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Posted: 15 years ago
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kesar is expected to live in this family, right? or does pratigya plan to help her get divorced, educated and a job to be self supporting. or better yet, does pratigya plan to financially support her?

maybe a better real life solution would be to get kesar trained in the martial arts to fend off physical abuse and trained in some employable skill that will make her self sufficient monetarily.
i am off this how because frankly pratigya's solutions always create problems for the good guys. her solutions have nothing to do with reality, selflessness or empathy. the lady gets my goat.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: waniya_fatima

@ Saathiya,

ab in the bed room he will be a new man like we have seen so many times .....krishna would listen to her justification in the room but that wont make any difference if ss decides to get an anticipatory bail then what will pratigya do what will krishna's anger make a diff?




It will make a hell of a difference how she gets treated by the 3D's...If Krishna speaks out in her support ...then they will hesitate to take her on...but if he is silent..then the 3D's will shred her to pieces ....or push her to such an extent that she will get a ticket to Maika . A privilege not applicable to Kesar...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hami,

I am not interested in Pratigya's nature..I am more concerned with the result that Pratigya's action will invoke ...

she could not get Krishna..Alright...but could not she get SS ?? could not she SMS ??


the check can be given ONLY if Kesar cooperates otherwise it is back to square one ..and what is the mind frame of Kesar ??


Krishna has stood with her in her fights...but he has never stood against his own family for her fights..he has stood against them to get her .....


You say Kesar has nothing to lose ..why do say so ?? is her life worthless..she still has a life ..you might not be interested whether she breathes in or not..but Kesar will be interested to survive ....
SMS? Tanth,,u msut be joking? she will send but who wud read?
it will not be square one..do u mean to say if Kesar refuses to accept Krishna going to disbeleive her,..
Pratigya now shud properly explain to Krishna of what hapnd...
He mite have stud against his family but its high time he realises some hard realities around and acts as a responsible man than just a majnu. this is his REAL TEST.
Kesar cosidered her baby's life, more than a girl's izaat, more than her only confidant's life....she wudnt (or now she shudnt) mind her life ..
I mean she must act strong this time..really strong!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34
Tanthya,
You know my POV...made it clear yesterday. Like you I think P has been hasty. I also wonder how her father could even advice her to do that? and not think for a second....it's like he has been waiting to get back at the thakurs and now this is his opportunity. What would have made sense was him telling her 'ok, call the police. Then come straight to your maika, do not enter that house again.'....I agree with Nainaji, to some extent, in the precap, he should have thought what would those people do to P (forget K for one moment)...the Thakurs could kill her instantly, by the time the Saxes even get there, it's over.
As it is, SS is going to get rid of the police, his hatred for P will increase, Amma and KN won't get what they fully deserve. So that will leave Kriya with a problem between them. Krishna has always stood by P but he has always stood with his family in time of trouble....and this is major trouble...SS last night said 'Police at my door'...this has never happened, he is a proud man and won't look kindly to having his family problems told all and sundry.......Krish will be put in a tough position and like all children, will gravitate towards parents in times of trouble....Also like all children, he will resist at first even thinking of his mother as a murderess, and that might create some tension between Kriya....😕
I just think Cvs, have thrust this bit in to test Kriya relationship, to give some hungama.....Kesar can only get justice, the day she speaks up. At the moment she is till timid and I don't know when she will change. But P and Aman cannot fight for her...well actually being an indian serial, they can!...but that is not true to life. I've posted my reasons why Kesar cannot speak up now in Mera's post and basically it's do with lack of support - where will she go if kicked out? she isn't brave or educated like P....she may very well decide the Thakurs are better than nothing, being a wraith living within those four walls is the best thing for her and that from now on keep her head down and eye down.....😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya




It will make a hell of a difference how she gets treated by the 3D's...If Krishna speaks out in her support ...then they will hesitate to take her on...but if he is silent..then the 3D's will shred her to pieces ....or push her to such an extent that she will get a ticket to Maika . A privilege not applicable to Kesar...

saathiya,
obviously if krishan would see such kind off treatment for her lubly wife then he wont be quite but at the moment he will be upset for taking that step as we have discussed gradually she will be able to make him understand.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gawker

kesar is expected to live in this family, right? or does pratigya plan to help her get divorced, educated and a job to be self supporting. or better yet, does pratigya plan to financially support her?

maybe a better real life solution would be to get kesar trained in the martial arts to fend off physical abuse and trained in some employable skill that will make her self sufficient monetarily.
i am off this how because frankly pratigya's solutions always create problems for the good guys. her solutions have nothing to do with reality, selflessness or empathy. the lady gets my goat.




Kesar is expecte to live in this family..Absolutely yes !!

for Pratigya to do that , she will require money ..where will she get it ??

training Kesar in some skills...implies Kesar leaving the house and going out to study....do u think the Thakur's will allow that .....No !!

Kesar permanently leaving the house and under Aman's care..Possible but not feasible for along time..she will have to turn back to Shakthi ....may also lead to rift betwn KRIYA
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: HamiSky

Hami,

I am not interested in Pratigya's nature..I am more concerned with the result that Pratigya's action will invoke ...

she could not get Krishna..Alright...but could not she get SS ?? could not she SMS ??


the check can be given ONLY if Kesar cooperates otherwise it is back to square one ..and what is the mind frame of Kesar ??


Krishna has stood with her in her fights...but he has never stood against his own family for her fights..he has stood against them to get her .....


You say Kesar has nothing to lose ..why do say so ?? is her life worthless..she still has a life ..you might not be interested whether she breathes in or not..but Kesar will be interested to survive ....

SMS? Tanth,,u msut be joking? she will send but who wud read? Tunna is literate..he reads
it will not be square one..do u mean to say if Kesar refuses to accept Krishna going to disbeleive her,.. It will be back to torture and taunts
Pratigya now shud properly explain to Krishna of what hapnd...
He mite have stud against his family but its high time he realises some hard realities around and acts as a responsible man than just a majnu. this is his REAL TEST.

the test comes only after Kesar agrees to fight and he going against them and supporting her !!
Kesar cosidered her baby's life, more than a girl's izaat, more than her only confidant's life....she wudnt (or now she shudnt) mind her life ..
I mean she must act strong this time..really strong!

I am waiting for that !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Tanthya,

You know my POV...made it clear yesterday. Like you I think P has been hasty. I also wonder how her father could even advice her to do that? and not think for a second....it's like he has been waiting to get back at the thakurs and now this is his opportunity. What would have made sense was him telling her 'ok, call the police. Then come straight to your maika, do not enter that house again.'....I agree with Nainaji, to some extent, in the precap, he should have thought what would those people do to P (forget K for one moment)...the Thakurs could kill her instantly, by the time the Saxes even get there, it's over.
As it is, SS is going to get rid of the police, his hatred for P will increase, Amma and KN won't get what they fully deserve. So that will leave Kriya with a problem between them. Krishna has always stood by P but he has always stood with his family in time of trouble....and this is major trouble...SS last night said 'Police at my door'...this has never happened, he is a proud man and won't look kindly to having his family problems told all and sundry.......Krish will be put in a tough position and like all children, will gravitate towards parents in times of trouble....Also like all children, he will resist at first even thinking of his mother as a murderess, and that might create some tension between Kriya....😕.....

Well Said ..DG
I just think Cvs, have thrust this bit in to test Kriya relationship, to give some hungama.....Kesar can only get justice, the day she speaks up. At the moment she is till timid and I don't know when she will change. But P and Aman cannot fight for her...well actually being an indian serial, they can!...but that is not true to life. I've posted my reasons why Kesar cannot speak up now in Mera's post and basically it's do with lack of support - where will she go if kicked out? she isn't brave or educated like P....she may very well decide the Thakurs are better than nothing, being a wraith living within those four walls is the best thing for her and that from now on keep her head down and eye down.....😕




Exactly....DG..


everybody wants her to fight..but nobody are thinking where she will go during the fight...Isn't it very naive of us to assume that Kesar will be allowed to stay in Thakur's nivas and continue to fight....Unless she is placed in Aman's house [Amn's family are coming ]..and what will happen after the fight..will she get divorce and leave TN permanently... or will she come back to TN...with an unchanged Amma and Shakthi ...the same old vicious circle will get repeated despite her empowerment ...in fact it will become very subtle and insidious ...

The change has to occur within Kesar ..and shud not be forced down her gullet by Pratigya and Aman ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: waniya_fatima

saathiya,
obviously if krishan would see such kind off treatment for her lubly wife then he wont be quite but at the moment he will be upset for taking that step as we have discussed gradually she will be able to make him understand.



Fatima,


Somehow I think it will not be easy .....although he has said he will support his wife always ...when it comes to bauji and beebi ....betwn izzat and pyar..what will he choose??
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nisha2010

she will not speak............wenever P had a prob her family and her husband support her but who does kesar hav ....she has nowhere to go..........she knows this well.......sending her husband and MIL to jail can she ever live in that house.........and if she decides to move out........where does she go......her parents hav fed her d belief that once married only ur funeral comes out of d house...............




But she has began to change..she has began to speak ...and as for changing..she has not yet reached the point where she has developed the courage to take on her hubby n co ....she still has a long way to go ..

the point now is will the death accelerate the change or will it completely mute her .


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