Originally posted by: stillhopeful
Mera:
ek baat mere samaj mein nahi aa rahi hai? an the cvs are probably the best person to answer this question but u pls try.
i agree that in the beginning he read all the signs wrong and thought she loved him but seriously is he still under this impression. surely he not that delusional:
a) she told him he hated him on SR
b) she told him she hated him on honeymoon
c) she told him he was not layak for her at gol gappa stand
d) she expresses revulsion at his every touch (even when he was trying to get her out of the rain she looked like she thought he was going to take her somewhere and molest her or something) today was not different and totally expected. I am not even surprised
so what exactly is feeding his delusions after marriage? can you think of a single scene when he was concious and awake where she has given him even a hint of an emotion to show she cares for him as a human being forget a husband? what is he holding out for? nothing's coming past that gate?
I am just so surprised at his delusionary state? do u think he is in denial?
I mean I know Pratigya is the lead of the show but seriously she is not like a trophy wife or anythng. from societal standpoint she is from a lower caste and financially insignificant family. so that's out. and it does not seem like he cares about that anyways. from a personal standpoint. she looks nice but she is not a stunner. she is educated but has no job or anything like that. she is basically a very simple and ordinary girl so while I understand his interest, I do not understand his obsession. Mind you, I am not calling him the catch of the century or anything. he is endearing but also flawed.
I am jut tryign to figure out why he does not want to let her go and live independently (outside of elections)?????????
hope
From the beginning my take on Krishna's love was not how most interpreted it. I saw Krishna as someone very intuitive and perceptive by nature. I still believe that first encounter told him a lot about Prats in his heart. She couldn't look away from him until she left on the rickshaw. He is someone who lets his heart lead and trusts it implicitly. I don't see it as delusional at all. The truth is the heart knows what it does and speaks the truth. The mind can change it's perception of things and mislead but the heart just knows what is. Why else would he put up with so much of what she is dishing out for months now but he believes that on some level she loves him she just doesn' t know it yet. He may be right.
He knew it at first sight bec' he is in touch with his feelings. Prats on the other hand always seemed confused about relationships outside the family. She had doubts about marrying Nitin. I see her as someone who is scared to look within and figure out what she wants. That's why she I feel she makes decisions impulsively without knowing what she wants and why.
I see the problem is with Prats and her whole family. Prof is not pragmatic and even the sensible Nainaji is overruled by the Prof. and the three clueless kids who blindly follow the idealistic views of their Papa without a second thought. Adarsh the oldest son is an introvert , emotionally stunted who has expectations of his wife about "dung se baat karna" but doesn't think about his "dung se patni ke saat rahna". He is a fearful, anxious man who makes impulsive decisons. Prats is impulsive in her decisions and we have seen her cleaning up her mess one after another since the show began. Arushi is still a kid in a rebellious stage. The siblings can't live in their own marriages without checking out each other's situations. What a scary way to get through life.
A foolproof recipe for disastrous marriages.
Quick! Call the nearest psychologist or therapist to get this family some much needed help 😕pronto.
Edited by MERARAI - 15 years ago
