Does it seem right/correct? - Page 2

Originally posted by: pragati.tankha

gr88 topic shruti,i don't think that it's a good hink 4 d society 2 show a grl like prats falling in love with krishna,but i think that all this love track is just on public demand.it's gonna sustain 4 ever,i'm dam sure something will happn which will take their relation again to 0 degree.

i remember d interview,where both arhaan n pooja said the'll b never 2gether on d show,this is d story,n when krishna will b transformed into a better individual d show will gets 2 it's end,this is what pearl mam has said in 1 of her interview

I don't like to believe that kriya won't be together on the show.....I remember Arja speculating whether they will ever consummate...but they eventually did....so don't like to go by what Arja says always....Yes...I remember Pearl Grey saying that the crux of the show is krishna transforming into a better individual...but again don't like to think the story will end there. 😊

".........do you feel that falling in love with that guy would ever be possible in real life?"

Originally posted by: shruthiR

Thank you Sam😊

True,it is very entertaining and has managed to throw light on important social issues like the harrassment of women but do you feel that falling in love with that guy would ever be possible in real life?

Yes falling in love is possible. Krishna knew from day one that she is the one that he will choose as his soul mate. The entire story then concentrated on how Pratigya will change him and herself to make their marriage successful for better, a sign of a girl who believes in positivity, even though it was a forced marriage.

Showing a young girl's learning process and the realities of life and human emotions that are different from her love for parents and her siblings, Two entirely opposite persons can fall in love, once they allow each other to see beyond the apparent perceptions and personalities.

This is exactly what happened here. Krishna may not have been the ideal that Pratigya may have ever envisioned for her, but the need that a wife wants "the unconditional and pure love shown by an unpad coupled with his unwavering support" helped her understand the true meaning of this pious relationship. Social setup, material status and educational back ground are important but these things never existed centuries ago yet the relationship of a man and a wife existed with love and liking for each other once they find each other and feel soul deep connection.

beta, sab TRP ka kamaal hai... there are new shows launching on 20th Sept. and the show needed to have its viewers again glued to the show...

so the girl n her father will just forget everything
the charcoal 'event'
slapping
threatening to bury alive
insults to her parents
the incident of aarushi

so all lovey dovey, u c the environment of the forums?
people like the girl who falls in love n doesn't use her head! when she voices her opinion it is called 'bhashan'...

Originally posted by: dkmystery

beta, sab TRP ka kamaal hai... there are new shows launching on 20th Sept. and the show needed to have its viewers again glued to the show...

so the girl n her father will just forget everything
the charcoal 'event'
slapping
threatening to bury alive
insults to her parents
the incident of aarushi

so all lovey dovey, u c the environment of the forums?
people like the girl who falls in love n doesn't use her head! when she voices her opinion it is called 'bhashan'...

Yes all above were incidents exaggerated to the maximum for TRPs, but this is the way such stories are scripted to impact viewers. Bhashans are the most powerfully ways existed since ages in the from of holy books, prophets and leaders, who helped form religions, socialites and cultures.

ahh any1 wud if d hubby is arhaaannn:-*

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

You ask the question 'does it feel right for Pratigya to forget all that and fall in love?'....She spent months with this guy, and she knows him like no one else has. This is true to life, that you only know someone when you live with them. She saw beyond his tough exterior, beyond the gundagiri he showed the world. She also saw his environment. Love happened because she knew where it mattered he was a decent guy, a genuine person who meant every word he said. That he loved her and always will.

As to forgetting, well the most horrible and traumatic experience of her life that she went through, she wrongly attributed it to him. When she found out it wasn't him....all the other things she saw while married to him made sense, showed he is genuine, that was his true self. Now she can freely give herself permission to love this guy because he didn't do what she thought he did. The rest? the saying all's fair in love and way is applicable, he just did them in his own way which very intense and passionate. We are all slaves to our genetics.......we have seen his family and know their feelings run on the surface and don't hesitate to show it. He did everything with the ultimate aim of marrying her. Nothing more and nothing less.

In the show we saw krishna going through redemption. For his forceful nature, he had to abstein and forgo her love for a while. For the slap he gave her, he immediately tried to cut his own hand while disgust filled him....... Most importantly, Pratigya herself forgave him. His final redemption was when he left after the court case. He did something contrary to his character. Rather than retaliating violently (many people expected that, encouraged by that promo) he left, to cool down and to think through things. See, finally love has beaten him and he hasn't the energy to even shout or scream. This was the final proof, Pratigya needed, and she gave her heart whole heartedly to him. She knew he was worthy, he was someone she could be proud of to call husband. The venom sucking, was the ultimate if you like. His life meant nothing in the face of hers.

Off course the above is all fiction and for a character with shades of grey, the viewers/readers need to see the character development to find it all believable. We have seen this, it is why majority are rooting for the Kriya relationship.

As for real life, well stranger things do happen. A loving husband can strike a wife and vice versa. It is upto the individuals how they progess onwards. Many people fight to hold on to their marriage, regardless of the provocation. And they are successful. Humans have a huge capcacity to forgive and forget, to a point. We also have finely honed survival skills, the old 'fight or flee' genes which is the true test in these kind of relationships.

The Q you ask is very subjective, can only be answered by individuals in those relationships.😊

Excellent reply Dreams 👏

Nice topic. I think it is possible for someone to forget all that happened and start over anew. Sometimes certain situations are created that one cannot escape from. Krishna proved his love several times to Pratigya and what girl can resist those charms. Also, most the the humiliation meted out to Pratigya and her family was either by Angad or Krishna's family and not Krishna himself.

Hmm.......thank you for your views everyone. I guess it depends on the individual like how a few had stated.I guess Pratigya is the type who'd forgive and forget as well.Somehow the entire thing of falling in love with your stalker seemed a bit wiered to me and like Dreamygal said we won't know unless and untill we ask someone whose been through this but acc to the storyline KriYa are in love and are happy although it might not seem too realistic but then again there are a few cases like how someone had said that a wife realized that she loved her husband despite him torturing her and stuff.I guess life has it's own ways.😊