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Vashti

@VashH

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

@ Random Squared
or perhaps these women need to realize that their is another option. they can choose their own dignity and divorce a husband that prefers someone else. law and religion has given them that right. anything has to be better than what dilshad and shireen and their children are currently living through. and the saddest part is that neither of them have any anger towards the person who has put them in this situation. do they not see where rashid's decsions and desires have brought both of them? does it not bother them that rashid is not the one answering anyones accusations whereas dilshad and shireen are defending themselves against labels like first wife, second wife and chodi hui aurat? and then when their children rightfully accuse and question rashid, both these women silence them. what can be more humiliating ?

Absolutely !! The point I was trying to make . Women needs the power and motivation to stand for themselves and stop giving the silent treatment to their children's faultless pain. !!.

Edited by VashH - 12 years ago

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RandomSquared

@RandomSquared

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Sue101
If that been the case..there wont be a show called Qubhool Hai 😛

i know that. what i am saying is that the writers have a big decision to make about what they want this track to represent.

i'm hoping that both these women realize that rashid is not worth their dignity, and putting their children through the trauma of watching all 3 of their parents fall so low.

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Meaningful

@Meaningful

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Good post - I agree with you.

In the name of love for the man these two women are playing a ping pong match with the children involved (These children now grown up, married or ready to marry, and move on in their lives). Such an embarrassing moment for the rest who is not interested in this match.

I know whole forum is happy for Dilshad/Shalini's acting skills and the drama quotient, but this track leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

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..Zainab..

@..Zainab..

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Sometimes, no one has the power of what has happened and will happen...as cliche as it sounds everything does happen for a reason...I definitely agree with you up to the kids part...out of this marriage kids are always the one left confused and broken but this should be a lesson towards them not that you should never get married or fall in love but do both but be wise about it...mistakes happen but you have to fix them...the irony is that the person himself who is responsible for this...is practically disabled...until than I don't think "any" justice can be done

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A.Hajnal

@A.Hajnal

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Word...My fav topic of the day...Won't add anything because you have said it all...!!!

But I am going to say something that may seem like it have no connection to this topic but I has...

When I was a kid, in any function or party when there used to be many variety of dishes, my mother always used to say "Take what you can eat...In your plate I want to see what you can eat, don't waste the food and if you want more then I will let you, the food is not running anywhere..."

And you must know what people like Rashid do in these functions...they go crazy when they see that there are 4 variety of dishes and they have the choice to taste everything...they take everything in thier plate, more food then they could eat...And the food goes wested and not eatable for any other person who probably came late and there is no food left...

I have always used the same logic also in also doing my job and responsibilities...

Take responsibilities only when you know you can handle...Take a job when you are done with the one was given to you...

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P.s...I have just read what I wrote...I have lost it... lol

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RandomSquared

@RandomSquared

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

@A.Hajnal : I totally get your analogy lol and it makes complete sense. Sadly, Rashid's mother who seems to like to give everyone from Zoya to Asad to Razia lessons in mortality has forgot to do the same for her own son.

This situation has indeed become a buffet table. Questions and accusations of who came first, who came second...

Shireen has a big mouth that causes us to lose sympathy for her. But in my opinion both women are victims in their own right. Shireen does not have the right to question Dilshad bc it is true that Dilshad will always be Rashids first wife. But Dilshad also was not right to barge into SM bc the truth is for the past 17 years Shireen has been Rashid's only wife in the true sense. This home was made by Shireen, and Dilshad is guilty of walking into Shireen's home and taking away whatever peace she had. Just as Shireen was wrong for marrying Rashid and taking away her peace 17 years ago.

What they say is true, a woman is a woman's greatest enemy. Dilshad and Shireen have both fallen in my eye's as they both have been unable to recognize their true culprit.

I also want Asad to ask Zoya a question now. How easily Zoya claimed the she understand relationships better. Now Zoya, how exactly should these relationships be interpreted? A little more complicated then meets the eye now isnt it?

Here I go on another tangent

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A.Hajnal

@A.Hajnal

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Haha, thank God...It made sense...😆

I agree...I have always thought Badi bi hasn't done her job as a mother...Because if she would have given the same lessons in mortality to her own son, he won't have done what he did...which is a long list :- cheated on his wife and married an other woman, left her, came back to first one, done something horrible, gave in and let Razia blackmail him, abandon his first wife and children and go to live with the 2nd wife but still never gave her the same respect and made her feel unworthy and unsecure, who to feel worthy and a lil bit love from his husband will do anything...

If that all wasn't enough, he after damn 17 years wants to undone all his terrible deed, doing what...?? making his first wife live with his 2nd one...Wow...👏

And after all this, HOW can these both women feel/think that spineless man is worth enough to fight for...?? 😕

When they were young they have done that all...I can understand that then they may have done that for them and their children but now as mothers of children grown up men and women how the hell they aren't mature enough to know and understand that they as women they don't need that spineless man to prove their existence that he isn't worth enough to fight for...

I mean, if Dilshaad would have said the samething 17 years back, I would have stood and salute her because then, she would have been fighting for her and her children rights...now what and why the hell she is doing...?? I know, better late then never...but still, now there is no need...if many years before she didn't fight for her rights and she has given Rashid to Shireen, why the hell she now needs to prove her rights over that man...?? 😕

I toh say, they should both have left him when they get to know that he was cheating on their back and write each other a thank you letter, to thank each other that they were becasue of whom they got to know the real face of that *******...

Women, women...

Dude, and here I alway thought that loyalty matters more than anything else in marriage...How silly of me... In marriage, being married is important jese bhi ho, but you have to be married...having a husband is important, which kind of isn't important...That is why Nikhaat just wanted to get married, jis se bhi ho...🤢

Oh, Questioning Zoya...?? 😲 Bad...bad thing to do...She always knows and understand everything...And she can feel every person's pain, understand every situation, knows better then anyone...how dare Asad to question her, when even the writers can't question her...don't forget that it a sin to do that...

The only constant thing that will NEVER change is that She is right, was right and will always be right...

Edited by A.Hajnal - 12 years ago