Shame on krishna - Page 7

Originally posted by: anusarkar

Anu,
Thanks for this post. You have been saying this for a few days now with negligent response from this fourm 😕 - the reason, of course, is that all of us here are too close, too involved in the details of this soap to step back and see it merely as a social issue.

You are absolutely right - say No to domestic violence and abuse. say it loud, say it strong, mean it becasue otherwise you'll be hit again.

I want to qualify a few things about this soap and its context however. I don't know where you're located. Going by this statement: "In any present day or time a man will be charged with battery against him and be in jail", I'm assuming you're in the First World. ( First and foremost thanks for your post . Yes I am located in CA - USA. I know this for a fact that it happens in rural India , but the soap is located in proper Allahabad. It is a big city with lot of rich culture and heritage. I am surprised that it happens in metropolition cities too These soaps are mainly watched by women and I think the media should be responsible in showing the remedy of the situation and not encourage it. There is a reason why India is still demeaned as third world country. It is because they do not dwell with the social issues in rural areas.I mean not just domestic matters but in every other matter like education, race. etc. )
The sad fact is that India is not in that situation. Men are not charged for battery still much less do they go to jail for it. The problem is not that a few families are dysfunctional, the problem is that in certain sections of society, in certain insular stratas, the system is dysfunctional.
( Well a society starts with a single family and if one family is stopped there is a chance a chain system will be formed. change has to start somewhere and through somebody. And media and television plays a very important role)
When Krishna or Komal say that this has always happened, they mean it. It happens in their family, it must have happened in Sumitra Devi's maika, Kesar's maika and also the home of this new girl Shakti is about to marry. It happens in the whole community. It is NO surprise to any of the women - they all know this is the state of affairs.( They might have seen it and they might think it is normal. But they have to be taught and educated that it is not acceptable and it is wrong to suffer in pain). This is EXACTLY why the Thakurs hate and fear Pratigya - she's from the OUTSIDE. A woman who has not been taught from the cradle that she will be hit and that's ok. She displays shock, horror. she protests. She tells them she won't be hit, or controlled. That is why they're trying to kill her, muffle her.
( Well lastly I would like to say that I have been taught by my parents never to suffer and always stand up for the truth.Well thats why I am a prosecuter and I cannot tolerate violence towards women)

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Originally posted by: Binny1247

Yes domestic or any form of violence should not be tolerated under any circumstance.

Actually prats not letting him touch her was a part of his punishment she also wanted to teach him a lesson and she succeeded as he has gradually changed though he has a lot of reforming to do. As for offering him her body she also said it would have been rape she challenged him she did not just give in nor did she surrender.

Yes prats slapped Krishna a man who had been stalking her who was abusing her mentally, he ruined hers as well as her families reputation by humiliating them in front of the society they would be forced to face and live in for the rest of their lives when he created a scene during her engagement by questioning her character. I agree he assumed she loved him not because she gave him any reason to but because of his mentality that any women would be lucky to get a life partner like him. The circumstance in which she slapped him was far too different from a man who raised his hand on his wife because his ego had been hurt due to his fault since he chose to lie and forced her to lie as well.

I agree Kesar must decide to help herself but prats did not decide for her she simply took over because she was in a state of shock and since when was it wrong to stand up for an abused women who was incapable of taking any action. It's important to remember that the hardest thing for an abused person to do is raise their voice against the injustice done to them, prats supported her in her time of need when she was incapable of reacting to the situation.

I don't understand how prats situation can be compared to Kesar's once again the circumstances were different, prats was living with her stalker, kidnapper, she could not love him simply because someone told her to do so. Kesar has been physically abused and tortured by this family ever since she married Shakti, I doubt prats needs to convince her she is right in fact even kesar knows prats is correct she just needs to find the strength to stand up for herself and she will with prats support.

Though I agree both do have their faults and prats will eventually change Krishna in to a better human being I did not find anything wrong with her reaction nor choice of words it's time Krishna understood the importance of being able to provide for his wife, I doubt he will hit her but he needs to understand his mistake and explain his situation to prats before things get out of hand.

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

Underlined bit 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kya behoodi hai yaar tu.

Originally posted by: shumi.

Originally posted by: shumi.

Krishna wakes up in the morning.. he opens his cup board all his shoes and clothes has been stolen:

the poor baba was in white boxer short

K: eh humra kapde kon chura ke le gaya be sasur

then he starts to search prats he is nowhere to be seen hence he got to know its prats who stole hsi shoes clothes and watches even handerkerchief

poor baba has to chase prats in his chaddi 😉 woh bhi white

Edited by steffroc - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: steffroc

behoodi

chakar aaah gaye chakar a gaye🤣🤣🤣 wahi tho...🤪

i wonder during the wedding prats got to know he is unpad still went ahead with marriage then when Katra naresh outs gun on his bro'head she knew the family is gunda type she still went ahead with marriage. exactly😉....one more point you for got ....in the middle of their marriage after knowing krishna is unpad saxenaji said yeh shaadi nahi ho sakthi...par pratigwa madam came down from the mandap and advised her pyaare papa....'yeh pehere ho ja ne tho papa....why behoodi why ....😕😆

( Kn has out gun on Adarsh's head not prats . Adarsh married to save his life why did Prats married Gunda) i wonder 😉🤣🤣🤣 ...i think she don't want to miss the chance of marrying a handsome hung....🤣...

Originally posted by: steffroc

🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 abe behoodi yeh white white kya laga rak khi hai...maaj ra kya hai abe...🤣🤣

Originally posted by: shumi.

Originally posted by: shumi.

🤣🤣🤣 behoodi while chasing prat it starts raning liek cats and dogs🤣🤣🤣

eh maajra hia bas 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😉

Originally posted by: steffroc

...i think she don't want to miss the chance of marrying a handsome hung....🤣...🤣🤣🤣 exactly behoodi esmart girl is pratigya😉 so true...😆

BTW i think you did not read the thread Please respect others by anujiiiiiii😃....she said that those who use he word behoodi in this forum are uncivilized and she advised them to respect other...🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 eh lo eh kab huwa be

i need to read that thread asap🤣🤣🤣 ....hahaha...ithni bhi kya jathi hai behoodi...🤣 behave like a civilized girl...🤣behoodi u and me are uncivilized be🤣🤣🤣 wahi tho...