Is calling ones hubby 'aap' that important? - Page 8

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Posted: 15 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Divya I doubt if Krishna ever respected her as he says he does whatever he wants to and he showed how much he respected her when he said after marriage she's my property now so why should i respect her 😕


yeah, n so m still waiting for an answer! 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#72
as i told u its completely my opinion..
and i dont know about Kriya,,,,

but in a normal life i think 90% husband calls their wives tum but 80% wives calls them Aap.....

as i said it sounds nice......agar aap apne Husband ko AAP kahoge to app ka koi nuksaan nahi hoga 😆


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Posted: 15 years ago
#73
yaaaar wese bhi hum kyun AAP or Tum ke chakkar mein pare hain 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆v
jis ko jo kehna hai kahe

chahe wo apne husband ko AAp kahe ya Tum kahe ya Tu kahe
😆😆😆😆😆

Saaanu kii????????😆😆😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: shumi.

🤣......my case is different , till i got married i don't know cooking... not even the basic ones😆.....when i was newly married many times i have spoiled the food and burnt the food....forget about the roti shape and size... 🤣...once i was cooking indian vermicelli ...i don't know how much water i have to add....i added too much of water it became like soup...to evaporate it i was going on cooking finally it became paste....🤣 but my husband never said uff to me...those case either we go out to eat or he brings food from hotel...😃.when ever i make mistake he says that it is not the end of the world....😃.

thank you for giving me hope now my future husband just needs to be as understanding as yours 😆 the funny thing with me is that i was never forced to learn or was never taught how to cook, i helped my mother in the kitchen and just learned by watching, but now can't stand it because it takes too long and I don't have the patience 😆
Edited by Binny1247 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: Binny1247

thank you for giving me hope now my future husband just needs to be as understanding as yours 😆 sure you will get it😃...getting a goos husband/ wife is god blessings. the funny thing with me is that i was never forced to learn or was never taught how to cook, same thing with me ...cuz i am the only child she never allow to do any thing... i helped my mother in the kitchen and just learned by watching, my mom never allowed me to help her too...but now can't stand it because it takes too long and I don't have the patience 😆..it happens...more over cooking is an art. you need both interest and patient...unfortunately i don't have both...i am a very bad cook......i feel sorry for my husband

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Posted: 15 years ago
#76
My mothers idea of me helping in the kitchen was standing there watching all i did was stand there and talk to her 😆 I am the youngest i have an older brother so i have been pampered beyond belief😉
I'm sure your husband is very happy to have a wife like you because no one is perfect😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
#77
To me it doesn't. Aap kinda creates a wall of formality b/w two ppl. I feel it leads to a level of hesitation or jhijak between two ppl on the levels of respect. While tum is totally informal................that just my opinion
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Posted: 15 years ago
#78
well i think it's not so important but "Aap" sounds good so it's not a big issue in calling "Aap".
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Posted: 15 years ago
#79
traditionally a husband was much older than the wife. in india one calls one's elders aap. the wife was younger. the husband called her tum.
we call elder sisters tai, akka. younger ones by name. elder brothers are called dada, bhaiya, etc. younger ones by name.
how difficult is this to get?
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Posted: 15 years ago
#80
App is not necessary tum is better because then you and your partner are at the same level

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