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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well I'm sure you can easily decipher what the Discussion this week is about right ? No ?? Chalo let me explain anyways ..


A woman portrays a no. Of roles in her life daughter, wife, mother, sister and many more .. though when it comes to our dearest Kamla bai .. she plays tye role of mother in 2 different forms .., to Kalpi and Pakiya and Aai while to Paakhi as Kamla Maa.

So 1st question is basic for which I'm expecting a common answer ,.

Do you think Kamla is doing equal justice to both these roles ? If not why ?

If you had to suggest to the CV's on how to improve the bond between Kamla and Kalpi .. what would you suggest ?

We have seen that the 2 main mother characters in show Neetu and Kamla have a slightly strained relation with their daughters .. but who amongt these do you thinj is better at her job ?

No matter what we feel like we do like the bond that Paakhi and Kamla share .. a bond that has built over the years ,.. what do you think about this relation .. ?? What do you think the future of this relation is ? If Kalpi does top the exams as she claims .. what will be Paakhi's situation according to you ?


Last but not the least Neetu is a special person in Prem's life .. while Pakiya respects his aai a lot too .. if you haf to describe the bond these 2 share with their mothers .. how would you ??



So get discussing ... Aai ? Ya Maa?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think Kamla is fulfilling both her roles superbly. Granted she has made some mistakes in that she spoils Paakhi and is extremely hard on Kalpi. However, given her different roles in their lives and their different circumstances this is understandable.
The relationship between Kamla and Kalpi is strained because Kalpi does not see that her mother acted for her own good. Many children in Kalpi's situation get bogged down in their parent's troubles and do not reach their full potential Thus conitunuing the sprial of poverty into further generations. Kamla's actions wiht Kalpi will enable Kalpi to become strong and self sufficient. She will be confident about her own capacity and not be dependent on other. We already see this coming through. Kalpi will however not see the good in her mother's strategy now. She may only see it when she has kids of her own or she may never see this. So Kamla has accepted that there may be a strain in this relationship but her progeny for generations to come will be lifted out of poverty because of her actions towards Kalpi.
With regards to Paakhi, Kamla is fulfilling the role that most maids who raise others' children do. She has reflected the love she would want to shower on Kalpi but can't onto Paakhi, who laps it up because she sees a shortcoming in Neetu's love for her.
I think Kamla and Kalpi's relationship is stronger than Paakhi and Neetu's. Despite being upset at Kamla, Kalpi still loves her mother. Paakhi hates Neetu.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If kalpi tops the exam then I feel pakhi will gt married to Pakya and Stay close to kalma to aim the bet
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i think kamala is so good and justice with her two role of mother...but i can also understand kalpi situation...she understand what her mother did its for her...but she has complain only about her poor situation and wants to be big so that her mother will be not work as a servent where her mother will be unable to gave time for her family...so she feel bad and jealous to pakki also...
its good what kamla did with kalpi its for kalpi but she should clearify this so that kalpi's emotion will be not hurt...bcz kalpi misunderstood her from childhood...where kamla save paaki where she knew swimming but kalpi not...childhood is so sensitive if some situation will be hurt u then it will be hurt u for life long,...i know as a human what kamla did thats right bcz kalpi is her own child but pakki is other's child and at that time she was with her, so she has more responsibility towards pakki as a guest...but this fact kamla should clearify to kalpi...

she loves both pakki and kalpi equally but she spent maximum time with pakki so she has two responsibility towards pakki...as a mother ( she fed pakki) and second is as a servant and care taker ( bcz for this job she get money for her family)...but kalpi is only her daughter and pkaiya is only her son...thats the different between kalpi-kamla and kamla-pakki bonding
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: onirfans

i think kamala is so good and justice with her two role of mother...but i can also understand kalpi situation...she understand what her mother did its for her...but she has complain only about her poor situation and wants to be big so that her mother will be not work as a servent where her mother will be unable to gave time for her family...so she feel bad and jealous to pakki also...

its good what kamla did with kalpi its for kalpi but she should clearify this so that kalpi's emotion will be not hurt...bcz kalpi misunderstood her from childhood...where kamla save paaki where she knew swimming but kalpi not...childhood is so sensitive if some situation will be hurt u then it will be hurt u for life long,...i know as a human what kamla did thats right bcz kalpi is her own child but pakki is other's child and at that time she was with her, so she has more responsibility towards pakki as a guest...but this fact kamla should clearify to kalpi...

she loves both pakki and kalpi equally but she spent maximum time with pakki so she has two responsibility towards pakki...as a mother ( she fed pakki) and second is as a servant and care taker ( bcz for this job she get money for her family)...but kalpi is only her daughter and pkaiya is only her son...thats the different between kalpi-kamla and kamla-pakki bonding


I agree with u in some parts. Kamla in a a way is selfish because she wants Kalpi fulfill her dream ( to be a big person and this is also KAlpi's dream) at any cost even if it costs Kalpi her happiness. I know Kamla wants Kalpi to be self-dependant, but what does not spending time with Kalpi have to do with that. She does a pretty good job of taking care of Paakhi and Kalpi too to some extent. If she doesnt do it now, it might lead r insecurity for a lifetime for Kalpi and Paakhi

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