Precap- Thundering Thursday !! - Page 3

Originally posted by: tanthya

The fact that he has a unmarried daughter is not a sin...but the fact that he has not considered the fallout of his decision on her life smacks to me of considerable stupidity....

The point is not whether she is young,immature or old and mature...The point is from now on she will be branded as a killer's daughter and that he was killed cos that lafanga was troubling her ..in other words she is the sort of girl who attracts a rowdy to follow her...understand this that this rowdy does not have any pedigree like Krishna, nor was he interested in marrying her ..

whether the truth will be known or not is immaterial,once branded, always branded ..this is true of small towns..so to think that such matters will not figure in future is being highly unrealistic...
you may say what if it is a love marriage....if she continues to live in an indian society, even if her hubby were to be quiet her kith and kin will not forget , a weak moment and someone may blabber causing her grief....is that needed ??
You can be branded for a lot of things when you are married, it will never stop, you have children your branded, you dont have children your branded, you can be educated your branded, Indian society has not changed even though the girls are now coming to be the directors, top journelist, actresses they will still be branded, so you either suck it up and take it, or you answer back in a way that they cannot and will not say a word against you. in life we over come our challenges whether you are labeled a murderers daughter or not. I was labeled a divorcee as if thats going to bring my world crashing around me never i did not care neither did my family, as my father said society did not give birth,raise or fed you i did so no one other than me has the right to say what is wrong and what is right..
secondly ,

I don't see Pratigya making a go at her marriage from any angle .......merely staying in the house and talking civilly when spoken to does not constitute "Making a go at her Marriage"..you have to talk to your other half, get to know him,his likes and dislikes etc,etc,open urself to him without any fear of ridicule .....But every time Pratigya opens her mouth it is Papa,Papa..in short her family is ever existent and right in between them in this marriage of theirs..and Suk..Three is company and not a ideal way to have a successful marriage..Pratigya should learn to compartmentalize ....until then this Marriage will be in name only ..

I can see her making a go of her marriage but starting out as friends is not a bad idea thats how i started out with my husband and we've been married for 16 years😳 (and the honeymoon is not yet over) My husband agrees with you where when it came to doing anything i also went to my father, but he had no issues with it. The only thing is krishna does not know what pratigya and family had to endure in the hands of angad i wish that pratigya would reveal all the events. She fears krishna as well so she does have reservations.

Suk,

I have seen girls getting branded in towns and cities and interestingly the impact was varied in both the places,,while the city ppl managed to shrug it off in due course , the town lass had to carry it for a long time ...and Aarushi hails from a town and her family's mentality is such that she is not even allowed to go out unchaperoned ..to such kind of ppl such branding will matter a lot ad also will impact a lot ...if u have a strong support system then the society will make one or two feeble attempts but if you repulse it , then society will shut up..

I was a tom boy and quite an independent girl ...ppl would find me constantly playing with boys, talking to them , joking with them etc.. a few "Well Intentioned" People tried to do the good deed by informing her of my activities , but my mom crushingly told them, she is my daughter and I have complete faith in her ...I know what she is capable of doing and not doing...you please give it rest ...and the good citizens retired back to their holes ,,I did not know this ..It was after a couple of years one of neighbor's daughter told me this and said she wished she too got such a mother ..The point I am making is Saxena's live for the society and do not live for themselves..Aarushi doesn't have a fmly like mine ,,so if they indulge in knee jerk reaction..it will embolden the already talking ppl into more malicious gossip and this will only traumatize that young girl


Suk , you went to ur father when there were issues to be sorted out..you did not spend 24/7 thinking about them , talking about them even while ur husband was sitting right next to you ..Did you ??😊

YOU went to ur father , here Pratigya brings in her father every single sec ..that would be highly irritating

Originally posted by: tanthya

Suk,

I have seen girls getting branded in towns and cities and interestingly the impact was varied in both the places,,while the city ppl managed to shrug it off in due course , the town lass had to carry it for a long time ...and Aarushi hails from a town and her family's mentality is such that she is not even allowed to go out unchaperoned ..to such kind of ppl such branding will matter a lot ad also will impact a lot ...if u have a strong support system then the society will make one or two feeble attempts but if you repulse it , then society will shut up..

I was a tom boy and quite an independent girl ...ppl would find me constantly playing with boys, talking to them , joking with them etc.. a few "Well Intentioned" People tried to do the good deed by informing her of my activities , but my mom crushingly told them, she is my daughter and I have complete faith in her ...I know what she is capable of doing and not doing...you please give it rest ...and the good citizens retired back to their holes ,,I did not know this ..It was after a couple of years one of neighbor's daughter told me this and said she wished she too got such a mother ..The point I am making is Saxena's live for the society and do not live for themselves..Aarushi doesn't have a fmly like mine ,,so if they indulge in knee jerk reaction..it will embolden the already talking ppl into more malicious gossip and this will only traumatize that young girl


Suk , you went to ur father when there were issues to be sorted out..you did not spend 24/7 thinking about them , talking about them even while ur husband was sitting right next to you ..Did you ??😊

YOU went to ur father , here Pratigya brings in her father every single sec ..that would be highly irritating

when it came to the crunch i would involve my father whilst hubby was there because i wanted him to hear the conversation so that their were no separate issues underlying and also not to create misunderstandings between son in law and father in law because i found that my hubby and father got on and what ever my father had to say he said and what ever hubby wanted to say he said. keeping secrets always come back to haunt you, better to be honest than sorry.

When it came to crunch you involved both the men...I don't see Pratigya doing that...Krishna is always in the periphery ....I am sure your Hubby would not have liked if he was kept in the periphery or if you were to talk only about ur father, mother with him....

Second, you went your father when there was a crunch ....You did not go to him for each and every little matter ...here even if Guruji takes an extra breath, Pratigya rushes to her maika ...that is not conducive to a good relationship