Rule Aarushiyaaaaaaaaaaa !! - Page 22

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

Sorry babe, i dint make myself clear at all.....I was referring to Argh!oosiya as the woman spurned and Aman as the married man in this scenario!!!!😃😆

I am hoping this will make a bit more sense after this!!!😉

Now it does !!...I did wonder cos some of the lines did not fit the triangle ,but for the life of me I could not remember that powdered vampire....😆😆😆...Yes...revenge is waste of energy and as proved in Aarushi's case ..it can also end from the frying pan and into the fire...but I still want just punishment for her plus a few uncomfortable question either from the SI,Kesar or the judge ...

I am quite in agreement with you , MMG ...I could never give a clean chit to Kesar re Abortion's..to me it always appeared like she wanted Shakthi more than the kids..and would have willingly killed dozen's more just to stay with him..

I wud differ slightly over here with all due respect tanthya .😊 I have myself said this once to prove a point but Kesar is a horribly abused woman with severe spirit damage ...........Abuse breaks the spirit of a woman and she lives in a terror zone ....in her mind there is NO ESCAPE ROUTE . The last effect of abuse is

Originally posted by: tanthya

Kesar life was ruined the day she was married into the Thakur household ...but at least she was part of the household until the new princess arrived and she was relegated to to a status lesser than that of Piyasiya.

I do not hate Aarushi..My ire is that Aarushi very well know that Shakthi was married, Aarushi had a rapport with Kesar.....yet in a flick of an eye she rubbished all that , destroyed the values she learned and cold bloodedly chose to destroy a Woman's life without even sufferring a momentary twinge is somehow hard for me to reconcle...Her crime is even greater than Thakur's [for me]..Thakur's are killing a Body whereas Aarushi killed a soul..This despite many years of learning right and wrong,values,ethics ....

Hey Tanths I feel that her status was already below Piyassia's the moment they learned she could not conceive, Amma wouldn't even let her have a glass of milk. She had to work if she wanted to continue living there .

Originally posted by: starlight123

Tanths, out of the three marriages I sympathise with Komal the most because my mother was in a similar position as hers. From forced marriage to a husband who never supported his wife. I can understand Komal's plight of being in a loveless, no hope marriage.

No educated woman would want a husband like Adarsh and trust me these husbands are just as bad as Shakti. Just because they have all values and are respectable to their wife, it does not mean they are good husbands or for the matter of fact good fathers. These type of men just want women to submit to them without them making any changes in their own behaviour.

I just dont get why ppl dont question Adarsh's behaviour as a husband or a man. He seems to be given a free ride on his treatment to his wife. May be I am blindly looking it from a personal angle but I dont see any kind of ingenuity from him to work on the marriage. It is always Komal who is making the effort.

Did the Prof teach his kids marriage is fun and that getting married to ruin other people's life is what marriage is all about. Because this is exactly how each of his kids have done and none seem to take it seriously for them to believe in the sacred institution.

I find the SAX culpable than his Son , his way of treating his wife inspite of the AAp's is deplorable..All her suggestion's have gone unheeded or laughed off..where Thakur is loud and voluble,Sax is stealth and refined snobbery....she is just his valet who takes his bag n helmet ,maid who irons,serves and a cook ....I have not seen him respecting her wishes ...how can the children be any different ...Adarsh practices it on wife while Pratigya practices it on Krishna,Amma n mummy

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I am quite in agreement with you , MMG ...I could never give a clean chit to Kesar re Abortion's..to me it always appeared like she wanted Shakthi more than the kids..and would have willingly killed dozen's more just to stay with him..

I wud differ slightly over here with all due respect tanthya .😊 I have myself said this once to prove a point but Kesar is a horribly abused woman with severe spirit damage ...........Abuse breaks the spirit of a woman and she lives in a terror zone ....in her mind there is NO ESCAPE ROUTE . The last effect of abuse is

connecting to ur abuser and wanting his good opinion . Everything else stops mattering then , all concepts of right or wrong , good or bad .Years and years with that abuser leaves one only with that connection.........between that abused and the abuser .The abused holds on tightly to it as she has nothing else left anymore except that abuse . Its horrific , yes , but its there ..

Years of marital rape , mental torture of the vilest kind , beatings , forced abortions ........Kesar has perhaps tasted not one particular form of abuse but ALL TYPES OF ABUSE out there .Imagine the effect on her mind .A counsellor wud tell us that she is a gone case , she wud perhaps never recover . OMg I cant even talk about it .

OMG Kools you and I agree😆😆😆 I feel like Kesar has always wanted KN approval more than children otherwise she could have approached SS for security. He would have helped her at the time.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I am quite in agreement with you , MMG ...I could never give a clean chit to Kesar re Abortion's..to me it always appeared like she wanted Shakthi more than the kids..and would have willingly killed dozen's more just to stay with him..

I wud differ slightly over here with all due respect tanthya .😊 I have myself said this once to prove a point but Kesar is a horribly abused woman with severe spirit damage ...........Abuse breaks the spirit of a woman and she lives in a terror zone ....in her mind there is NO ESCAPE ROUTE . The last effect of abuse is

connecting to ur abuser and wanting his good opinion . Everything else stops mattering then , all concepts of right or wrong , good or bad .Years and years with that abuser leaves one only with that connection.........between that abused and the abuser .The abused holds on tightly to it as she has nothing else left anymore except that abuse . Its horrific , yes , but its there ..

Years of marital rape , mental torture of the vilest kind , beatings , forced abortions ........Kesar has perhaps tasted not one particular form of abuse but ALL TYPES OF ABUSE out there .Imagine the effect on her mind .A counsellor wud tell us that she is a gone case , she wud perhaps never recover . OMg I cant even talk about it .

I don't think that A and P are responsible for other peoples crazy acts. .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I am quite in agreement with you , MMG ...I could never give a clean chit to Kesar re Abortion's..to me it always appeared like she wanted Shakthi more than the kids..and would have willingly killed dozen's more just to stay with him..

I wud differ slightly over here with all due respect tanthya .😊 I have myself said this once to prove a point but Kesar is a horribly abused woman with severe spirit damage ...........Abuse breaks the spirit of a woman and she lives in a terror zone ....in her mind there is NO ESCAPE ROUTE . The last effect of abuse is

connecting to ur abuser and wanting his good opinion . Everything else stops mattering then , all concepts of right or wrong , good or bad .Years and years with that abuser leaves one only with that connection.........between that abused and the abuser .The abused holds on tightly to it as she has nothing else left anymore except that abuse . Its horrific , yes , but its there ..

Years of marital rape , mental torture of the vilest kind , beatings , forced abortions ........Kesar has perhaps tasted not one particular form of abuse but ALL TYPES OF ABUSE out there .Imagine the effect on her mind .A counsellor wud tell us that she is a gone case , she wud perhaps never recover . OMg I cant even talk about it .

MMG, Hun..U can differ ,quarrel,argue ...I do not take umbrage with my frnds...😃..

MMg, what u are talking about is Stockholm syndrome...but unlike that syndrome..here Kesar is well aware of Shakthi's perfidies, Knows his rotten core to a T ..and still chose Shakthi over Babies...she was very well aware that one word and SS would be like a hawk protecting its waaris ...but did she choose to go with SS , No she wanted Shakthi's affection, yearned for it so mch that she even asked for a magic kajal to entice him..

She is not a gone case, MMG..there is fire inside her, just recall her furious glare when the Kothewali comes or her feeling of humiliation when She is forced to take part in Aarushi's muh dikhayi ...There ticks a vibrant heart MMG and not a resigned heart...what stops her is the thought of her future...

Originally posted by: tanthya

I find the SAX culpable than his Son , his way of treating his wife inspite of the AAp's is deplorable..All her suggestion's have gone unheeded or laughed off..where Thakur is loud and voluble,Sax is stealth and refined snobbery....she is just his valet who takes his bag n helmet ,maid who irons,serves and a cook ....I have not seen him respecting her wishes ...how can the children be any different ...Adarsh practices it on wife while Pratigya practices it on Krishna,Amma n mummy

Tanths, by saying this Shakti is not to blame as he has learnt from his father on how to treat his wife....😆
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Yep, the Sax has an ego as big as SS. Uff....everything has to be about him, him, and him. Pratigya follows him blindly without having a mind of her own. Its always papa, papa and papa.

Even after papa refused to believe about Aman, the bond seems to be more stronger than before. It was her husband who was her major support but she blindly forgets that when it comes to her father. He has a hold on Pratigya.

I am not saying she should cut ties from her father, but she needs to realise that her father is fallible and her husband is the one who has given her the true support when needed the most.

Originally posted by: yummimommy

OMG Kools you and I agree😆😆😆 I feel like Kesar has always wanted KN approval more than children otherwise she could have approached SS for security. He would have helped her at the time.

Huma [May I call u that]

looks like all 3 of us are rather unanimous in this ...😊