You ask the question 'does it feel right for Pratigya to forget all that and fall in love?'....She spent months with this guy, and she knows him like no one else has. This is true to life, that you only know someone when you live with them. She saw beyond his tough exterior, beyond the gundagiri he showed the world. She also saw his environment. Love happened because she knew where it mattered he was a decent guy, a genuine person who meant every word he said. That he loved her and always will.
As to forgetting, well the most horrible and traumatic experience of her life that she went through, she wrongly attributed it to him. When she found out it wasn't him....all the other things she saw while married to him made sense, showed he is genuine, that was his true self. Now she can freely give herself permission to love this guy because he didn't do what she thought he did. The rest? the saying all's fair in love and way is applicable, he just did them in his own way which very intense and passionate. We are all slaves to our genetics.......we have seen his family and know their feelings run on the surface and don't hesitate to show it. He did everything with the ultimate aim of marrying her. Nothing more and nothing less.
In the show we saw krishna going through redemption. For his forceful nature, he had to abstein and forgo her love for a while. For the slap he gave her, he immediately tried to cut his own hand while disgust filled him....... Most importantly, Pratigya herself forgave him. His final redemption was when he left after the court case. He did something contrary to his character. Rather than retaliating violently (many people expected that, encouraged by that promo) he left, to cool down and to think through things. See, finally love has beaten him and he hasn't the energy to even shout or scream. This was the final proof, Pratigya needed, and she gave her heart whole heartedly to him. She knew he was worthy, he was someone she could be proud of to call husband. The venom sucking, was the ultimate if you like. His life meant nothing in the face of hers.
Off course the above is all fiction and for a character with shades of grey, the viewers/readers need to see the character development to find it all believable. We have seen this, it is why majority are rooting for the Kriya relationship.
As for real life, well stranger things do happen. A loving husband can strike a wife and vice versa. It is upto the individuals how they progess onwards. Many people fight to hold on to their marriage, regardless of the provocation. And they are successful. Humans have a huge capcacity to forgive and forget, to a point. We also have finely honed survival skills, the old 'fight or flee' genes which is the true test in these kind of relationships.
The Q you ask is very subjective, can only be answered by individuals in those relationships.đ
Edited by Dreamygal301 - 15 years ago
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