Pratigya .....
when seen for an instant she seems to be a sober,idealistic ,irrational woman ...yet when you give a second look , she comes across as a layered person ..... A woman who is not afraid to take bullies ..A woman capable of compassion , mercy ...
one who is willing to nurse the very man who caused her grief [ as she mistakenly believes] ....A woman who knows that sometimes ignoring thing is the best way of avoiding confrontation..the backbone of her parents family...A woman deeply devoted to her family..A EDUCATED, CONTEMPORARY Woman....A woman who fight against injustice and is for equality for woman .
This woman who values truth does not hesitate to lie in front of Agni, the sacred symbol of all Hindus...A woman who is capable of hiding things from her Husband and father just to avert some unpleasant scenes ...
Sh was forced into a loveless marriage..she was cold and contemptuous towards her hubby ...she filled her duties towards her husband's family without any emotional attachment ... when a woman , her Didi [by virtue of marriage] was meted out cruelty ..she fought for her did's rights and provided her justice.....but this self same woman doesn't bat an eyelid when her own brother is ill treating his wife ...[Agreed he is not hitting or slapping her , but being emotionally cold and emotionally abusing is the worst form of abuse ] ....and here her stand for justice just sinks like in swamp.. A glaring inconsistency ...
She realizes that her hubby is not the tormentor ...but does that bring about a change in her demeanor !! Yes, She has started to give slight smile, which can be measured to its millimeter precision ...her face has lost its rigidity ...but otherwise ...😔 Has she tried to know how his brain works, what makes him tick, what triggers him off ...and yet she speaks of being friends without being friendly ...All she has done his promoted him to being a handy chauffeur .....
it is reasonable to assume that a conservative girl who has grown in a small town would know the the values,codes of relationships ...yet the simple fact that after marriage, her husband and his family has a first claim on her loyalty , duty and affection and she is honor bound to uphod her Hubby's family respect and pride seems to elude her ...
Her constant running to hr parents house too is off putting, it is not as if she is the only child or that her parents are mentally deficient ...she must stay put in her husbands house....does her mother run to her father's house every second day ....
The lesson the CV's are showing thru Pratigya is not entirely conducive to peaceful and happy married life..esp if it is a joint family
Another glaring inconsistency in Prats ......who does she really love? She says she doesn't hate Krishna anymore but neither does she love him. Okay, I'll buy into that theory for now. But let's examine the evidence.
She says she loves her Adarsh bhaiyya and sister Arushi. Right? So why isn't she spending time or putting in an effort to smack the wuss over the head and tell him to grow a spine, step up to the plate, grow up, BE A MAN and DO THE RIGHT THING? Being an educated boy he engages in gundu giri once or twice a year, taking a knife to Krishna, hockey stick and chains to confront Angad. She doesn't correct her beloved brother. Is that's what she does for someone she loves?😲
Again, she wants Krishna to change to meet her needs and standards, and behave like an educated man. She is teaching him lessons or at least attempting to, or so they say, all this for a man she doesn't love? I agree with Krishna here. She is good at hiding her real feelings for him or she is just plain not equipped to getting in touch with her real feelings.
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
