The vindication of Trisha. Thanks, Ishaan! Rashmi/Nani are a disgrace

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

Stunner

Posted: 12 years ago

Today Ishaan finally pointed out what everyone chose to ignore and look past regarding the Sangeet incident: what Samrat had done that led to Trisha walking off stage.

I had said earlier that this act wasn't exactly unnoticed by everyone, but what riled everyone up was that Trisha the ahangari would dare to assert herself and walk off the stage. Everyone there knew why she left, Rashmi herself asked her what the big deal was since Samrat gave her so much money. The problem is that Trisha dared to turn around and walk out, confirming that she thought what he did to be an insult, and one she would not stand for. This became Samrat's public insult, because she dared to turn away and walk away from him--which meant she made a statement, asserted herself and made it known that she found his actions unacceptable.

Everyone chose to ignore the insult on Trisha, and focused on the "insult" to Samrat. Because how dare this girl be so outspoken and headstrong? How dare she not know her place and just let things go. Instead she chose to take offense and draw attention and insult to Samrat.

Today Ishaan finally brought that point up to Samrat's family, and they had no answer. Does this mean Trisha is vindicated? No. For that to happen they would need to acknowledge it and apologize to Trisha.

But at least that little fact was brought up to Samrat's family by Ishaan. Urmi's family on the other hand, has Rashmi--who refuses to heed her parents' advice--and Nani at the forefront still blaming Trisha and refusing to acknowledge Samrat's part in the incident. The rest of the family are either silently agreeing, or too afraid/conflicted/in denial to say anything.

I don't really expect any of these misogynist, sexist, regressive people to actually acknowledge that Trisha was right in walking off that stage. People like the grandmother still would say that Trisha should know her place instead of asserting herself.

But the day Rashmi, Nani and Urmi's father (because I suspect he silently agrees with Rashmi and Nani) are forced to see the real Samrat, I will not feel sorry for them at all. In fact, I just may cackle.

Edited by likarsh - 12 years ago

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@putturani

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Posted: 12 years ago

Hear hear! Samrat was so infuriating in today's episode. Supremely confident in the fact that no one could or would stand up to him.

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

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Posted: 12 years ago

Great Post Liks.

Actually the only two people that thought that Trishna was at fault in the Sangeet was SamRAT and his mother.

And after SamRAT's mother's talk with Rashmi , she then went and made the rest of Urmi's family agree that Trishna should apologize.

The kowtowing a girls family does for their daughters marriage was shown to perfection.

SamRAT and his mother still to this day hold a grudge against Trishna and her family.

And till both come down off their arrogant mountain and admit that they were at fault,

Trishna will not be vindicated.

Rashmi, Nani, Urmi's father, SamRAT and his mother when they will change their backward thinking and accept that the blinders they have on nothing much will change.

Men like SamRAT are just scared of assertive and confident women because if they acknowledge that women are their equal then it brings in front their Inferiority Complex and insecurity that they CAN be better at the same things as men.

The day Urmi recognizes that she can be strong with or without a man that will be the day we will have the last laugh.

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 12 years ago

Dolly. Trisha's family was already scolding her and telling her to apologize, even before Rashmi was finished speaking with Samrat's mother. Rashmi and her mother were doing their part trying to ease Samrat's mother. Either the grandmother or the aunt mentioned that Rashmi is trying to smoothen things over with Samrat's mother.

Basically they knew and sent Rashmi to calm the flames in that front. Trisha's family were telling her to apologize even while Rashmi was talking with Sashi (Samrat's mother).

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: likarsh
Dolly. Trisha's family was already scolding her and telling her to apologize, even before Rashmi was finished speaking with Samrat's mother. Rashmi and her mother were doing their part trying to ease Samrat's mother. Either the grandmother or the aunt mentioned that Rashmi is trying to smoothen things over with Samrat's mother.
Basically they knew and sent Rashmi to calm the flames in that front. Trisha's family were telling her to apologize even while Rashmi was talking with Sashi (Samrat's mother).

You are right but they all started on Trishna because SamRAT's mother walked off in a huff.

They did start right then because again they did not want SamRAT's mother to stop the wedding.

But I might be forgetting. You know my Ghajni moments come and go.😆

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

Stunner

Posted: 12 years ago

That you are right about, Dolly. Urmi's mother was sympathetic and told Trisha more gently that they are the bride's family so they have to be careful, and all. So many were more upset about the position they were now in as the bride's family. (Though I don't think this applies to Nani or even Rashmi. Nani thinks Trisha's too headstrong. Rashmi is too quick to defend Samrat and that family.)

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butterfly15..

@butterfly15..

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

I've been wondering for a while why no-one thought bad of Samrat that day when he threw all that money on Trisha. Everyone acted like it was fine, and I mean everyone.

I'm pretty sure in most cases when a guy throws money like that with a smirk on his face, it implies that the woman is cheap. At least that's what I thought it meant.

It wasn't done in a way to show he is simply praising her. I personally found it sickening, and I found the behaviour of everyone else even worse because they thought it was ok for a man to do that to a woman, and the reasoning was that he is from the grooms side.

Families should take care when arranging a marriage. If the guy is doing wrong before the marriage, imagine how bad he will be after the marriage has taken place? Urmi and her family are unfortunately witnessing it now.

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

Stunner

Posted: 12 years ago

Fools, all of them. That grandmother sickens me. So yeah, keep on telling that this show should show the marriage working out. Girls and women are told such bullshit and emotionally manipulated into staying in such marriages. I'm sure that's the beauty of Indian culture, the utter regressive bullshit the grandmother spouted. Yup Urmi should end up sticking through and changing Samrat so the regressive grandmother and her outdated views and beliefs can be validated.

By the way, this show is great,and quite realistic in characterizations. Even the way the plot moves forward is very organic. Kudos to the writers and the show. And thank you for having the guts to show the bed scene as it was shown. Not holding back any punches, but portraying the uncomfortable reality.

Edited by likarsh - 12 years ago

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

👍🏼I am just seeing this post.

I had completely agreed with Trish for walking out, what Samrat did was to demean her and it was very wrong.

I just have this strong feeling that Urmi will conquer, she may not go about it the way the typical strong girl goes about it, but it will be powerful.

When I say conquer, I don't mean she must stay or win Samrat's heart, but she will stand up to him and make him respect her.

The fact that she is noticing Samrat's faults everyday, the battle is half won.

Edited by dumppurvi - 12 years ago

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butterfly15..

@butterfly15..

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: likarsh
Fools, all of them. That grandmother sickens me. So yeah, keep on telling that this show should show the marriage working out. Girls and women are told such bullshit and emotionally manipulated into staying in such marriages. I'm sure that's the beauty of Indian culture, the utter regressive bullshit the grandmother spouted. Yup Urmi should end up sticking through and changing Samrat so the regressive grandmother and her outdated views and beliefs can be validated.

By the way, this show is great,and quite realistic in characterizations. Even the way the plot moves forward is very organic. Kudos to the writers and the show. And thank you for having the guts to show the bed scene as it was shown. Not holding back any punches, but portraying the uncomfortable reality.

A lot of people on this forum and I mean the whole of India-Forums, who are mainly women, always seem to turn a blind eye to the male leads shortcomings/flaws/abuse etc. and always want relationships to work out. When it's the other way round, which it isn't often, and the woman does anything wrong, even the slightest thing, people don't stop bashing that character.

I've never understood that, and just put it down to the women being in love with the actor.

With this show at least it's realistic, and there is a kind side to Samrat even though we don't see it often, but even then I don't think Urmi should be with him. I was on another forum, and the man outright abused the woman, he married her for revenge, and when the girl separated from the man the whole forum went crazy, saying she should stay with him, they hope they end up together, that he loves her really but doesn't know it etc. They also hate the mother for telling her daughter to divorce the man.

I mean why? Why does a woman need to stay with such a man, and why don't women support women?😕

In fact why don't they support other human's instead of thinking about society, and romanticizing everything, including abuse?

The sad thing is most the shows on Indian television are like this show, and they send out the message that relationships are contracts that people should abide by, and that feelings don't matter. Even worse is the fact that it's women who mainly watch the shows, and women who support it's views.

Edited by butterfly15.. - 12 years ago

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