Rule Aarushiyaaaaaaaaaaa !! - Page 21

Originally posted by: starlight123

It happens at times........😆 and can be very infuriating....

How was your weekend and hope your kids are feeling better today..........😊

Thanks for asking Star ...... They're still at home.
Star when I cane back on line I read MMG post on Kools thread and it was everything that I wanted to say. Please read it because she phrased it far better than I could have . I'm not being rude I just don't want to repeat what she has already said .

Originally posted by: adilmomin786

Yummy mother! How's the kid doing ?? Fully recovered ?? Is he recovered to an extent that he's got you on your toes all day!

Thanks for asking Adil .... I have 2 and they are both home.
Oh.... I love the Yummy Mother!

Originally posted by: yummimommy

Thanks for asking Adil .... I have 2 and they are both home.
Oh.... I love the Yummy Mother!

That's good to hear! Me too, ima start calling my mom, yummy mother! Lol

Originally posted by: adilmomin786

That's good to hear! Me too, ima start calling my mom, yummy mother! Lol

All moms are Yummy except Amma 😆 .

Originally posted by: yummimommy

All moms are Yummy except Amma 😆 .

put naina in there! 😆 onscreen momma, offscreen girlfriend! Lil too yummy turn into bitter! 😆

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

Oh I am sooo glad I dipped into this thread!!!!!!😊

I have been in such a militant mood after writing a post on another thread which I'll copy here too coz I'd love to hear your comments.....I had willed myself to stay schtumm but then I'm not bery good quiet!😆

So I let the dam burst and all my fire and brimstone spewed out, henceI feel a bit like a deflated tyre!!!!

Great post Huma and you Star!!!👏👏 Am so glad to find myself agreeing with you guys, an approach I consider a lot more balanced than some round here......

Here's what I wrote.... go get a cup of chai before you do though, it's a long-un!!!🥱

"People - this is fictional!

Can you simply not see that analyising on a real life basis is a fallacy in itself?

The potholes are enormous, no character is blameless or blameworthy in their entirety, which is the only realistic part - life is simply not black and white but many shades between.......

Agree with you ...but Pratigya sees only 2 colors {Even Krishna had complained about this ] unless it is the Sax ..then it is the whole rainbow ...and we are asking for a change in this approach.

this diraama is virtual, people, but in my opinion, if the analyses here are remotely indicative of how some people here would deal with real-life issues, then I am seriously worried......

Drama is virtual, but some of the incidents and esp Aarushi's bigamous marriage track is something that does happen and ill-treatment of the first wife [ in case of neglect or poor financial condition ]is a fact.

Revenge of woman spurned gainst married man..........erm not an entirely unheard of situation but in this scenario, exactly what would be gained by the spurned woman, that wouldnt be simply momentary?

Woman seeks revenge...but this was one of the unrealistic scene..could understand had she flipped for Shakthi and married him ...but this will be taken with a pinch of salt..

Again if u are speaking about Kesar as a spurned woman and what she will get as revenge...first ..she will get the satisfaction of having brought the culprits to justice, second she will now have the courage to get on with her life [after seeing that the perps are under lock and key...she will understand that there is something even more powerful than Thaks and Thaks can be cowed]..three ..finance..if she goes to her maika..same fate meets ..or perhaps even worse..but if she fights at least she will be given maintenance leading to financial independence

The married man is firmly married to woman he prefers to be with,on his way to have baby, so what is the flippin point of wasting energy on revenge? exactly what is going to change in any great material way in the future of the spurned woman? Nothing, I would suggest, other than positive action and getting on wid life is what will help such a woman...in these circumstances, revenge is time and energy wasted unless all you want is a brief moment of satisfaction.....

How will she get on with life, MMG...when she has no money,no education, no back up..to acquire money..she needs to fight in the court, to get protection she needs to fight in the court..

The pitiful first wife and serially abused woman - is in my opinion a lost cause. Am opportunity raised itself to stand against her oppressor(s) and that opportunity was wasted. Any woman that fails to stand against such people, at the point where her own child is murdered n the womb, is beyond redemption. This woman had a choice and I dont care if someone screams until theyre blue in the face at me that I'm wrong , I will still refuse to accept that a woman does not have a choice to walk away from such people if not even bring herself to take action against them. Every day on this earth is a new opportunity to do things differently This woman never has and never will.

I am quite in agreement with you , MMG ...I could never give a clean chit to Kesar re Abortion's..to me it always appeared like she wanted Shakthi more than the kids..and would have willingly killed dozen's more just to stay with him..

As for holding others reponsible in some way for her untimely death (should that happen) that is utter crap. The person reponsible for her death is the one that carries out - no other person's actions can be said to be responsible. That's like saying you and me have an argument, you choose to walk out of it and get in a car and drive off in a rage, get angry coz some other motorist shouts at you for your mad driving, you get out and thump that motorist who falls on the pavement and dies - I guess that's my fault huh?? NOT!

If a ball was thrown at full force on to a glass window..and the window broke...would you say that it was the fault of the window bec it was made of glass, or the fault of the ball bec it came and crashed against the glass or the fault of the hand that threw the ball..we normally hold that hand as responsible for that break.....similarly it is Aarushi's action's which are influencing the course of Shakthi's behavior and Kesar is that glass that is getting broken..

The point I am trying to make is that no one is as good as you think they are and by the same token no one is as bad either. This is a fictional situation and even in real life things are never so clearly defined, because one persons heaven is another's hell....what i fid really difficult to digest however is the wide berth that ought to be given to this diraama when it suggests it is representative of reality, people cant use their own common sense to make up their mind whether these are mere words to entice you to watch a serial or whether they speak the truth.

And another thing!😆

Arushi standing up to Sakti is no problem to me whatsoever!

At least she has reached a point it would appear where she no longer cares whether she gets hurt, hit, killed or otherwise, but will stand up for what she believes is the right thing for her to do, unlike Kesar, and not just give in to her misery. Unlike revenge, fighting for the right to to live a life your way, or in Kesar's case fighting for the right to exist, is a fight worth spending time and energy on. 👍🏼

I sooo hope the CVs have got us all in a twist for nothing and Kesar will be shown to finally rise up and take no more from the TNs - in which case I will take it all back about her being hopeless.

Otherwise in my opinion, she would have had a better life as a cow, who in that country are at least fed amd looked after, and worshipped if lucky.....

Phew........................I'm cream-crackered after that!!!!!!🥺"

"

Phew.....*wiping the sweat off my brow*...I'm glad I am not the intended person of this post.😃😆
😆

Originally posted by: starlight123

@ Tanthya, the way they've used marriage has hurt me because I have seen the fallout and consequences of a bad marriage and how much effort one has put to make a marriage work, even if it is one sided effort.😔

I know ?Hun..by all tokens...the marriage's of younger generation's would have come apart [had it been real life] .....There would have been family discussion , sorting out or even separation ...but here All they are concerned about is Chai,samosa, prestige and status..

Originally posted by: tanthya

I know ?Hun..by all tokens...the marriage's of younger generation's would have come apart [had it been real life] .....There would have been family discussion , sorting out or even separation ...but here All they are concerned about is Chai,samosa, prestige and status..

Tanths, out of the three marriages I sympathise with Komal the most because my mother was in a similar position as hers. From forced marriage to a husband who never supported his wife. I can understand Komal's plight of being in a loveless, no hope marriage.

No educated woman would want a husband like Adarsh and trust me these husbands are just as bad as Shakti. Just because they have all values and are respectable to their wife, it does not mean they are good husbands or for the matter of fact good fathers. These type of men just want women to submit to them without them making any changes in their own behaviour.

I just dont get why ppl dont question Adarsh's behaviour as a husband or a man. He seems to be given a free ride on his treatment to his wife. May be I am blindly looking it from a personal angle but I dont see any kind of ingenuity from him to work on the marriage. It is always Komal who is making the effort.

Did the Prof teach his kids marriage is fun and that getting married to ruin other people's life is what marriage is all about. Because this is exactly how each of his kids have done and none seem to take it seriously for them to believe in the sacred institution.

Originally posted by: adilmomin786

Madmadgirl, by reading your post. It feels like keser still hasn't opened up yet! I was waiting for her to explode long time ago! Eh not all dreams come true. I was thinking after baby died, she'd beat the crap out of shakti. No, I was wrong. After the wedding, nothing happened.

Ganti dadi will speak soon. I'm sure keser will raise hell in a few days.

Originally posted by: tanthya

Phew.....*wiping the sweat off my brow*...I'm glad I am not the intended person of this post.😃😆
😆