I don't understand Shiv now

How can he suddenly not care the relations he has with Shekhers?? How can he suddenly feel not going home because he is adopted and not born there...Does he not realize that today whatever he is that is due to Shekhers...Shekhers gave him an identity

If u urself is not an adopted kid or have not adopted or closely watched an adopted kid's reaction when he is told that you are not a biological child, you will not understand.

He is angry at being cheated. He feels his family knows all but still kept it from him. He is devastated emotionally at what his true identity is. So, obvioulsy he is not thinking. This is a natural first reaction from anyone.

This is his first reaction after knowing the biggest truth of his life which he would not have ever imagined. What else would be the reaction of a person after knowing that the family with whom he has been living for 30 yrs of his life is not really his own family... His parents are not actually his own parents. His real identity is something else.. He will definitely realize the importance of the love & care & upbringing of Shekhars towards him, but he will need some time for that.

He feels betrayed ... he thought he had an authentic connection (emotional connection) with the shekhars which was based on trust. and now it turns out that it was a lie. He feels lied to.

I agree...now that the truth is out...it is a normal reaction of uncertainty. ..betrayal because he knows someone close to him is trying to keep the truth from him...plus a sense of loss of belonging.

I can understand his being devastated but I don't get his apathy towards Shekhars now. Kaunsa parivaar, kya bada beta etc.

They were never condescending towards him, they loved him like any biological child. So while Shiv can be curious about his real parents and identity, he doesn't need to feel so apathetic towards Shekhars.

He doesn't even know the entire truth of the matter, whether all Shekhars know he was adopted or not, did all of them lie to him etc.

He only saw the torned page. He has not yet had any solid proof of his being adopted either. Then why so shattered so soon?

I thought his behaviour today was over-reaction especially considering that he had not had solid proof till now of his being adopted.

BTW he should be wondering more about "kaisa parivaar" for those real parents who left him or gave him away easily than those who took him.

CVs mishandled it again otherwise it was a sensitive issue which could have unfolded very well.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I can understand his being devastated but I don't get his apathy towards Shekhars now. Kaunsa parivaar, kya bada beta etc.

They were never condescending towards him, they loved him like any biological child. So while Shiv can be curious about his real parents and identity, he doesn't need to feel so apathetic towards Shekhars.

He doesn't even know the entire truth of the matter, whether all Shekhars know he was adopted or not, did all of them lie to him etc.

He only saw the torned page. He has not yet had any solid proof of his being adopted either. Then why so shattered so soon?

I thought his behaviour today was over-reaction especially considering that he had not had solid proof till now of his being adopted.

BTW he should be wondering more about "kaisa parivaar" for those real parents who left him or gave him away easily than those who took him.

CVs mishandled it again otherwise it was a sensitive issue which could have unfolded very well.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I can understand his being devastated but I don't get his apathy towards Shekhars now. Kaunsa parivaar, kya bada beta etc.

They were never condescending towards him, they loved him like any biological child. So while Shiv can be curious about his real parents and identity, he doesn't need to feel so apathetic towards Shekhars.

He doesn't even know the entire truth of the matter, whether all Shekhars know he was adopted or not, did all of them lie to him etc.

He only saw the torned page. He has not yet had any solid proof of his being adopted either. Then why so shattered so soon?

I thought his behaviour today was over-reaction especially considering that he had not had solid proof till now of his being adopted.

BTW he should be wondering more about "kaisa parivaar" for those real parents who left him or gave him away easily than those who took him.

CVs mishandled it again otherwise it was a sensitive issue which could have unfolded very well.

@Tm
I totally disagree with u 😲
His reaction is absolutely normal
The reaction would have been extravagant if it was some other character of Bv in place of shiv 😆