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Posted: 14 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

yaar...usually i don't enter in to this type of thread...i just saw rabdi and jumped in to it...🤣...i did not read other posts not even the topic starter's...🤣...i just read rabdi below that sam's post...bas baat khatham...🤣

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Posted: 14 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: shumi.



Di keep going you are keeping my favorite thread alive, and I like this rat hole, hell hole and gunda, gundi discussion, much needed after a long time of calmness in this fourm. helping the cause of the thread starter 😆

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Posted: 14 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: anusarkar

I could not imagine what I read today in the update. I have stopped watching the show ,but after hearing what happened inthe precap I had to write something.

Prat has given up everything for this worthless man .And what does he do ,he goes and is about to hit her. What a shameful man . He will never change. He is a despicable thakur and he will always be. Once a hitter always a hitter. I want Prats to get out of the house taking Kesar with her. This man needs to learn a lesson. I am disgusted with him. I cannot imagine staying with a man like this day in and day out.
I am a lawyer ,a wife , a mother and I work with domestic violence situations. Its from my proffessional experience I know that men like this never changes. They apolozizes repeatedly and the poor wife or gf thinks that they have changed for good. The first time a man hits you and if you do not take any action ,its for sure that it will not be the last time he hits you.
Hypothetically in this condition in my profession I would suggest the women should find an oppurtunity and get out of the situationr and be in a safe place far away from the abuser. She needs to think and stop all contact with him.
Remember a man who knowingly brings you at his disfunctional and abusive home, is an abuser himself. It never matters how much he loves you ,but always remember he has no right to hit out or abuse you . He needs to be stopped .The only way it will happen is if you leave him.
In P"s case K has already attempted rape on her twice and slapped her once. In any present day or time a man will be charged with battery against him and be in jail. I have read people sreasoning K"s angry lash out as been insecure. It still does not give you the right even to raise your hand. A grown man who does not know how to control is not a man, he is a child.
Please say no to domestic violence and abuse. Please do not suffer silently because you love them. Please remember if they loved you they would not be abusing you in the first place.



Very well written post 👍🏼, Lets keep the discussion going in a decent manner. 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC


One dosent need to explain the difference between a rat hole and a hell hole. 😆 ...sam don't you know the answer for such a simple question 😆...

1)rat hole is small...hell hole is big,
2)you will get 24*7 chai in the rat hole...doodth in the hell hole,
3)domastic animals live in the rat hole...wild animals live in the hell hole.(that is why sheyrni chose to live with wild animals...😆)
4)frequently rat hole get flooded...hell hole frequently get blasted...
5)in rat hole slaping is a punniya ka kaam...in hell hole slaping is a crime...
6)mahaans live in rat hole ...maharani live in hell hole...😆
7)hell hole dadi never opens her mouth...rat hole dadi never keeps her dirty mouth shut...
etc...etc...

Iliked that finally you called Krishna as "that gunda" sam dear...i think you forgot...i always call him gunda...😛 Ok I will suffix Gunda permanently with his name like Gunda Krishna, Gunda baba, Gunda krishu, happy now 😆😆 sam...if you remember i use to call him unpad gunda mawali...so frefix unpad and suffix mawali..😆

and indead a gunda remains a gunda no matter what 😆... great point sam👏...but i wonder why this padi likhi pratigya did not know this point ???????? 😲...and fall in to his hell hole😆...beechari...i think she is not as bright as you...😉... She is much brighter then me Di, she saw that Gundagiri is the norms and way of life in that city so she quickly seized the oppertunity and become a wife of a gunda - She is a behoodi gundi herself 😆😆
...hahaha...sorry i can not agree with you😆...as you called her behoodi gundi... a behoodi gundi can not be brighter than sam...no way...😆 BTW i took so much time to explain the difference between rat hole and hell hole...you did not even care to read or comment...Ouch...very bedOuch

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Posted: 14 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC



Di keep going you are keeping my favorite thread alive, and I like this rat hole, hell hole and gunda, gundi discussion, much needed after a long time of calmness in this fourm. helping the cause of the thread starter 😆

sam...cuz it is you and rabdi i answered that post...i don't want to take rotten eggs and tomatoes from krishna haters.i respect their POV...let them carry on.i would like to follow the policy LIVE AND LET LIVE...bas baat khatham...😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

sam...cuz it is you and rabdi i answered that post...i don't want to take rotten eggs and tomatoes from krishna haters.i respect their POV...let them carry on.i would like to follow the policy LIVE AND LET LIVE...bas baat khatham...😃



OK, but no one is hating Krishna in this thread, they are merely discussing ,what was shown in that pre-cap and the repercussion of it. And i will always refrain to call any one in this forum as Krishna hater or Pratigya hater, this sounds too rude for the good people of this forum 😆😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

behoodi you forgot about his shoes...they too are very expensive...imagine prats running away with krishna's shoes...🤣 and krishna chasing her...🤣

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Shumi pls don't stop u simply crack me up🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The best was Mahan live in rat hole whereas Maharani lives in the hell hole

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC



OK, but no one is hating Krishna in this thread, they are merely discussing ,what was shown in that pre-cap and the repercussion of it. oh i see! after reading your post i went back and read the topic started's post😆...belive me i was like......cuz i can not read long posts that too those fonts were very small...i just read few lins and jumped back to this page...😆 And i will always refrain to call any one in this forum as Krishna hater or Pratigya hater, this sounds too rude for the good people of this forum 😆😃...i know...but you can not expect every one ( including me...) to be as good as you.is n't it?...😊...

it is time for my magrib prayer...i am moving...😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fruark

True. I totally condemn violence. Having said that, i would like to say that Pratigya too has slapped Krishna!!!


Plus, one thing i never understood is, Pratigya took a pratigya to revenge on Krishna. How come she never acted on it.
All she did was, she deprived him of her love(she even offered her body to him during the marital rape scene.

another thing i noticed is, how can pratigya decide for kesar. in the FIR withdrawal thing, though jail was truely deserved for shakti and amma, she cant decide that for kesar. kesar is an adult(though dumb), she should 1st decide to help herself, only then others can help. each person has ther own way of handling things, if kesar decides that, then pratigya should respect that.
did pratigya listen to kesar when kesar said, krishna loves you pratigya, you should reciprocate.
so why pressure kesar against withdrawal?!!


Neither pratigya nor krishna are puritan. both have their faults.


Yes domestic or any form of violence should not be tolerated under any circumstance.

Actually prats not letting him touch her was a part of his punishment she also wanted to teach him a lesson and she succeeded as he has gradually changed though he has a lot of reforming to do. As for offering him her body she also said it would have been rape she challenged him she did not just give in nor did she surrender.

Yes prats slapped Krishna a man who had been stalking her who was abusing her mentally, he ruined hers as well as her families reputation by humiliating them in front of the society they would be forced to face and live in for the rest of their lives when he created a scene during her engagement by questioning her character. I agree he assumed she loved him not because she gave him any reason to but because of his mentality that any women would be lucky to get a life partner like him. The circumstance in which she slapped him was far too different from a man who raised his hand on his wife because his ego had been hurt due to his fault since he chose to lie and forced her to lie as well.

I agree Kesar must decide to help herself but prats did not decide for her she simply took over because she was in a state of shock and since when was it wrong to stand up for an abused women who was incapable of taking any action. It's important to remember that the hardest thing for an abused person to do is raise their voice against the injustice done to them, prats supported her in her time of need when she was incapable of reacting to the situation.

I don't understand how prats situation can be compared to Kesar's once again the circumstances are beyond comparison, prats was living with her stalker, kidnapper, she could not love him simply because someone told her to do so. Kesar has been physically abused and tortured by this family ever since she married Shakti, I doubt prats needs to convince her she is right in fact even kesar knows prats is correct she just needs to find the strength to stand up for herself and she will with prats support.

Though it is true both have their faults and prats will eventually change Krishna in to a better human being. I did not find anything wrong with her reaction nor choice of words it's time Krishna understood the importance of being able to provide for his wife, I doubt he will hit her but it's important that he understands his mistakes and explains his situation to prats before things get out of hand.
Edited by Binny1247 - 14 years ago

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