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What struck me today was Ira's comment to Anandi when she said - kabhi kabhi maan bhi lo ki tum galat thhi - ab har baar to tum sahi nahi ho sakti. !! or something to that effect.
I was blown away. Yes - this is Sanchi poison - agreed - but irrespective there is a grain of truth here is there not ?Anandi did know enough to doubt all was not well and did not share her doubt with Ira - reason chahe jo bhi ho - Ira is not wrong in saying - Et tu Brutus !Everybody has varying degrees of resilience. Shiv bounced back coz he is young, he has siblings, he still has a mom and there is no loss of anything - except the massive jolt about his biological parents.Ira is finding it harder to bounce back coz she is all of a sudden realizing she has lost a son, she may have HAD a daughter as old as Shiv - had she survived, she has been the recipient of charity (though out of love - but still charity) and she has been considered an object of pity by the two people she has always trusted - her hubby and almost sister Meenu.Ira's loss is not small - and given her nature - she can be expected to get bitter and withdrawn for a while.But she will not create drama - she has a lot of grace. Hurt pride is not easy to forget and being taken for a weakling and pitied cannot be forgiven that easily either.From now on - Ira will see all attempts at love or normalcy from all people except Sanchi - as pretence and artifice for some time.Hope they show the family sensitive to her pain and not make the audience ridicule her hurt.
@bold - very true. Ira was wronged here and she will be bitter. But why taking it out on Anandi? Anandi had no role in this exchange of babies or even hiding the truth, she did not even disclosed this truth to Ira. She is bitter with everybody except Sanchi- why? She has seen how twisted Sanchi's mind is and it is clear that now Sanchi is dividing the family- still Ira listens to only Sanchi and has become a party in this divide family mission.
@blue- it will not happen. In the serial people are either bad or good. Ira is in bad company, so the track will unfold making audience ridicule her more and more. She will deliberately do such things that will deny her any sympathy - just like Sanchi was in Sa-Ja track.
@red- there is truth that Anandi can not be right every time- but then this applies to everybody- not on Anandi alone. And in the present condition- Anandi was not wrong neither in not sharing her doubts with Ira nor in saying that Sanchi needs medicines (giving medicines without Sanchi's knowledge is wrong though).
Anupamaa
