degree of support and an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, at least with her "higher than thou" tones P presented the possibility, a glipse of a different type of life.....

agreed - the CVs goofed amazingly when having taken Kesar to PO and made complaint against the TNs, she bought her back to the hell hole, but I truly believe had she even contemplated redress or relief from Shakti's abuse then not only P but K too would have supported her.....

You cannot help an abused woman until and unless she wants A) - to help herself B)- your help

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I don't think that A and P are responsible for other peoples crazy acts. .

But they responsible for their OWN . And walking into a house of monsters willingly was THEIR action , THEIR act . So Pay for it then . By all means exercise ur right as a woman and walk out but go to jail for 7 years for bigamy .

As far as Pratigya goes , she did the same thing . She took a voluntary decision to marry in this house of horrors , so I guess its her fate to endure all that goes on .If not , she has option of divorce .Or moving out with Krish in tow .We dont see her doing both .........she talks of APNA pARIVAAR when she repeatedly attempts to put the same Parivaar in jail .Its puzzling to me . Why live there ? I dont get the point .

Point is , these sisters have immense strength that they use for rubbish reasons . Not for the right causes . I wud have appreciated seeing Pratigya waging a fight over a womans right to work and earn , over moving out , over setting up a house where she lives on her terms and conditions and shows K a different world where their children can be brot up differently . But we dont see it .

We see Arushi showing boldness in attempts to being spiteful .........not in telling police officer I was the one doing bigamy , put me in jail but get me outta here , I take responsibility for my actions . There she plays the victim coz very obviously she doesnt want jail .

Kools I agree and have always agreed with the forum members that A should be in jail for bigamy but it is unfair to blame her for everything from the common cold to black death.

Originally posted by: yummimommy

Hey Tanths I feel that her status was already below Piyassia's the moment they learned she could not conceive, Amma wouldn't even let her have a glass of milk. She had to work if she wanted to continue living there .

Kesar was given shelter but never had a home. IMO a home is where you feel safe and secure and you are loved unconditionally by atleast on person. Kesar never had any of this. A entrance into TN did not alter her condition in anyway. I can't see how her life was ruined by A.

Sane people do not look at murder as a solution to their problems. I don't think that A and P are responsible for other peoples crazy acts.

The status of Piyasiya was always way high..even higher than Pratigya ...

What I am saying is Kesar was beaten up by her hubby at regular basis..but the whole scale abuse started when Kesar was seen Pro-Pratigya.....Amma would have let her have the milk had it been some one else taking the milk but since it was Pratigya , she had to shoot it down....

Kesar never had a home either in maike [where she would have been considered a bhoj or in Sasural [ where she came to be regarded as the sympathizer of Pratigya] ..her situ became worse after the advent of Pratigya and turned worst after the pulpit proclamation of Shakthi's marital status.......the irony is that A and P are not directly responsible for the ensuing hungama , but their interference always creates a havoc ..much like a stone thrown at a still pond causing a ripple...the pond will have muck,dirt etc ..but it would still be calm and placid..the A n P's with their Stone throw act cause a ever widening ripple which disturbs the calmness of the pond..and there is a uneasy shift of mucks..

Originally posted by: starlight123

Tanths, by saying this Shakti is not to blame as he has learnt from his father on how to treat his wife....😆
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Yep, the Sax has an ego as big as SS. Uff....everything has to be about him, him, and him. Pratigya follows him blindly without having a mind of her own. Its always papa, papa and papa.

Even after papa refused to believe about Aman, the bond seems to be more stronger than before. It was her husband who was her major support but she blindly forgets that when it comes to her father. He has a hold on Pratigya.

I am not saying she should cut ties from her father, but she needs to realise that her father is fallible and her husband is the one who has given her the true support when needed the most.

It is more of an blind and fanatic tie....I too feel uncomfortable with this so strong bond.....such type of bonds will not allow other bonds to flourish ...Krishna must begin to set terms...I personally feel that Pratigya has trampled long enough, time for her to grow up and move away from the cradle..

Originally posted by: tanthya

Huma [May I call u that]

looks like all 3 of us are rather unanimous in this ...😊

Yes Tanths you may call me Huma and darling if you want😆😆😆

She is not a gone case, MMG..there is fire inside her, just recall her furious glare when the Kothewali comes or her feeling of humiliation when She is forced to take part in Aarushi's muh dikhayi ...There ticks a vibrant heart MMG and not a resigned heart...what stops her is the thought of her future...

Tanthya darling I dunno why ur calling me MMG😔 Its me KOOLS 😆 who is differing with u . Furious glare ? Do u see fury in her glares Tanthya ? I don't . I see a totally abused woman with a broken spirit , who cant even lift her head up to talk . Totally totally resigned to her fate . So terrified in her mind , that purging her mind of that terror will be a tough job for a counsellor . . Btw I saw fury in the glares of Pratigya only . Especially in that Dheem Tana music background where she glances furiously with hair flowing in the background . Its so CORNY , but thats the Hindi serial way of showing SPIRIT .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

She is not a gone case, MMG..there is fire inside her, just recall her furious glare when the Kothewali comes or her feeling of humiliation when She is forced to take part in Aarushi's muh dikhayi ...There ticks a vibrant heart MMG and not a resigned heart...what stops her is the thought of her future...

Tanthya darling I dunno why ur calling me MMG😔 Its me KOOLS 😆 who is differing with u . Furious glare ? Do u see fury in her glares Tanthya ? I don't . I see a totally abused woman with a broken spirit , who cant even lift her head up to talk . Totally totally resigned to her fate . So terrified in her mind , that purging her mind of that terror will be a tough job for a counsellor . . Btw I saw fury in the glares of Pratigya only . Especially in that Dheem Tana music background where she glances furiously with hair flowing in the background . Its so CORNY , but thats the Hindi serial way of showing SPIRIT .

The status of Piyasiya was always way high..even higher than Pratigya ...

Not really . Piyasiya knows how to SURVIVE in that situation . Thats it . Its all about survival really . There r situations and situations and then there r the means to survive them . Piyasiya know how to do this survival better than Pratigya , Arushi and Kesar . She doesnt try to change the situation or even wud dream of it , she focusses on getting the bEST out of it . Smart woman .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

She is not a gone case, MMG..there is fire inside her, just recall her furious glare when the Kothewali comes or her feeling of humiliation when She is forced to take part in Aarushi's muh dikhayi ...There ticks a vibrant heart MMG and not a resigned heart...what stops her is the thought of her future...

Tanthya darling I dunno why ur calling me MMG😔 Its me KOOLS 😆 who is differing with u . Furious glare ? Do u see fury in her glares Tanthya ? I don't . I see a totally abused woman with a broken spirit , who cant even lift her head up to talk . Totally totally resigned to her fate . So terrified in her mind , that purging her mind of that terror will be a tough job for a counsellor . . Btw I saw fury in the glares of Pratigya only . Especially in that Dheem Tana music background where she glances furiously with hair flowing in the background . Its so CORNY , but thats the Hindi serial way of showing SPIRIT .

ooops ,Kools..Am so sorry,Dear..these quote boxes had me confused 😳😃

Yes,,There will be anger at the Kothewali but not at Shakthi ..and I disagree as to Kesar's resigned status..what u say should have yielded to an apathetic status, I do not see her in apathy..she still wants her hubby to love...in fact Shakthi is the Sun of her universe not by fate but by her choice..she did not harbor any resentment or anger instead she was absolutely thrilled when Shakthi began to sweet talk to her..I did not see her mourning the loss [except for that momentary suicide bid]..she wanted to get him back into her life...so she asked for Magic kajal..she volunteered to provide Sex which was rejected ..which caused her enrmous hurt..I do not see any resigned Woman in her reaction's..I see a bubbling and sizzling woman who is unable to see any woman by her hubby's side..