Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Hope I agree with everything except GHANTI DADI .She IRRITATES me big time with her expressions and ill timed annoying GHANTIS .Useless woman , either talk and take part or just retire to the room .A MOUN VRAT that sees ATYACHAAR helplessly doesn't give ANY punya whatsoever . Start talking and give SAJJAN a Thwack on the head with ur rolled up holy book and hold Amma's ears and make HER drink ur feet water for a change .This woman can make a difference if she joins Pratigya but she doesnt and BUGS me .
What bugged me was Pratigya's Half Baked Nonsense .She washes the feet to show she is a Bharatiya Nari but refuses to DRINK the water .Why the HELL did she agree to even wash it in the first place ? Cudnt she say Look , if ur sick and unable to wash ur own feet I will gladly do it under humanatarian grounds but Ur not sick and this is simply EGO , Im not BUYING IT . Im not washing the feet and Im going to my maaike if ur kicking me out coz ultimately THIS IS ur house . I totally agree. Taking care of elders in their moment of need is a karmic deed. punya. but this Fear Factor Challenge should not have been accepted.Krishna so badly wants the marraige with Pratigya that he will do any nonsense to keep her in the house .She does EVERYTHING to jeopardize the marraige he does every damned thing to save it is the Story it seems . She does seem very confident in his love for her and the fact that their marriage will not be broken by him. He seems to take his cues from her. If he thinks she is ok with something he will not push it. Yesterday when Komal bought Kesar out he looked at Prats but she looked down because she had left the decision up to Kesar and so he took her cue and did what he thought Kesar wanted. Today at the feet washing he looked at her and when she got the vessels he did not intervene. At the drink challenge, he looked at her and when she refused that is when he stepped in to defend her.Pratigya Clearly doesnt care about the marraige . She doesnt care about the toll and pressure she puts on Krishna and she actually believes that she can do a police complaint against them by staying IN THE SAME HOUSE and go scot free .I wonder about her GREY CELLS .Woman , its THEIR house .Take a bloody stand .........if its WAR , go out of the house and start pulling them to court .If U wanna stay inthat house and have a marraige fine , Start ignoring them and their way of life and focus only on ur husband . Totally agree here. If you are going to do it - Don't make a token attempt. Go all the way.Neither does Pratigyas husband have a house of his own nor has the Prof given her a house with HIS Money . So on what basis is she staying in THEIR house and dictating HER terms to them ? Go , get ur house , stay seperate , and start pulling them to court ! Exactly. Stop wasting time on the ineffective courts and start implementing practical real life solutions starting with making a nest egg for themselvesFor ur POst :🤣.
Kools I agree that this moun vrat of Ghanti Dadi's is just being dragged too far.
what will it take for this woman to talk? she saw Pratigya's face blackened, Pratigya being locked up, Praityga being asked to drink filth today, krishna's helpless state and hospitalization but worst of all Kesar's pitiful state/. What will it take? I don't know what the CVs are saving her for. Are they concerned that if she talks they will lose the Ghanti Dadi trademark and people will not know how to differentiate her from Prats dadi?
Baffling. yet the only reason I sad her name is because she has never displayed any inhumane tendencies towards anyone else.
re Pratigya and Krishna.
They are consoling one another about an incident yet they are no discussing the most important issue in their lives - their future together
they need to live seperately or these surreal trial by fire incidents will keep hapenning
they need an independent source of income
If Prats has a child, she will NEVER allow the child to be brought up under that roof or in that environment and honestly I would support her thoughts there. that is a hellish environment to raise an innocent child.
Krishna does not feel intimidated by his lack of education or inferior to Prats becasue of her education - YET tomorrow when Prats has a child will she want the father of the child to be illiterate and unemployed - no matter how much she loves him
will krishna want this child to see him as illterate and subscribe to the same philosophy that he is unknowledgeable (as saxenas subscribe to)??? Will he want the child to look down on him in comparison to his mother?
Romance and love is all well and good but considering the other aspects of their reality - why are krishna and Pratigya not having a discussion on their future rather than these petty mean minded pranks of Amma and SS??
Instead of crying, Prats should (behind closed doors) tell krishna there was no need for you to be humiliated like that for a childish ultimatum, we need to move out. we need to build on our future.