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Posted: 14 years ago
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I could not imagine what I read today in the update. I have stopped watching the show ,but after hearing what happened inthe precap I had to write something.
Prat has given up everything for this worthless man .And what does he do ,he goes and is about to hit her. What a shameful man . He will never change. He is a despicable thakur and he will always be. Once a hitter always a hitter. I want Prats to get out of the house taking Kesar with her. This man needs to learn a lesson. I am disgusted with him. I cannot imagine staying with a man like this day in and day out.
I am a lawyer ,a wife , a mother and I work with domestic violence situations. Its from my proffessional experience I know that men like this never changes. They apolozizes repeatedly and the poor wife or gf thinks that they have changed for good. The first time a man hits you and if you do not take any action ,its for sure that it will not be the last time he hits you.
Hypothetically in this condition in my profession I would suggest the women should find an oppurtunity and get out of the situationr and be in a safe place far away from the abuser. She needs to think and stop all contact with him.
Remember a man who knowingly brings you at his disfunctional and abusive home, is an abuser himself. It never matters how much he loves you ,but always remember he has no right to hit out or abuse you . He needs to be stopped .The only way it will happen is if you leave him.
In P"s case K has already attempted rape on her twice and slapped her once. In any present day or time a man will be charged with battery against him and be in jail. I have read people sreasoning K"s angry lash out as been insecure. It still does not give you the right even to raise your hand. A grown man who does not know how to control is not a man, he is a child.
Please say no to domestic violence and abuse. Please do not suffer silently because you love them. Please remember if they loved you they would not be abusing you in the first place.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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gr8 post, i loved it n its true...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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well written👏
agree with u
even i dont know y people support krishnas actions everytime WHATEVER he does.
all his actions r defended and if pratigya answers back she is named to be 'rude'.
and yes domestic violence should not be supported no matter what.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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well said and one more thing prats will not leave the house b'coz ppl wants to see her suffer and for teh sake of trps they will make her like any other bahu who just suffers and suffers to save her marraige wow and ppl thinks it her love GR8!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great post. I totally agree with you. I never had respect for Krishna and never will.
He has slapped Pratigya before and he will do it again.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusarkar

I could not imagine what I read today in the update. I have stopped watching the show ,but after hearing what happened inthe precap I had to write something.

Prat has given up everything for this worthless man .And what does he do ,he goes and is about to hit her. What a shameful man . He will never change. He is a despicable thakur and he will always be. Once a hitter always a hitter. I want Prats to get out of the house taking Kesar with her. This man needs to learn a lesson. I am disgusted with him. I cannot imagine staying with a man like this day in and day out.
I am a lawyer ,a wife , a mother and I work with domestic violence situations. Its from my proffessional experience I know that men like this never changes. They apolozizes repeatedly and the poor wife or gf thinks that they have changed for good. The first time a man hits you and if you do not take any action ,its for sure that it will not be the last time he hits you.
Hypothetically in this condition in my profession I would suggest the women should find an oppurtunity and get out of the situationr and be in a safe place far away from the abuser. She needs to think and stop all contact with him.
Remember a man who knowingly brings you at his disfunctional and abusive home, is an abuser himself. It never matters how much he loves you ,but always remember he has no right to hit out or abuse you . He needs to be stopped .The only way it will happen is if you leave him.
In P"s case K has already attempted rape on her twice and slapped her once. In any present day or time a man will be charged with battery against him and be in jail. I have read people sreasoning K"s angry lash out as been insecure. It still does not give you the right even to raise your hand. A grown man who does not know how to control is not a man, he is a child.
Please say no to domestic violence and abuse. Please do not suffer silently because you love them. Please remember if they loved you they would not be abusing you in the first place.

he knew it very well that his and prats family values are totally different from each others and still he marry her o now its his responsibility to give her space and try to fix her in his wierd family instead of hitting him and one thing which is pinching me is that here ppl are still defending him as if he did a very gud actno stand for prats only krishna
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thnaks for all the comments.
The only think I could say for all the people who still supports K after today's action and the precap is that they are merely supporting Ahaan Behl . They are not looking at the character he is portraying. I am surprised and shocked at people saying that P should have used kind words. I deal with these kind of incidents daily and beleive me kind words do not work on an already arrogant and aggressive person.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusarkar

Thnaks for all the comments.

The only think I could say for all the people who still supports K after today's action and the precap is that they are merely supporting Ahaan Behl . They are not looking at the character he is portraying. I am surprised and shocked at people saying that P should have used kind words. I deal with these kind of incidents daily and beleive me kind words do not work on an already arrogant and aggressive person.

exactly they are blindly supporting AB's character but then again its not new not only here go to any other forum and you will see ppl are moslty defending the guy not the girl 😆😆and teh weird thing is this that those ppl are also girls them selves 😆sorry but what i felt i said .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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one more thing krishna ko sherni se nahi chuhiya se shaadi karni chaiye thi sherni tou apne pe war nahi saha karti hai aur baba ka nature prats ke aik dam opp hai he ahve to suffer a lot as prats is a sherni lolz
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The first post is very well written against violence towards women. I really appreciate the way of writing and knowledge. Domestic violence should not be tolerated at all especially against women. Women are always to be respected. Of course Krishna wont be right if he even think to slap Pratigya. But we are forgetting from which family he is. Of course we can leave bad people aside to be bad always. Thing to note is that Pratigya's presence in Krishna's life brought a lot of good changes in him. She saved him from being another Shakti and also saved another lady, who could have come in Krishna's life, from the atrocities of this family. She is like angel in demon's family trying to change them into humans and Krishna is already in this transition. Therefore it is very obvious to see some demon's characters in Krishna but we are already watching human's characters in him due to Pratigya's efforts. I am quite sure that even if he thought to slap her (because he is from a demon's family) he will realize his mistake because he is a husband of a Daring lady who always fight against injustice and in the end he will be on her side. I know in real life, bad people never change but atleast examples can be set through daily soaps that bad people should change. Director should show a nice transition in Krishna. Pratigya taught him love which is totally absent in all other member's of family and it should be followed by Krishna becoming educated and learning the difference between good and bad. Next transition could be brought in Komal. Its painful that Pratigya and her family are suffering for these transitions but if they are successful to create two human beings from this cruel family, there pain is worth for. What they have shown nice thing about Krishna is that he accepted Pratigya after Angand's incident from his heart (though it took some time). In real life so called civilized and nice men, who never even shouted towards women, will walk out silently, leaving the woman in this situation. So I hope director will show Krishna atleast a human being learning respect toward women and fight for injustice atleast in his family, otherwise no point of showing this soap. Because I believe in making efforts to remove the cruelty though it is very difficult in real life, I am just sharing my thinking and I really apologize if it hurt anyone. Of course if they show Krishna not changing, same as SS and Shakti after all Pratigy's efforts, She should waste no time to leave him and start fresh life ahead.
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