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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: CID_HD

Seems all are planning to write story for the show.

you are most welcome to help us 😊 we need support
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

Ok, sathya..what was komal doin in TN... she esply came to stop KN's n A's SR.... Iam really not getting things here...why all of u blaming P...what K does is also wrong....has he ever thought of being a good husband - iam asking in the sense of earning n bring her izzat ka roti on his own. he couldn't even get her a glass of milk....he everytime doesn't give damn whn they r taunting him for not earning...then why he took the venom now they all fed him...Really thts not K at all.
Ok, I agree, P is also wrong..but he withstood all their mockery on his babu, who agve her heart n soul to him.Ok, let me ask u this Sathya...what she getting from this marriage? Only Love n security????She least want those jewels n costly Sarees K brought with his self respect totally damaged by Takurs. She did mentioned there...but what she was asked to do is just close ur ears, if u don't like.
Why he didn't do today tht?????

d reson behind krishna not paying importance to all this is that hz been taught like this......his dad n bro encouraged him.that he don't need to work as he has every thing........but wen they leaved TN he tried his level best 2 give pratgya a good living.i'm not talking about his addda but about wen he sold his ring to get food 4 her,..........krishna needs time to overcome 4m d mentality with he get 4m his own dad n bro............4m his childhood he was encouraged 4 all this..so he can't b able 2 understand it so easily.........talking about wat he has done 4 prats...........we can't forget all those incidents wen it was only K who was standing beside prats...........in all bad times pratigya always found krishna standing 4 her...........now wat do we need 4m him to prove that he is vry loyal 2wards d relation
Edited by pragati.tankha - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

Ok, sathya..what was komal doin in TN... she esply came to stop KN's n A's SR.... Iam really not getting things here...why all of u blaming P...what K does is also wrong....has he ever thought of being a good husband - iam asking in the sense of earning n bring her izzat ka roti on his own. he couldn't even get her a glass of milk....he everytime doesn't give damn whn they r taunting him for not earning...then why he took the venom now they all fed him...Really thts not K at all.
Ok, I agree, P is also wrong..but he withstood all their mockery on his babu, who agve her heart n soul to him.Ok, let me ask u this Sathya...what she getting from this marriage? Only Love n security????She least want those jewels n costly Sarees K brought with his self respect totally damaged by Takurs. She did mentioned there...but what she was asked to do is just close ur ears, if u don't like.
Why he didn't do today tht?????

She is getting independence, acceptance,Space and freedom to do her own thing ,...a freedom which would not have been possible had she been married to some other person ..

The tirade has been going on from the time they realised that Pratigya was not intent on being a wife to Baba...

Krishna had shut his ears..had fought for her .... ...Krishna had even obliquely told Pratigya what is expected ..which he disdains at every given opportunity ...but an elastic can be stretched only upto a point ..after that it breaks...Krishna has reached that point ..





Komal came bec she was invited ..she did not drop on a whim. ...

We are not blaming Pratigya ...but we do question her priorities ..

what is a good husband ?? Babs ..

Acc to u ..if a man earns ..then he is a good husband...by that rule Shakthi is a good husband ..and I do not consider him to be a good husband ...A good husband is one who stands by his wife, gives her space , accepts her as an equal, defends her from any spite and trouble..It was this bad Husband..who took her everyday to the court and prison ..fought with his family by saying it is her father who is in prison , how can she be normal..she has to be with them ..not once did he say to Pratigya..Pratigya ..what the hell do u think u r doing..My bauji offered his aid and ur family refused and now what is the need for u to butt in ..ur place is here ..Let ur Brother take care of it ..he is the eldest..let him decide..

He is the same bad husband who took out a gun bec he could not see the tears in his wife's eyes ..

He is the same husband who undertook to find out the truth about Aman after Pratigya's attempts failed..he is the same Bad husband who inspite of being insulted persevered in exposing Aman ..Never once did he say ..Ur sister insulted me..Ur parents dont trust me...why the hell shud i bother with such moron's ....

He is the same Bad husband who wiped the coal off her face and sent a message that she is his wife and will remain so..no amount of slander will change it...


Krishna did not support Pratigya y'day and u label him a bad husband...Give me an instances when Pratigya has fully and whole heartedly stood by Krishna ...She was silent when his mother was taunting him..she was silen when her parents were disparaging him ..She did not stop him from drinking foot water ..tears rolled down her eyes when SS was humiliating Krishna by calling him the servant of sax, driver to Pratigya..but it did not stop her from leaving to the court..I did not hear her say "Krishna..I cant see ppl insulting u ..My bro and Aman are ther t, they will take care of the case..we will not go..I will keep in touch thru Phone" ..She shed two drops and away she went to be with her papa , shrugging off the insults piled on her hubby caused due to her action..



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Edited by tanthya - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya




Komal came bec she was invited ..she did not drop on a whim. ...

We are not blaming Pratigya ...but we do question her priorities ..

what is a good husband ?? Babs ..

Acc to u ..if a man earns ..then he is a good husband...by that rule Shakthi is a good husband ..and I do not consider him to be a good husband ...A good husband is one who stands by his wife, gives her space , accepts her as an equal, defends her from any spite and trouble..It was this bad Husband..who took her everyday to the court and prison ..fought with his family by saying it is her father who is in prison , how can she be normal..she has to be with them ..not once did he say to Pratigya..Pratigya ..what the hell do u think u r doing..My bauji offered his aid and ur family refused and now what is the need for u to butt in ..ur place is here ..Let ur Brother take care of it ..he is the eldest..let him decide..

He is the same bad husband who took out a gun bec he could not see the tears in his wife's eyes ..

He is the same husband who undertook to find out the truth about Aman after Pratigya's attempts failed..he is the same Bad husband who inspite of being insulted persevered in exposing Aman ..Never once did he say ..Ur sister insulted me..Ur parents dont trust me...why the hell shud i bother with such moron's ....

He is the same Bad husband who wiped the coal off her face and sent a message that she is his wife and will remain so..no amount of slander will change it...
Komal would be there to console her in laws..but Komal does not consider the marriage a disaster , Acc to her thinking Aarushi escaped being a tainted woman, alife long spinster due to the grand gesture of her Brother ..she does not find this an occasion to mourn rather an occasion to celebrate ...

he reacts bec he brought her there ...and he is responsible for the troubles caused by the action's of Pratigya..Naturally he will react ..

what would have happened had he not welcomed Aarushi..would that unholy alliance become unknotted...would that relation not get sanction ..Nothing , Nada, Zilch ..His reaction would not have done anything...Krishna was being practical and realistic..what has happened had happened , and he was trying to accept the irrevocable with good grace...but yes his attitude would have been condemnable had Aarushi was forcibly married to Shakthi and he accepted it..but not with current situation where the charade took place with mutual consent...

if a man earns ..then he is a good husband...by that rule Shakthi is a good husband
And yes, if this line are to be agreed upon, Adarsh is a very good husband to Komal. Har ek ladki ko Adarsh jaisa pati milna chahiye - OK, sorry for bringing Adarsh into picture when he is innocently sitting on his tum tum. I am in so much love with Adarsh, that my mind always goes and stops at Adarsh no matter what discussion is going on here.
Edited by mnsu - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnsu

Tanthya,

Liked your description today. I have not been watching the episodes lately, but descriptions from many of you give the feel of watching the episode clear and crisp.
You have commendable talent in writing and especially embedding the right quote in right place.



Thank You , Mnsu ...

I am not surprised by that, Dear..A lot of loyal viewers have disliked the present track and have taken a time out..lets hope u will re join as soon as Track changes..


Thannx again for ur appreciation !!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnsu

if a man earns ..then he is a good husband...by that rule Shakthi is a good husband
And yes, if this line are to be agreed upon, Adarsh is a very good husband to Komal. Har ek ladki ko Adarsh jaisa pati milna chahiye - OK, sorry for bringing Adarsh into picture when he is innocently sitting on his tum tum. I am in so much love with Adarsh, that my mind always goes and stops at Adarsh no matter what discussion is going on here.



So true..I had forgotten tha Tum-Tum King ...but now he is sitting at home, bullying his wife , demeaning her, shutting her ...I dont recall any threads saying what a "GOOD " Husband Adarsh is ??

Remember na... Nainaji's hawk eyes are fixed on Adarsh 😉😆😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The saxena clan does not and has never pretended to represent the educated class. They are the classic example of what we may call middle class mind set. Where education is not for self edification but is an acquirement which gives them ability to earn their livelihood. In case of a girl, education makes her more of desirable bahu.
What they call majboori is more of a moral cowardice.
For them the society is neatly divd. into the good(sax), bad(ugly) and the ugly(Thakurs).
Time and again they have made a mockery of marr.
In what ways is the status of komal better than kesar. Neglected, rebuked and an embarrassment. Adarsh does not live her but merely bears with her existence.
I know its a bit bold of me to say so, but as a wannabe pratigya let me say it.
For P, K is good enough within the confines of the bedroom but in the outside world, he is a liability, better kept in the background.
A woman can also have her share of faults and P is everywoman. Let us finally accept that . K's faults are glaring but p's run deep. the middle class sensibility of her has taught her to camouflage them for appearances' sake.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Its not that Pratigya treats K as a piece of wood or furniture, nor sees him a liability in front of others...she very well knows that he is her life n she is more than happy to spent her rest of life with him. But as a wife, she lacks in setting her priorities. She unknowingly ..in the name of supporting right n erasing wrongs..she is erring..definitely erring.

For Krishna..as tanth pointed out....now there is a bahu who is educated...has come from the same (not even similar) middle class sanskari family...so when the other can gel ..he will obviously start thinking about where Pratigya is failing..for him till now she was perfect ..perfect to the core..her different priorities have gone unnoticed or largely ignored by him.

Both are flawed characters.....if Pratigya lacks in being a part of her in-laws household..Krishna himself never insisted her on that...
so the next phase in their relationship would be setting this right..which wen set right takes the husband-wife relationship to a new high level.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: HamiSky

Its not that Pratigya treats K as a piece of wood or furntiure, nor sees him a liability in front of others...she very well knows that he is her life n he is more than happy to spent her rest of life with him. But as a wife, she lacks in setting her priorities. She unknowingly ..in the anme of supporting right n erasing wrongs..she is erring..definitely erring.

For Krishna..as tanth pointed out....now there is a bahu who is educated...has come from the same (not even similar) middle class sanskari family...so when the other can gel ..he will obviously start thinking about where Pratigya is failing..for him till no she is perfect ..perfect to the core..her different priorities have gone unnoticed or largely ignored by him.

Both are flawed characters.....if Pratigya lacks in being a part of her in-laws household..Krishna himself never insisted her on that...
so the next phase in their relationship would be setting this right..which wen set right takes the husband-wife relationship to a new high level.

I agree with you. They are both wrong in this instance. K ko itna kaan ka kacha nahin hona chaye and P definitely needs to show K how she feels about him rather than assume that he knows. I'm gonna be a mugwump today and sit on the fence. Despite the fact that there are timed when I think I'm going to pop a blood vessel in brain when they show P to be the model of perfection I don't think they are doing it this time around. P flaws are showing. She is frustrated and taking it out on the wrong person. She's picking fights and ignoring him. Maybe a holi make-up but until then a rollercoaster ride.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: HamiSky

Its not that Pratigya treats K as a piece of wood or furntiure, nor sees him a liability in front of others...she very well knows that he is her life n he is more than happy to spent her rest of life with him. But as a wife, she lacks in setting her priorities. She unknowingly ..in the anme of supporting right n erasing wrongs..she is erring..definitely erring.

For Krishna..as tanth pointed out....now there is a bahu who is educated...has come from the same (not even similar) middle class sanskari family...so when the other can gel ..he will obviously start thinking about where Pratigya is failing..for him till no she is perfect ..perfect to the core..her different priorities have gone unnoticed or largely ignored by him.

Both are flawed characters.....if Pratigya lacks in being a part of her in-laws household..Krishna himself never insisted her on that...
so the next phase in their relationship would be setting this right..which wen set right takes the husband-wife relationship to a new high level.

Krishna...if he thinks that there is one educated bahu who is getting along with the family and starts compaing Aarushi with Pratigya then I would have to say that he is plain blind or dumb. If he can not see the difference of behaviour of his parents towards Aarushi and Pratigya since the day one then I dont know what to say anymore. I dont blame P at all for not being a GOOD BAHU as she has not got good inlaws but has got monster-in-laws who dont leave a single chance unturned to insult her😡...in fact i would give it up to P for still being respectful to them. And moreover K also knows that A seeks revenge on P and still thinks A is good bahu then I dont know what to think about him.
Though I would say about P being not a good wife. She needs to pay more attention to K for their relationship to sustain in this junglee family. But having said that, P is the only person imp. to K always. he doesnt care of anyone else around him dies as long as he and P are safe and thats y we get to see his love for P more than often and on the other hand, P can not turn bliind eye is any one is suffering in front of her. its just instant instinct to her that person out. She cant help it. which I dont think is a bad thing at all. but in doing so, she forgets sometimes that she has a other life as a bahu and a wife as well. though for the BAHU part, I am not concerned at all as those people do not deserve her except dadi and kesar. but in a wife department, she has to work quite hard😕.
but Krishna needs to think about being independent too. I mean this is the heights. I feel at times that does he have self respect or not...I mean he lives under a roof with the people who have openly taunted him and his wife for every other reason, I feel for a guy not to even react to such situation is very hard to fathom...he needs to be a man very soon to earn some respect from his family as well as his wife😳.
Anyway...both have flaws and need to work on it but as of now I sincerely hope CV's are going somewhere with the current track and with the aweful journey, we will be rewarded with some logical and decent outcome😊.

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