Is calling ones hubby 'aap' that important? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Hi Shumi di,

I understand your explanation but which century are you referring to 😆...i am taking about today ...21st century...i don't know which century you are in?😉...even today almost all my friends who are all have masters degree and working women too do serve food to their husband( i have so many friend and relatives...almost all like that)....even i enjoy doing so😃. ofcourse even my preparation is not good my husband never forget to appreciate me and my cooking...some times if i don't sit with him to eat , when he ask me to do so he force me to eat atleast one mouth with his hand ...😛

Originally posted by: shumi.

Don't worry I'm in the same century as you 😆 That is so sweet your husband respects you and you do this on your own, I just get annoyed when women are forced to do these things.

I have no problem with serving the husband that's fine but i have seen so many men disrespect their wives and never appreciate their hard work, I always feel bad for them because they never say a word against them and keep on doing their work

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Don't worry I'm in the same century as you 😆 ...hahaha...i don't worry which ever century you are in...lol That is so sweet your husband respects you and you do this on your own, I just get annoyed when women are forced to do these things.

I have no problem with serving the husband that's fine but i have seen so many men disrespect their wives and never appreciate their hard work, I always feel bad for them because they never say a word against them and keep on doing their work yep it all depends up on the experience we have....just to eat one mouth with my husband's hand 😳i can cook and serve him the whole day...that will be my pleasure....😃

Originally posted by: shumi.

Don't worry I'm in the same century as you 😆 ...hahaha...i don't worry which ever century you are in...lol That is so sweet your husband respects you and you do this on your own, I just get annoyed when women are forced to do these things.

I have no problem with serving the husband that's fine but i have seen so many men disrespect their wives and never appreciate their hard work, I always feel bad for them because they never say a word against them and keep on doing their work yep it all depends up on the experience we have....just to eat one mouth with my husband's hand 😳i can cook and serve him the whole day...that will be my pleasure....😃

Shumi di I didn't expect you to worry 😆

anyways awwwwwww that's so cute very romantic😳 I have time before I'm married though and I really don't like cooking 😆 this could be a problem 🤣

Originally posted by: Dua143

i voted for YES....

n the reason pls

Originally posted by: Binny1247

anyways awwwwwww that's so cute very romantic😳 I have time before I'm married though and I really don't like cooking 😆 this could be a problem 🤣

🤣......my case is different , till i got married i don't know cooking... not even the basic ones😆.....when i was newly married many times i have spoiled the food and burnt the food....forget about the roti shape and size... 🤣...once i was cooking indian vermicelli ...i don't know how much water i have to add....i added too much of water it became like soup...to evaporate it i was going on cooking finally it became paste....🤣 but my husband never said uff to me...those case either we go out to eat or he brings food from hotel...😃.when ever i make mistake he says that it is not the end of the world....😃

we shud give him respect..... and its nice agar wife apne husband ko APP keh ker pukare ..is mein koi burii baat tou hai nahii....

i really like Akshara when she calls Naitik AAP... sounds very sweet 😃

and i hate Pratz when she calls Krishna TUM 😡 aisa lagta hai lad rahi hai.....


its completely my personal opinion....

Originally posted by: Dua143

we shud give him respect..... and its nice agar wife apne husband ko APP keh ker pukare ..is mein koi burii baat tou hai nahii....

i really like Akshara when she calls Naitik AAP... sounds very sweet 😃

and i hate Pratz when she calls Krishna TUM 😡 aisa lagta hai lad rahi hai.....


its completely my personal opinion....

ok, n m just curious
if 'aap' signifies respect, then doesn't a wife deserve to be respected? n Krishna stopped addressing Prats as 'aap' after marriage, so what does that signify?

Well it doesnt really matter Aap or Tum, so I voted No, but I've generally that in completely arranged marriages, where the couple dont know each other from before, the wife tends to call her husband Aap. In cases of love marriage, where a comfort level has already been reached, she calls him Tum... but to each her own.... sometimes the elders of the family also ask the girl to say Aap.

Originally posted by: dkmystery

ok, n m just curious
if 'aap' signifies respect, then doesn't a wife deserve to be respected? n Krishna stopped addressing Prats as 'aap' after marriage, so what does that signify?

Divya I doubt if Krishna ever respected her as he says he does whatever he wants to and he showed how much he respected her when he said after marriage she's my property now so why should i respect her 😕