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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: steffroc
of course we can gaurantee that Prats will conceive after consummating their marriage
about the 2nd marriage. most of men ( well like thakurs family) do go ahead with 2nd marriage for sake of the heir or even to prove their mardaangi( we have to think the krishnas familys background. ( in his family mardaangi is huge thing)

of course krishna can have some problem too but will his family question him?

Kesar couldnt conceive for so many years ( as they didnt know about the truth of shakti) did anyone from his family asked shakti if he had problem to make his wife pregnant? nope.

who was blamed for not giving hire to thakurs family? Kesar

i know its digusting and they should not have called her childless but in such socities such thigns are normal and PRatigya is living in the same soceity or family

exactly, when SS came to know wht shakti's truth all he did was give him one slap and nothing else!!

If Kesar would have tried to abort the child cause she doen't want wht would SS and Shakti done to her????

It's all about double stds, Komal should be well cared and loved in her sasural but how do they treat pratigya!!

the maid should be kicked out of the house first, she is filling Ammaji's ears with all the wrong things making things worse for Prats and KriYa!!

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: steffroc
yes he should have not lied but dont u htink SS will force him to have one soon?😆😆
S doesnt know that Kriya have no physical relationship

If they had come up and said well she is not pregnant the family wld have been disappointed but not questioned there married life. But now the married life will be questioned when the truth comes out. .

Agreed SS wld have forced him to have one but u can always say we r trying and stop there. And doubts abt why they are not having a kid wld only come up in another yr or so.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: steffroc
of course we can gaurantee that Prats will conceive after consummating their marriage
about the 2nd marriage. most of men ( well like thakurs family) do go ahead with 2nd marriage for sake of the heir or even to prove their mardaangi( we have to think the krishnas familys background. ( in his family mardaangi is huge thing)

of course krishna can have some problem too but will his family question him?

Kesar couldnt conceive for so many years ( as they didnt know about the truth of shakti) did anyone from his family asked shakti if he had problem to make his wife pregnant? nope.

who was blamed for not giving hire to thakurs family? Kesar

i know its digusting and they should not have called her childless but in such socities such thigns are normal and PRatigya is living in the same soceity or family

I am not talking about the Thakur families...I am asking should we STILL justify Krishna's actions???If we keep on justifying such people blaming their back grounds etc, then where is the growth and the improvement and evolution....When will women of such families have some respite??? at least 'we' as educated people who know better than them, should be able to support the truth and put our foot down when we see something wrong....no?😊

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Kai_Hiwatari
exactly, when SS came to know wht shakti's truth all he did was give him one slap and nothing else!! that was a huge disoppointment he aborted her child for 4 times and go only one slap
If Kesar would have tried to abort the child cause she doen't want wht would SS and Shakti done to her???? SS would have killed kesar

It's all about double stds, Komal should be well cared and loved in her sasural but how do they treat pratigya!! well we live in the double standard soceity. where women expect their daughters to be trated well but at the same time ill-treat their daughter-in-laws

the maid should be kicked out of the house first, she is filling Ammaji's ears with all the wrong things making things worse for Prats and KriYa!! i hate that maid. she needs to be kicked out😡

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

If they had come up and said well she is not pregnant the family wld have been disappointed but not questioned there married life. But now the married life will be questioned when the truth comes out. .

Agreed SS wld have forced him to have one but u can always say we r trying and stop there. And doubts abt why they are not having a kid wld only come up in another yr or so.

Even then Krishna's 'mardangi' would have been safe because the thakurs will only insult Prat for it....Haven't we seen how Kesar was insulted for not having kids....

So I don't think Krishna has any excuse lying like this....Now what is he planning to do??the child isn't going to pop out of nowhere....😆

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: -athena-
of course we can gaurantee that Prats will conceive after consummating their marriage
about the 2nd marriage. most of men ( well like thakurs family) do go ahead with 2nd marriage for sake of the heir or even to prove their mardaangi( we have to think the krishnas familys background. ( in his family mardaangi is huge thing)

of course krishna can have some problem too but will his family question him?

Kesar couldnt conceive for so many years ( as they didnt know about the truth of shakti) did anyone from his family asked shakti if he had problem to make his wife pregnant? nope.

who was blamed for not giving hire to thakurs family? Kesar

i know its digusting and they should not have called her childless but in such socities such thigns are normal and PRatigya is living in the same soceity or family

I am not talking about the Thakur families...I am asking should we STILL justify Krishna's actions???If we keep on justifying such people blaming their back grounds etc, then where is the growth and the improvement and evolution....When will women of such families have some respite??? at least 'we' as educated people who know better than them, should be able to support the truth and put our foot down when we see something wrong....no?😊
he could have told his family. i am jsut assuming why didnt he

now someone has to teach kirshna how to behave with women and educate him

now the question is who will?

SS

his mom

his others family memebers?

or they send him to the school. will his family or most important krishna will agree? no

so i only see one option who can show him the right path and that is pratigya.

when he was hiding the truth. Pratigya should have just told the truth

women from such families have to stand up for themselves

pratigya did once during honeymoon

We educated people know mroe uneducated i agree. so Pratigya should go ahead with her education and make a good man out of krishna

she IS married to Krishna and if she is not planning to getting divorce then she should really think about how to get along with krishna

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

If they had come up and said well she is not pregnant the family wld have been disappointed but not questioned there married life. But now the married life will be questioned when the truth comes out. .
one or the other day Thakur family has to know about the truth of their relationship and i think CVs want to bring out the truth in this way
Agreed SS wld have forced him to have one but u can always say we r trying and stop there. And doubts abt why they are not having a kid wld only come up in another yr or so.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: steffroc

I am not talking about the Thakur families...I am asking should we STILL justify Krishna's actions???If we keep on justifying such people blaming their back grounds etc, then where is the growth and the improvement and evolution....When will women of such families have some respite??? at least 'we' as educated people who know better than them, should be able to support the truth and put our foot down when we see something wrong....no?😊

he could have told his family. i am jsut asuming why didnt he

now someone has to teach kirshna how to behave with women and educate him

now the qustion is who will?

SS

his mom

his others family memebers?

or they send him to the school. will his family or most important krishna will agree? no

so i only see one option who can show him the right path and that is pratigya.

when he was hiding the truth. Pratigya should have just told the truth

women from such families have to stand up for themselves

pratigya did once during honeymoon

We educated people know mroe uneducated i agree. so Pratigya should go ahead with her education and make a good man out of krishna

she IS married to Krishna and if she is not planning to getting divorce then she should really think about how to get along with krishna

She is trying...isn't she???Is she an expert at dealing with such people???What experience does she have to speak of???She is just taking one step at a time....But Krishna isn't making her job any easy....What Prat said is not completely wrong...he is indeed like Shakti in this matter...Shakti forced his wife to lie about her not being pregnant and Krishna is forcing his wife to lie about her 'being' pregnant....

EDIT: Just to clarify as there seem to be some discrepency in the quoting this in this post...my posts are in 'blue' color....

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: steffroc

I am not talking about the Thakur families...I am asking should we STILL justify Krishna's actions???If we keep on justifying such people blaming their back grounds etc, then where is the growth and the improvement and evolution....When will women of such families have some respite??? at least 'we' as educated people who know better than them, should be able to support the truth and put our foot down when we see something wrong....no?😊

he could have told his family. i am jsut asuming why didnt he

now someone has to teach kirshna how to behave with women and educate him

now the qustion is who will?

SS

his mom

his others family memebers?

or they send him to the school. will his family or most important krishna will agree? no

so i only see one option who can show him the right path and that is pratigya.

when he was hiding the truth. Pratigya should have just told the truth

women from such families have to stand up for themselves

pratigya did once during honeymoon

We educated people know mroe uneducated i agree. so Pratigya should go ahead with her education and make a good man out of krishna

she IS married to Krishna and if she is not planning to getting divorce then she should really think about how to get along with krishna

👏👏👏 Three Cheers! Well said! She is always stuck on "thumare thakkat ke bal pur" I am waiting for Krishna to say "zidh ke gode pur bite rahi ho" in response.😉

If she has no plans to make any progress with him for the rest of their lives, she would be better off putting them both out of misery and get divorced. Prats is not behaving like a strong woman or even thinking like a married woman.

Every time she says "hum iss ghar ko apna ghar maanti hai" I want to stop her and ask " kaisa apna ghar banega kab thak apni pathi ko pathi nahi maanegi". Is living in that mansion compensation/ remuneration for carrying out her social projects and teaching this unpud family a few lessons? If that's the case I have a bridge to sell.😛

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: -athena-
he could have told his family. i am jsut asuming why didnt he
now someone has to teach kirshna how to behave with women and educate him

now the qustion is who will?

SS

his mom

his others family memebers?

or they send him to the school. will his family or most important krishna will agree? no

so i only see one option who can show him the right path and that is pratigya.

when he was hiding the truth. Pratigya should have just told the truth

women from such families have to stand up for themselves

pratigya did once during honeymoon

We educated people know mroe uneducated i agree. so Pratigya should go ahead with her education and make a good man out of krishna

she IS married to Krishna and if she is not planning to getting divorce then she should really think about how to get along with krishna

She is trying...isn't she???Is she an expert at dealing with such people???What experience does she have to speak of???She is just taking one step at a time....But Krishna isn't making her job any easy....What Prat said is not completely wrong...he is indeed like Shakti in this matter...Shakti forced his wife to lie about her not being pregnant and Krishna is forcing his wife to lie about her 'being' pregnant....

EDIT: Just to clarify as there seem to be some discrepency in the quoting this in this post...my posts are in 'blue' color....

😆😆 fine blue girl

she isnt expert i know

but i dont see her attempts to convert him in a good man

a man who has never been spoken with a loud voice, will he understand or tolerate the way she speaks with krishna?

if she is trying she should talk calmly with him.

i still dont agree he is like shakti. shakti is an animal.

Edited by steffroc - 15 years ago

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